do you believe a guy can be 100% straight?

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http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/.a/6a00d8341c630a53ef01310f869aeb970c-320wi

Super Straight Men unite!

Defenders of the Universe!

Chosen Procreators of the Human Race!

Unplagued by the Gay & Bisexual Virus!

Impervious to the effects of the attractiveness of other men!

Long Live the 150% Straight Men!

The bold part gave me a chuckle. You think straight guys see you in such bad way, maybe you want to believe they're in some kind of denial.

I think you're right though, I am impervious to the attractiveness of other men. Why? because in order for there to be attraction there has to be some kind of appeal, for which I don't have towards other men. To accept that someone is good looking doesn't mean you're attracted to them.

Some SUV's are nice looking, but they're too big and rugged for my taste, plus I don't want a car with a v8 engine. Nothing wrong with saying it's a nice car but i'm more of a coupe guy, smaller and more compact.
 

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As far as the bolded part, my CountryGuy and I talk about this quite often and we have very different opinions.

It is his opinion that there is a difference and you can find someone "attractive" but not necessarily want to have sex with them.

I have the complete opposite opinion. Since we seek out "attractive" people to have sex with, it doesn't make sense to me to say "Well this person is attractive and I want to have sex with them and this person is attractive but I don't want to have sex with them." It just doesn't make sense - to me. If I didn't want to have sex with them, I wouldn't be describing them as attractive .

In CG's own words, using the word "attractive" to describe someone is a general term and is not necessarily high on a scale of 1 to 10.

In my words, using the word "attractive" to describe someone is the highest honor and it means they are a 10 out of 10 and completely irresistible.

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As you can see, two very different opinions. :wink:
I'm with CG n this one.

There are many people who are attractive(aesthetically pleasing) but I have zero desire for them That is not denial, just simple facts. Word that describe attractive: Handsome, beautiful, pretty, cute...all describe it to a certain degree.

Like...Ok I find whoever to be attractive, but I don't want to have sex with him. He is good looking but his body type is not my preference. But just beacuase I am not SEXUALLY attracted to a person, does not mean that they are not AESTHETICALLY attractive to me. They are pleasing to the eye, but that is it.

Now if I say someone is fucking hot,well,that leaves very little room for ambiguity :lmao:

edit: I won't even get into how I can find someone EMOTIONALLY attractive or have and attractive personality and not be sexually attracted to them in the least. Ideally they are aesthetically attractive (to me, and I have a wide range of what i think is attractive), sexually attractive, emotionally attractive, and have an attractive personality. Though now we are veering to far of topic, I think, lol
 
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i AM attracted to men, yet there are plenty of men who, while i appreciate their attractive qualities, don't sexually attract me in the least.

to say a person MUST be attracted to both genders is like insisting they MUST be attracted to all body types, all ages, all looks. it makes no sense to me. we all have preferences.
 

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The bold part gave me a chuckle. You think straight guys see you in such bad way, maybe you want to believe they're in some kind of denial.

I think you're right though, I am impervious to the attractiveness of other men. Why? because in order for there to be attraction there has to be some kind of appeal, for which I don't have towards other men. To accept that someone is good looking doesn't mean you're attracted to them.

Some SUV's are nice looking, but they're too big and rugged for my taste, plus I don't want a car with a v8 engine. Nothing wrong with saying it's a nice car but i'm more of a coupe guy, smaller and more compact.

Yes, most straight guys (like most people in society) view being straight as good and being gay/bi as bad. The implication is that being straight is tough and manly, and being gay or bi is weak and girly.

Maybe you do not think this way, but most straight people do. And the majority of societies certainly do as well.

Repeating, "I'm 100% straight!" is almost like pushing that same agenda and view point. As if you need to make the distinction that you're on the good side, and the other people are on the bad side.

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I don't know or care if it's some form of denial, but you're not impervious to the attractiveness of men. You think you look good, right?

And I'd be willing to be that you saw some guy in a movie, or fitness magazine, or somewhere in public and thought "Hey, they look cool... I'd like to look like or be like them."

That is having appeal for other men, which is the fine line between attraction and sexual attraction imo.
 
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I'm with CG n this one.

There are many people who are attractive(aesthetically pleasing) but I have zero desire for them That is not denial, just simple facts. Word that describe attractive: Handsome, beautiful, pretty, cute...all describe it to a certain degree.

Like...Ok I find whoever to be attractive, but I don't want to have sex with him. He is good looking but his body type is not my preference. But just beacuase I am not SEXUALLY attracted to a person, does not mean that they are not AESTHETICALLY attractive to me. They are pleasing to the eye, but that is it.

Now if I say someone is fucking hot,well,that leaves very little room for ambiguity :lmao:

edit: I won't even get into how I can find someone EMOTIONALLY attractive or have and attractive personality and not be sexually attracted to them in the least. Ideally they are aesthetically attractive (to me, and I have a wide range of what i think is attractive), sexually attractive, emotionally attractive, and have an attractive personality. Though now we are veering to far of topic, I think, lol

I get what you are saying.

For me, the word "attractive" is just that coveted word that is the highest description. I would only use that to describe someone who I thought was really hot face wise, body wise & personality. And who I really wanted to have sex with.

CG tends to use it more generally, in basic terms and all the time. So at first I was confused why he was telling me he wanted to have sex with all these people but now I know different! :tongue:
 

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I get what you are saying.

For me, the word "attractive" is just that coveted word that is the highest description. I would only use that to describe someone who I thought was really hot face wise, body wise & personality. And who I really wanted to have sex with.

CG tends to use it more generally, in basic terms and all the time. So at first I was confused why he was telling me he wanted to have sex with all these people but now I know different! :tongue:

Silly, you know I want to have sex with Everyone!! :tongue:
 

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I get what you are saying.

For me, the word "attractive" is just that coveted word that is the highest description. I would only use that to describe someone who I thought was really hot face wise, body wise & personality. And who I really wanted to have sex with.

CG tends to use it more generally, in basic terms and all the time. So at first I was confused why he was telling me he wanted to have sex with all these people but now I know different! :tongue:

Silly, you know I want to have sex with Everyone!! :tongue:

Of course you do!! :wink:

LOL you two are so adorable! CG is just a tad closer to Nico speak than you are lol We seem to use attractive in the same way. Thank you for the response Mr. AM! It is interesting how differences in definition put a whole spin on words. :biggrin1:
 

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Pretty sure I am. I've nothing against homosexuality, but I never imagine being intimate with a man. It does nothing for me. Occasionally stories shared here from well endowed straight men pique my interest, but that is only because I sometimes vicariously imagine what it's like to be in their position, even though I have never been dissatisfied with my own, average sized cock. It's kind of like a woman with B or C cups who is happy with her body, that sometimes wonders what it'd be like to have huge breasts for a day, but not wanting that permanently.
 

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Yes.

Im 100% straight and unless im some kind of genetic/social anomaly I cant be the only one.

And if I exist then statically the opposite exists.
 

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Yes, in preference, but not really in orientation...

Most men have some same-sex attraction simply because they themselves are male and enjoy being that. This will very naturally lead to some "jealously" attraction (big penis, muscles, etc.). Straight porn, for example, verifies over and over again men's attraction to the penis.
 
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Yes.

Im 100% straight and unless im some kind of genetic/social anomaly I cant be the only one.

And if I exist then statically the opposite exists.

Maybe you're a genetic/social anomaly havinv nothing to do with sexual orientation. Maybe :biggrin1:
 

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Yes, in preference, but not really in orientation...

Most men have some same-sex attraction simply because they themselves are male and enjoy being that. This will very naturally lead to some "jealously" attraction (big penis, muscles, etc.). Straight porn, for example, verifies over and over again men's attraction to the penis.


This is the point I keep trying to bring up and I think people keep missing it! :tongue:
 

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I think this site and the willingness of 100% straight guys to join it also reaffirms your notion as well. :smile:

(I'm 100% anti-carrots, in preference :tongue:)