Do You Ever Ask Straight Friends To Let You Blow Them?

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If you really have to say it, I'd say it as a joke unless you have a large number of friends you can afford to lose because they feel uncomfortable knowing what you are thinking.

As a joke, you will put the idea in their head as a possibility but at the same time it gives you an excuse to claim you weren't serious.
 
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It will unnecessarily complicate your friendships and likely cost you more than you might imagine.
FWB are difficult to balance. He’ll be wondering, did you invite him over to watch the ballgame or blow him.
My advice is to keep your mouth shut both figuratively and literally.
 
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It will unnecessarily complicate your friendships and likely cost you more than you might imagine.
FWB are difficult to balance. He’ll be wondering, did you invite him over to watch the ballgame or blow him.
My advice is to keep your mouth shut both figuratively and literally.

Probably isn’t wise to blow your straight mate(s) for exactly the reasons stated above. Play out this fantasy only in your head IMO. Unless your mate(s) were the ones to clearly to make the first move or ask you flat out for a blow job which probably wouldn’t happen.
 
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Before I came out my straight best friend allowed me to give him massages that eventually led to me massaging his butt and then when on his back I would brush his groin area....eventually I would notice him getting hard so then I started to rub outside his clothes....and then would lossen his pants....leading to rubbing him when naked and then finally giving him a blow job. That dance happened probably 20 times over a course of 15 years or so.....now that I'm out it never happens but I'm also in a monogomous relationship with my partner.
 

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I'm considering the possibility to do that
Lusted quite a few of my mates over the years and often wondered what would happen if I asked to suck them off - I never asked so never did. I was asked by one guy to give him a blow job so he knew what it was like being blown by a guy - I declined.
 
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Before I came out my straight best friend allowed me to give him massages that eventually led to me massaging his butt and then when on his back I would brush his groin area....eventually I would notice him getting hard so then I started to rub outside his clothes....and then would lossen his pants....leading to rubbing him when naked and then finally giving him a blow job. That dance happened probably 20 times over a course of 15 years or so.....now that I'm out it never happens but I'm also in a monogomous relationship with my partner.

Love that whole thing. Did you ever speak about it?
 

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I have not because I worry it would get weird between us, I assume they would say 'no'
There are a couple friends I have that if they asked me to blow them I would though.
 

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I have not because I worry it would get weird between us, I assume they would say 'no'
There are a couple friends I have that if they asked me to blow them I would though.

Eh? Was that in response to my above question? If so I thought I was asking @fournineteenfiftynine
 

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Eh? Was that in response to my above question? If so I thought I was asking @fournineteenfiftynine

The way that threads work is if a reply didn't quote another reply, and isn't obviously addressing another reply, it's most likely addressing the original post. It seems pretty clear to me that this rule is applying in this case; PretenderNX01's reply makes more sense when read as a response to the original post.
 

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When I was younger I had a group of friends I went to school with. They would often joke about with me because they knew I was gay. It just depended how drunk I was whether I offered my mouth to them (I wasn't really into anal at the time). Lets just say I am not friends with anyone I went to high school with now. Yes I did get with 4 of the friends. 1 is married to my best friend at the time. Another just stopped looking at me. The other two ended up being gay. I am not really upset that I lost them as friends. We grew apart anyway and were from different worlds. But still I guess that is what could happen if you did ask.
 

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Love that whole thing. Did you ever speak about it?
Not much but a little....he always was okay with feeling good if it did something for me...honestly towards the end of this little back and forth I got frustrated with no reciprocation but it was what it was. He's straight and now that I'm out and gay gay gay and partnered I can suck cock anytime I want!
 
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