I happen to like the frontal attributes of a woman, and nice, dainty feet. Open toed shoes are a real turn on. If she is not facing me, I will move so that I get a frontal view. I like my women gentle and sweet, but with a strong personality. No wilting violets, please.
Men, I look for the opposite side than I do with women. First, I enjoy and appreciate a fine, firm butt. I am not particular about the size, just that they are not huge and flabby, and it's a definite plus if they are hairy. I like men with a slight bowing of the legs. Why? I have no idea, escept there just might be more room to hang. I will go out of my way to find a good rear viewing position. After I've gotten a good look at the butt, then I look for the basket. I like strong, masculine, and hairy men. No wilting violets here either, please. However, that said, I prefer to be the dominant one in a MM relationship, and by that I don't mean in a S&M way.