Do you ask a guy his size before you get to see the goods?

I do if it's a guy I talk to online and haven't yet met, but I wouldn't vet guys in a bar by going around asking. You can be a bit more straightforward online, especially if your first meeting has the potential to turn sexual - these things are useful to know before committing to the possibility...

 

Ive done much the same, a guy will come up to me & pass some comment on my tits (im 34e) & say "get em out then" or something simliar, i usualy reply " what have you got offer me then?" & that sorts the bluffers out from the potential guy with a big cock !

 

Women have often been up front in asking me what I am packing - I love forthright and confident women

 

There are some of us around !

 

Nope, never have done this. Just seems a bit rude to me.

 

Quite seriously, it doesn't seem rude to me. I guess I'm warped, and appreciate people who value time. I'd be turned on. Then I'd offer the woman a magnifying glass.

 

I agree, well for the most part. If some kind of real connection and friendship is established, then I think it's more fair game. It's a fine line though I think. Dignity versus need or preference.

 

I would say... you want to see my 2.2 inches of pleasure? uh uhuh! boom! there you go..!



yea yea 2.2 wide.

 

That's how it is with me too. Online or in a singles ad I can do this. In "real life" - no.

Of course, if I answer such ad I concentrate on someone who states in his ad what his size is. And placing an ad (yes, I did this once) I specifically asked for size. What's funny is that people who know me in real life would have NO idea I would do such a thing - unless they really, REALLY know me. I'm one of those "quiet ones who can surprise you" :tongue:

 

no, to me that's almost as bad as asking a guy his income on your first date.

 

Yep, pretty much.

I will ask a guy what he does for a living, but that is more to make conversation than anything else (although I do seem to have a thing for computer programmers and electrical engineers...and I'm a computer programmer myself, when I have a job that is.)

 

asking a living is one thing... that's very much a good topic when you first meet someone just to get to know them. asking their income is totally different though, as incomes vary a lot in every field. like penis size, you can usually guess what the income is from clues, but actually asking is rude.

i like computer programmers and engineers myself, actually. i'm married to a programmer who was an engineering major in college. those fields are filled with quirky, highly intelligent nutcases. i love 'em.

 

I hope no woman ever asks me that question. I'd probably lie.

 

Online I have no issues with asking.....I do love beaches, I can wear my biggest and darkest bitch glasses and stare at all the bulges that go by me, without even being caught...hence if i do see a big package, I tend to have my sizequeen radar.

Given that if i am introduced to a guy by friends etc, I do not ask him how big his dick is, that would be just rude.

 

Asking for most people is pretty rude, but if you've got "requirements" for a man in a relationship I can see where it would be difficult to invest so much before finding out how big the payoff is.

 

I have been asked and just told the few who did ask that I am probably average. Then when they got to see the goods they were happy. lol

 

I only ask or grab if I've already determined I have no respect for the guy (usually b/c he's already shown he has no respect for me).

 

Have only been asked by a few who I have known as least for a few days and when having sex was on the horizon.