Do you attract what you project?

[mitchymo]

I attract creepy lookin old guys....i'm not creepy or old....please tell me i'm not creepy or old sob sob

 

[lafever]

Yes! I most certainly attract what I project.

 

[AM_092]

No, I don't really get cute, young, happy Asian bottoms coming after me!!

 

[willow78]

Yes.

I am quite shy in real life so I project nothing and I get nothing in return.

 

[NoH8]

I'm not sure what I project. Nobody's attracted to me. I'm polite and mostly act friendly, even when I'm depressed. Girls seem to like me as a friend but men ignore me.

I guess people have a sixth sense for someone who's unhappy but hiding it.

 

[helgaleena]

I'm not sure what I project. Nobody's attracted to me. I'm polite and mostly act friendly, even when I'm depressed. Girls seem to like me as a friend but men ignore me.

I guess people have a sixth sense for someone who's unhappy but hiding it.

Yes, they do. The solution is to do something to make yourself more happy first. Wherever you go, there you are...you will always have yourself along even when you go out to make new friends and acquaintances.

I am glad this thread was revived! I live a lot by the wisdom in songs.

 

[NoH8]

Yes, they do. The solution is to do something to make yourself more happy first. Wherever you go, there you are...you will always have yourself along even when you go out to make new friends and acquaintances.

I am glad this thread was revived! I live a lot by the wisdom in songs.

Thanks Helgaleena, I appreciate your advice. It's hard to pull oneself up by ones own bootstraps though. I travel constantly for work so I don't have meaningful friendships. So I don't know how to make myself happier.

 

[joeburger]

i try to attract what i project but it's hard, there's a lot of phonies out there.

 

[WillyLong]

I have heard more than once, they deserve each other or they were made for each other.
Either way it seems like people attract what they project.

Happy or miserable, do you think we get what we project in ourselves, and if so is that a reflection of where we're at? (spiritual or spiritual bankruptcy)
chris

We attract what we think we deserve. If we feel we only deserve to be with a bitch/bastard, then that's what we normally end up with, pushing aside the guy/gal who would treat us like royalty.

 

[helgaleena]

Thanks Helgaleena, I appreciate your advice. It's hard to pull oneself up by ones own bootstraps though. I travel constantly for work so I don't have meaningful friendships. So I don't know how to make myself happier.

I like myself; I think I'm grand. When I go to the movies I hold my hand. I put my arm around my waist, and when I'm fresh, I slap my face.
That's a song I learned early, but it took me years to learn its wisdom.

Wrap yourself in a cozy comforter tightly and cocoon, if all else fails. Drift off to sleep like that like an infant. You will feel better when you wake up.