Do you deserve an equally endowed partner?

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  1. AverageJoe06

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    I've always wondered.... do guys with big dicks (no, not you... the guys with the *really* big dicks) feel like you deserve women with big tits? You know, endowed for endowed and all that? Or the opposite - do you like small tits to make you feel even more endowed in comparison?

    Do you feel like because Mother Nature blessed you that you deserve a partner equally blessed? And that goes both ways - you women who are endowed upstairs (I'm not calling any names, but WildHoney and Dolfette... :biggrin1:), do you think by the laws of nature you are entitled to a partner equallly endowed downstairs?

    (For gay members, substitute dick for tits where appropriate. The idea is the same.)
     
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    I feel that I'm a pretty good catch and deserve to have partners whom I find attractive and worthwhile. Maybe this has a little to do with my endowment but not much. I just respect myself enough not to settle for someone I don't actually want to be with. I think that this should go for anyone, regardless of how big their dick is.

    and I wouldn't want a woman with tits as big (statistically speaking) as I am endowed. I'm not a fan of DDDDs anyway. I don't get your small tit = bigger penis psychology, either.
     
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    YES! Dammit I DESERVE A BIG COCK!!

    Ummm no..but my hubby stays i strut like a guy with a 10 inch cock...so I'd say that with a big cock you feel more manly.....sometimes with big tits you feel very feminine and womanly.
     
  4. AverageJoe06

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    Well, I know a few well-hung guys whom I count rather loosely as friends, and I can think of one in particular who only dates flat-chested girls because he thinks they are more easily impressed by a big cock than busty girls. Don't know what else to say about that.....

    They aren't the kinds of friends I can ask this question of, however.....
     
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    ive always had a fetish for massive tits. but ie never felt i deserve them if that makes any sense. At the end of the day its just personal preferance.
     
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    May not deserve it, but, would like it.
     
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    That's just weird.

    Then again, I had a friend who studied up on what the regular diet for silverback gorillas was and then spent a few years eating twigs and grass and crap because he thought it would make him strong as a gorilla... so....
     
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    LOL... I suppose I should have said "prefers" instead of "only dates' because the statement was only made once over something like 20 beers. :tongue: But it stuck with me for some reason, prompting the question. I can't account for the statement, only report it.
     
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    I like my partners endowed with a spark of brilliance, a great sense of humor, a positive outlook, a gentle disposition, a penchant for playfulness and a fondness for physical affection.

    And a job. Never date anybody without a job.
     
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    "Deserve"? If anyone deserves anything in a mate, body parts are probably the LAST thing on the list.
     
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    I find the notion of big breasts somehow being better than small ones very offensive and downright ridiculous. Yes, I know there are a lot of guys who prefer large breasts over smaller ones, but there are also many many blokes who like them small (like Mr. OBsessed). And then there are those who don't give a shit either way.

    Is size really more important than, say, shape and firmness?

    Besides, comparing cocks and tits = wtf?
     
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    Comparing cocks & tits is typical because they both stick out from the body.

    Size determines how easily they can be seen through clothing.
     
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    I alluded to this phenomenon a couple of days ago in the "Boobs" thread. Make of it what you will:

    In the past, I didn't consider myself well endowed. In fact, I managed to convince myself via some form of self-delusion that I was small. And during that time, I dated mainly - in fact, almost exclusively - women with small breasts. It wasn't that I was only attracted to women with small breasts, or only approached women with small breasts - it just seemed to work out that way.

    In recent years I have become a lot more comfortable with my penis size and my body type generally. And (coincidentally??) the vast majority of the women I have been with recently have been comparatively large-breasted. Again - it's not like I haven't been attracted to smaller chested women, or haven't made advances. I can't explain it - although it's probably related more to a different air about me (more self-confidence) than anything else. But the deeper meaning eludes me.
     
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    i deserve a partner that loves me for the whole sum of my parts !!
     
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    I most certainly do not believe I deserve a well endowed woman, but I do like them and hope I find someone I am as equally turned on by. I guess I enjoy the extras a well endowed woman can bring to my endowment.
     
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    Yes, as an unhung man who frequents this site (for some reason), I find that notion unfortunate, but I've come to deal with it. No not all guys consider bigger breasts "better" just as not all girls consider bigger cocks "better"... i hope.

    I do understand the analogy of small tits big penis. If I'm with a woman who's small I may feel like more of a stud (at 6"). But if I'm with a woman with giant breasts I could see feeling inadequate. (Picture me with my jaw open)
     
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    I don't. But I like having a girlfriend with big tits even if she is a bit nuts. I asked her just the other night if the guys who came onto her had bigger dicks and she said that wasn't the case. One guy was REALLY confident and had the smallest penis she's ever seen. She said his dick didn't even get past her palm (3-3.5")

    I just want a nice girl who will be nice to me too. Her bra size isn't important. But I do actually want a girl who won't get sore when we have sex and be able to enjoy what I have...

    3 of my 4 conquests have had quite large breasts as it happens. I don't seek big breasts out though, they find me :tongue:
     
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    I dont believe I deserve a well endowed girl, but I've been blessed with the smoking sexpot that is my gf. My size helps me satisfy her, but I dont think it won her over to me.
     
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