Do you consider yourself attractive? How does your appearance affect your life in a positive or negative way?

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Do you consider yourself attractive? How did you get to that conclusion, based on your own perception or based on how other people tell/behave around you?
How does your appearance affect your life?
 
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Do you consider yourself attractive? How did you get to that conclusion, based on your own perception or based on how other people tell/behave around you?
How does your appearance affect your life?
Yes totally, always have been fit & attractive, example if i walk in to a room the men including the women start flirting with me especially then women, lots of eye contact, smiling etc, i am used to it, i do it back too but honestly have little interest in women, when i have a date which i avoid at all costs because i don't like the needy types that i seem to attract. I always get that crap about, fuck you're so sexy looking bla bla bla or you don't look like the type to be such a slut etc. As for life it gives you many opportunities, manly success, i do take it a little for granted & my official mensa iq classification score is 184 that helps me too. If i go out cruising i always get men following me around until i give them sex.
 

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I was a very intelligent and popular kid through childhood, but I was a bit of an ugly duckling. By late high school years, I “bloomed” into the guy the popular cheerleaders wanted to date. Fortunately, I soon discovered that I was gay, and have led a charmed life with all the joys and troubles you describe @barehole4use
 

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I suppose I'm ok. However I get pretty insecure about my looks sometimes to the point where it stops me from approaching women (or even guys for that matter) to pursue a casual one night stand.
 
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EDIT (since there's apparently 5 minute limit on editing a comment for whatever reason): a couple girls in high school said I was cute but I didn't take them seriously so nothing ever came of that. At the time I was barely 5 feet tall, maybe 90-100 pounds soaking wet, and often had terrible acne. What the hell girl would want that? That was my line of thinking. Fast forward to today (I just turned 43): sometimes I still wanna be taller (I'm only 5'4", pretty short for a guy), hotter, have a broader frame body type, and of course a bigger cock.
 

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Do you consider yourself attractive? How did you get to that conclusion, based on your own perception or based on how other people tell/behave around you?
How does your appearance affect your life?
No I don't based on both comments and expectations from others and my own impressions.of what I should look like.
 
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