Do you ask a guy his size before you get to see the goods?

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A girl asked me this once. Back in high school, some friends and I were standing around after school chatting, and a (hot) girl none of us knew very well came up and asked how big our dicks are, then how often we jerk off. I was the only person who told her, and she asked to see it, so we went out into the woods and I dropped trau.
 

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A long time friend of mine... has asked it a while ago.. after I gave her an "indirect talk" of it beeing big by msn... she looked Interested at the time..
sex is of course on the horizon now.. but now that I´m going after her a bit more insistant (calling her trying to arrange dates.. etc).. looks like she's kind of chiken out .. we´re both 18 so I think she hasn't been with any bigger cock until now...
so I think it was not really a good thing to tell her now..
:\\
it´s 18 cm long and 13 centimeters of circunference [7 1/8 in inches long acording to a member here, btw if anyone can confirm how much is it in inches would apreciate] Not sooo big acording to parameters here but comparing to regular size it´s pretty big acording to what I read out there...
now I´m going after her and she is kind of "running from me"
:\\
 

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That's the very first question I ever ask when I meet a man - whether he's a sexual potential or not.

The first thing I ask any woman I meet is, "Does your clit peek out from under it's hood, or does it usually stay hidden?"

It's always been a great ice-breaker for me.
 

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I've never asked because I feel if it develops into anything it puts it on a purely sexual footing from the off, I wish I could because the last guy I dated (who looked decently hung when dressed) turned out to be tiny. I may start wearing a badge saying 'Unless you're hung fuck off.':)
 

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Asking for most people is pretty rude, but if you've got "requirements" for a man in a relationship I can see where it would be difficult to invest so much before finding out how big the payoff is.

My experience tells me, being bigger than average is a requirement for pleasure ... again for me. The feeling of being full is so erotic. I have no doubt that I could perhaps enjoy myself with a smaller man, but would enjoy myself all the more with a larger man. Now is there such a thing as too large? In my opinion, probably.

So we have established that for me, it is a requirement. So how does one not be rude, not invest too much time and/or have a lot of trial and error?

I have been asked and just told the few who did ask that I am probably average. Then when they got to see the goods they were happy. lol

Very clever. I like it.

Have only been asked by a few who I have known as least for a few days and when having sex was on the horizon.

So you have both experienced being asked. How did it feel? Did you mind? What advice can you give to those of us who NEED to know?
 

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I've never asked because I feel if it develops into anything it puts it on a purely sexual footing from the off.

That's one very good reason not to ask.
And the other is that the question will scare off both types ... all the smaller guys, and many of the bigger guys, most of whom will find that off-the-top boldness rude.
So you either get nothing or a purely sexual connection.
Just my two cents.
 

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My experience tells me, being bigger than average is a requirement for pleasure ... again for me. The feeling of being full is so erotic. I have no doubt that I could perhaps enjoy myself with a smaller man, but would enjoy myself all the more with a larger man.

What advice can you give to those of us who NEED to know?

This is what I am trying to figure out too, as I am another one who needs to know.
 

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That's one very good reason not to ask.
And the other is that the question will scare off both types ... all the smaller guys, and many of the bigger guys, most of whom will find that off-the-top boldness rude.
So you either get nothing or a purely sexual connection.
Just my two cents.

I am hearing you loud and clear. I just don't want to hear you loud and clear. What a quandry.
 

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My quandry isn't about scaring a guy off, if he's easily scared he isn't the guy for me, it's how to ask his size without sounding like a cock obsessed slapper :) Size isn't all but it's one of the factors that go to make up a guy who suits me.