Do you (as a man) consider oral sex..... sex?

[Betty_Cocker]

Call it whatever you want:

Blowjob
69
lickin' pussy
or even just plain oral

I'm trying to see if I can get the pulse of the men around here.
Do you consider any, or all, of these acts "sex" or no? If no... then what, pray tell, are they to you?


It might help if you put your age range, because, just from what I can tell, I am thinking younger men in particular see nothing wrong with giving someone oral.... "yah know it's not really sex" ...

Thanks!

 

[916416]

Yes. I answer this question by answering "Would I consider it sex if my girl gave a blowjob to another guy".

Oral sex is sex...orally.

 

[ronin001]

Oral sex is most definitely sex. thought I agree the definition varies between different people, sexes and age ranges.

However in my humble opinion the Movie Clerks best illustrates the difference in opinions

 

[Mr Fixit]

If I were President of the USA, I might say "No".

As a reasonably sensible guy, I don't see how anyone could view oral sex as anything other than a sexual activity.

Of course, this may change with age ...

 

[944592]

Someone thinks it's not really sex? That just sounds like a lame excuse to have sex and pretend you didn't.

 

[keenobserver]

Someone thinks it's not really sex?

Bill Clinton for one . . .

 

[944592]

Bill Clinton for one . . .

I edited my post since you quoted it, and I think Clinton is a fine example of making lame excuses in this case.

 

[ronin001]

William Jefferson Clinton was awsum

 

[keenobserver]

Seriously a lot of younger people don't see oral as sex. A friend of mine was upset when her daughter (18) blurted out - "Don't worry mom, I just suck his cock - it's not like were having sex."

 

[Betty_Cocker]

^ This is what I am trying to get to... Do guys see it this way? I know lots of young girls do...

beats me as to why they want to leave out the "sex" from Oral Sex though.

 

[Wildbig]

I consider it heaven...

 

[likeitbig55]

Dear Betty , If I went down on you for a period time I'm sure that when you regained your senses the only vote you would cast is YES IT IS SEX!

 

[deleted972301]

No it's not to me.

 

[temptotalk]

Blowjob = Sex
69 = Sex
lickin' pussy = Sex
or even just plain oral = Sex

 

[Uncut Joe]

I love oral and yes it is sex!

 

[Ocine]

Its sex of course but its like a "type" of sex
Because if you have only oral sex, you are still a virgin

 

[Doranq]

I'm 23. I count oral as sex, same with anal and non-penetrative sex.

 

[deleted136887]

If one is caught red handed like Bill then no.
The rest of the time.....yes.

 

[bwhip1011]

It's sex.

 

[Betty_Cocker]

I'm 23. I count oral as sex, same with anal and non-penetrative sex.

Anal is "non-penetrative" ?