B_Just Joe
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no, to me that's almost as bad as asking a guy his income on your first date.
Or going to the second date dressed as a bride :wink:
I never have done, and can`t ever imagine I would. How about you guys?
Hey, snoozie, how big is your clit?no, to me that's almost as bad as asking a guy his income on your first date.
Asking for most people is pretty rude, but if you've got "requirements" for a man in a relationship I can see where it would be difficult to invest so much before finding out how big the payoff is.
I have been asked and just told the few who did ask that I am probably average. Then when they got to see the goods they were happy. lol
Have only been asked by a few who I have known as least for a few days and when having sex was on the horizon.
I've never asked because I feel if it develops into anything it puts it on a purely sexual footing from the off.
My experience tells me, being bigger than average is a requirement for pleasure ... again for me. The feeling of being full is so erotic. I have no doubt that I could perhaps enjoy myself with a smaller man, but would enjoy myself all the more with a larger man.
What advice can you give to those of us who NEED to know?
This is what I am trying to figure out too, as I am another one who needs to know.
That's one very good reason not to ask.
And the other is that the question will scare off both types ... all the smaller guys, and many of the bigger guys, most of whom will find that off-the-top boldness rude.
So you either get nothing or a purely sexual connection.
Just my two cents.
I'm getting that feeling from reading your posts. We are similar in that you are 44 and I am 43. Both with little experience and a LOVE for the meaty packages.
My quandry isn't about scaring a guy off, if he's easily scared he isn't the guy for me, it's how to ask his size without sounding like a cock obsessed slapperSize isn't all but it's one of the factors that go to make up a guy who suits me.