B_Think_Kink
Sexy Member
I attract my internet projection. Horny and hot males who are dumbstruck by my pussy.
It's a quote from the Beatles song "The End". You can find it, ironically enough, at the end of Abbey Road Lafever...and the first thing that came to my mind. Well referenced Uncut :smile:
Hey, Billybones. Really feel for you, man.It's kind of hard to answer this honestly and not sound like an arrogant jerk, but I'll do it anyway.
I project myself as a confident, indifferent and stoic person. In a lot of ways, I am all of those things. But, in a lot of ways, I'm just as sensative and fragile as the next guy. (All guys) These, however, are not the types of guys I attract. More often than not, I attract black holes of emotional need who almost always end up being too sensative. Which has always ended up making me uncomfortable. It would likely be easier if I was up front about my feelings or lack of desire to take it any further, but I don't enjoy hurting people and that's what always happens. In fact, I think the majority of my relationships have been needlessly drawn out one night stands that I didn't have the courage to cut off before they became bad relationships. But, the converse of that is when I have gay friends that I don't want to date or ever sleep with, and I always seem to piss them off eventually, when I do get into a relationship.
All my close friends are the same one's I've had since elementry school, and they're straight. One gay friend of mine and I had known each other for about a year when I started dating a guy, and when he found out, he stormed out of the club we were all at, went home and cut his wrists. Now, he only really did it for show and attention, but it becamse a real eye-opener.
The number of stories I have like that are legion. So, maybe I'm a freak and that's who I attract, but I think I'm a pretty realistic and level-headed guy who tries his best to be fair and honest with everyone, including myself.
I'd say we attract not so much what we project but more what is co-relative to what we project.I have heard more than once, they deserve each other or they were made for each other.
Either way it seems like people attract what they project.
Happy or miserable, do you think we get what we project in ourselves, and if so is that a reflection of where we're at? (spiritual or spiritual bankruptcy)
chris
I'd say we attract not so much what we project but more what is co-relative to what we project.
Yes. we attract people who want to feed off of us.
I think there's some truth the law of attraction as well. On most days, I feel like I'm a positive person and other people will respond to it well if you put it out there. On the other hand, if you're feeling sour, I think you've already pre-programmed in your head that things will go sour outside of you, too. It's a matter of perception. If you feel like crap, you tend to notice crappy things because that's what your focus is on within yourself.
I also think that the things that piss you off about other people are the things, deep down, that you hate within yourself. You get vocal about the things going on external to you because you don't have to take accountability for them. I may not like gossipers, but if I do it, I think I'll learn something if I recognize, "Oh shit, I'm doing it, too."
I have heard more than once, they deserve each other or they were made for each other.
Either way it seems like people attract what they project.
Happy or miserable, do you think we get what we project in ourselves, and if so is that a reflection of where we're at? (spiritual or spiritual bankruptcy)
chris
I have heard more than once, they deserve each other or they were made for each other.
Either way it seems like people attract what they project.
Happy or miserable, do you think we get what we project in ourselves, and if so is that a reflection of where we're at? (spiritual or spiritual bankruptcy)
chris
ummm speaking of emotional damage...have you sought the help you so desperately needed ?Ok, i've read many wise and incitefull posts, there are so many so i'll just say thanks to all who've contributed thus far. From the many incitefull posts i have come to wonder what if. The question i ponder is actually in two parts; What if a person has mastered the art of becomeing what another person seeks, does this make that person a threat to society, (as a person who can get whatever they want at the expense of others) to himself, (losing his real identity over time and forgetting what makes him happy) or both?
And if so, what kind of emotional damage(disabilities of the mind) can occur from said behavior?
chris
ummm speaking of emotional damage...have you sought the help you so desperately needed ?
Think of it in the elementals?
The elements of our physicality (not just talking about body but face, eyes, all that) and the elements of our mentality...
Are some elements complimentary? This type of being gets the inverse of that type. Or are some additive? This type of being gets more duplicates of that type. Or are some tempestuous? This type of being gets a type of being that will always clash by its design.
I really think this can be mapped out if we understood the brain better. There are elements which make up our emotional and mental personas. And then our image (what we look like) and audio (what we sound like) add further layers to the puzzle.
Even our odor and flavor (what we smell and taste like).
Not to mention our auras. (what we feel like).
Elements become composite when all included together which create the situation where certain elements in that composite draw one type of thing while others draws another type. And depending on the elemental makeup what's drawn in can clash with an associate element which causes all the confusion since we don't realize any of this going on.
I don't think it's as simple 'we attract what we project'. There's some individual components inside our being that have a certain relationship with other components and will always behave that way only that we all have varying setups of those components.
The question is what are all these elements and how do they work?
John Lucas