Do You Care If I Look?

[B_BraxtonHartnabrig]

do you have to ask this question....its an invasion of privacy bro

 

[Svidrigailov]

If it's LOOKING, as in more than 2 seconds, I'd care.

It depends if it's a glance. If you have to turn your head or lean your body to the side or do anything obvious in order to sneak the glance, that's a bit overboard in my opinion. If it's in your cone of vision already and all it takes is a quick eye movement, I don't care.

 

[D_CountVonBhigBohner]

nope don't care....look away

 

[sdbg]

If you had a friendly demeanor and smiled, I'd be okay with it.

 

[JohnDoeXXXm]

mutual admiration, even from strangers, is sometimes what helps us identify with being a man. For me it all comes down to following my gut- that general sense about reading a stranger when you first see him- if you are (on a scale)

frightened by him,
repulsed by him,
neutral to him,
intrigued/curious about him,
attracted to him, or
feel like you have found your soul mate.

For me, as long as it's not the first two, If I'm not distracted by life's daily trials and I am *attentive* to what he's up to- I will often time 'be a pal' and let him look. No harm done. Why not? Especially if he switches hands to display his own goods my way. Obviously he wants to be seen, and to take a peek himself.

It's when I feel threatened or repulsed by someone that I will cover up and afford no private viewing of my body- because even though i am in a public/private place I can still control how much of my body is displayed and seen by whom.

It's the same way for me if I'm in the locker room at the gym. I'll uncover if I feel comfortable, or if it's clearly invited and returned behavior by someone I have a modest level of interest or attraction to (even on an emotional/mental level) but if I feel the victim of wandering creepy eyes, I show a towel and a scowl. That's it.

 

[Endued]

Yes, I'd care, because it's pretty fucking rude.

 

[JohnDoeXXXm]

if a bathroom has dividers between the urinals that are effective, basically I think the game is pretty much over- unless the guy backs up after he's finished and puts on a big 'production' of putting everything away. I've done that before when pissing next to a buddy- you know... drunk and still continuing the conversation...

But in the situation at a trough, or maybe O'Hare airport... if guys are looking around and looking for other guys that are making eye contact and looking... I refer to my comfort level and act accordingly.

It's all male posturing and positioning the alpha dog, anyway... and that's about as natural male behavior as you can get.

 

[ericbythebay]

It's all about context, the bar I was at last night had an mirror above the trough.

 

[Pendlum]

It has been said before, but I'll say it as well. I'm not going to the bathroom to have my junk looked at. So I do care, in the sense that I will think you are a creep and if you try to strike up a conversation with me, I will ignore and avoid you. Or maybe be an asshole and say something like "I don't talk to people who stare at my cock in the bathroom." depending on my mood.

 

[D_Ming_Vais]

flashing = please look at my naked bits
streaking = please look at my naked bits
stripping = please look at my naked bits
peeing = my bladder is full and i need to empty.

Three of these things belong together
Three of these things are kind of the same
Can you guess which one of these doesn't belong here?
Now it's time to play our game (time to play our game).

Love your posts Dolfette.

About the topic, invasion of personal space is smth i hate. Looking and bending to look are not the same thing. Although i like to be seen, if smb 10 inches far bends to look, i ll hate it. ( Counts only for urinals )

 

[art]

It doesn't bother me if guys look at m y cock, so long as they don't get grabby.

 

[pwrdick]

When I was a younger man, I had problems using urinals when others were nearby. A 'pee shy' guy like me back then is going to have a much bigger problem starting to pee if others are obviously looking at his dick. Its a farily common problem and its awfully embarassing to stay standing in front of a urinal praying that the flow would start.

I've moved on from being pee shy. I don't even have a problem using a urinal in Japanese mixed gender public restrooms when gals are moving in and out of the toliets.

But I have a lot of empathy for anyone who is pee shy and would hate to do anything to aggrevate it.

 

[B_quietguy]

I don't care if somebody glances, but I don't go to public urinals with the intent to put my dick on display.

 

[D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead]

There's looking and there's looking.

I've had times when, in the locker room or mens room, someone's momentarily cranked their head towards me because they just had the reaction that ... well, that it was larger than they were expecting.

Most guys are cool about it, and return eyes forward without gawking or staring. If you glance down and look at my cock, be cool and don't make me regret being open about it.

 

[B_New End]

Until this site, I didn't even know some people did that. I care. If I ever caught someone peering over a divider I would piss on their shoes.

 

[424365]

I don't personally care myself its just another part of me. I don't care if you take a look just like i wouldn't care if you looked at my arm, elbow or foot haha. I was brought up in a family of Marines and none of us are homophobes in any way though some people think we are for that very reason. Odd isn't it?

 

[Ed69]

If your gonna look,be ready to suck it!!

But realy,why would I care?I've had plenty of other men look It means nothing to me.Unless you realy want to blow me!

 

[gaston28]

nope

 

[prepky]

nope not at all....

 

[joeweekend]

Hell, I like it.

Guys: a variation on the question - do you mind if I check you out in such a way you don't even know it? Does that bother you?