I sort of agree, but with a slight difference. I think it has to do with my expectations.
When I'm hooking up with a guy who identifies himself as straight, I don't mind if he doesn't want to kiss. I really wouldn't expect it and if it happened it would be a major bonus, of course.
But if I'm with a guy who identifies as gay and he doesn't want to kiss me? Buh-bye, baby.
