do you believe a guy can be 100% straight?

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I should post more. Much more. Seems people have a very loose understanding of the definition of logic. You apparently being one of them.:biggrin1:

Simple me? yeps yeps yeps and yeps.

But not the guy who doesn't understand the difference between behaviour and sexuality...
 

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How's about you do that lol. Maybe then you get a glimpse of it for once. lol I'm sorry you left yourself wide open for that one. :biggrin1:

I'm sure you guys are very cool people and smart too. (no i actually mean it) I just think its a very bad idea to make judgments about a whole group of people. Let alone the whole entire human race.

Well, you may not have gotten the entire 360 degree point of what's being said here.

So to summarize what I'm personally saying:

1) Sexual situations involving other people of your same sex (whatever they may be) are not completely heterosexual in nature. Including guy on girl "straight" porn. However, what you view doesn't make you anything by default.

2) I don't think people can be 100% anything in life. Whether that's a sexuality, a mindset, or a 'whatever' that is intangible. Absolutes, when it comes to anything like that, are few and far between. I do, however, think you can be 99% something like that.

3) Bottom line, people choose their own sexual preference, which is not necessarily (it may or may not be) correlated with the type of porn they watch. Watching a certain type of porn doesn't automatically make you straight, gay or bi. The porn is what it is. The person's actually preference is up to them.

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But based on the responses I get to what I'm posting from certain people, I'm not so sure they really get at all why I mean. :rolleyes:

Is all of that really 'that' bad or out there?
 
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I can point you to definitions in the dictionary. Does that count?

Myself and others have at very least brought up valid points based on facts (i.e. definitions of words & the use and misuse of those words).

The prevailing argument of the people on the bandwagon is simply to take what's been said and reply with a "Not it's not," type of thing.

Yeah you've just pointed out the problem in the thread which is we are still arguing semantics or definitions. I was hoping for more empiricle evidence beyond the semantic dispute. Now I know how you define stuff I can still disagree with it but I'd prefer to debate some facts rather than the definitions.

I'm not blaming you of course, because I think there has been far too little good research on sexuality. The last major book I remember on male sexual response was the one by Shere Hite in the 1990's called the Hite Report which stirred up so much controversy. Are you aware of anything since then?
 
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Hell no. Sure, there are probably some 100%'s out there but I'd bet there are more totally gay men than totally straight men. The guy who is the first to tell you he isn't gay at all is also the one who finds lesbian porn kinda boring. You would have some extremely upset "totally straight" men if they were never allowed again to whack off to a dick in their porn.

I have two sayings on this:

While I don't think every man is gay, I do think every man has the potential.

If being straight caused a man to get labeled a fag then only 3% if men would admit to it.


.... It is amazing how many guys will cruise you when no one else is around however there is a ratio aspect to this meaning the more homophobic the town is the more likely it is you're going to get cruised.
 

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If I am attracted to men I am gay or bi
If I am attracted to women I am straight or bi
If I admire a man for doing something special I am gay or straight or bi
If I admire a woman for doing something special I am gay or straight or bi
If I fantasize I am the man I admire for doing something special I am gay or straight or bi
If I fantasize I am the woman I admire for doing something special I am gay or straight or bi (and probably weird .. :tongue:)

See? Admiring nor fantasizing does tell anyone anything about my sexual preferences.