Do you ever feel pressured to share your size ?

[deleted28150581]

Hey

For other well endowed guys, do you ever feel pressured to share your size ? I don’t even mean directly pressured too. I’m just under 8” soft and around 9.5” hard, but I didn’t do anything in particular to have that. It feels like a privilege to have and since learning others appreciate it, that I should share it more. Because it’s basically all luck I feel a little selfish not letting others feel good from it. Within reason of course, I don’t fully act on this, but I do feel like it’s something I have without earning it.

I’m wondering if this is a shared experience at all ? I do have a tendency to want to please others outside of this so also thinking it could be a personality quirk too.

 

[smaller1inne]

Opposite problem here. I feel obligated to share size, because most people (men/women) all want bigger. So I feel obligated to share so that we don't become invested and interested only to get disappointed when I don't measure up.

 

[deleted28150581]

Opposite problem here. I feel obligated to share size, because most people (men/women) all want bigger. So I feel obligated to share so that we don't become invested and interested only to get disappointed when I don't measure up.

I think if you work hard on yourself you have nothing to worry about. Work out, eat well, have some good hobbies and strong morals. You’ll find someone and deserve them.

 

[Curious65]

Hey

For other well endowed guys, do you ever feel pressured to share your size ? I don’t even mean directly pressured too. I’m just under 8” soft and around 9.5” hard, but I didn’t do anything in particular to have that. It feels like a privilege to have and since learning others appreciate it, that I should share it more. Because it’s basically all luck I feel a little selfish not letting others feel good from it. Within reason of course, I don’t fully act on this, but I do feel like it’s something I have without earning it.

I’m wondering if this is a shared experience at all ? I do have a tendency to want to please others outside of this so also thinking it could be a personality quirk too.

You sound like a humble guy who happens to have a big good looking cock!

 

[deleted28150581]

You sound like a humble guy who happens to have a big good looking cock!

I didn’t do anything to get it. And just in general arrogance isn’t good.

 

[NerdWithAKnob]

I pretty much keep it entirely to myself. I'm a nerdy guy who isn't super boastful haha. As much as the attention would be kind of fun, surprising people with what I'm working with is really fun too. I do wonder how many people know I'm so thick without me knowing I know though, maybe rumors have spread?

 

[Josh797]

Opposite problem here. I feel obligated to share size, because most people (men/women) all want bigger. So I feel obligated to share so that we don't become invested and interested only to get disappointed when I don't measure up.

Same here. I feel obligated due to being smaller, and just letting a potential partner know up front.

 

[deleted28150581]

Same here. I feel obligated due to being smaller, and just letting a potential partner know up front.

Size isn’t everything. Don’t beat yourself up about it.

 

[smaller1inne]

Wish that was true, but my lack of interested people once they see my package - disagrees.

 

[deleted28150581]

Wish that was true, but my lack of interested people once they see my package - disagrees.

Perfect is the enemy of good. Don’t worry so much about one aspect you can’t control.

 

[jjonesdelano]

Opposite problem here. I feel obligated to share size, because most people (men/women) all want bigger. So I feel obligated to share so that we don't become invested and interested only to get disappointed when I don't measure up.

I feel the same.. the person maybe a size queen and feel obligated to hint I am smaller to not disappoint

 

[deleted28150581]

I feel the same.. the person maybe a size queen and feel obligated to hint I am smaller to not disappoint

Don’t give up on yourself or all women just because some have a preference.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Are you saying one is noble for sharing gifts for a selfish end? That is a novel and unsubstantiated humble-brag is I ever heard one.

 

[JBD_Mikk]

I've sometimes felt the same, as if I shouldn't waste what's been given to me - but not enough to have casual sex or flaunt it inappropriately (and it's been a few years since I was in a relationship!)

But it did end up bringing me to this site - and I'm not sure I'd be posting pics (or that I'd even have found the site) if I weren't my current size.

 

[RaskaYu]

Hey

For other well endowed guys, do you ever feel pressured to share your size ? I don’t even mean directly [...]

Yeah, kind of, I can see how.

But you mean disclosing your size to partners before things escalate in the bedroom (as not all of them will be willing and/or able to manage your endowment...)

Or more in a casual "let's discuss this" approach with friends and trying to unveil those big dick misconceptions and have a nuanced and adult conversation on society's expectations and so.

Or perhaps you didn't have much of a reputation and wish more people to know and talk about it. (This last one can apply to SPH too)

 

[notthatguy]

No idea on why someone would be obligated to share his size? I have no issue sharing my size just don't know why I would be obligated to share my size....

 

[FrankieGuile]

No idea on why someone would be obligated to share his size? I have no issue sharing my size just don't know why I would be obligated to share my size....

Because it's a silly notion but feeds a fetish?

 

[notthatguy]

Because it's a silly notion but feeds a fetish?

well, there you go... an answer to the question.

 

[nomju]

At a few recent gigs I've played (as drummer in a band) two girls, who have seen pictures of my penis cast (when I shared it on socials, to help the artist sell more) have shouted 'Show us your dick'. After one gig they offered to buy me some beer if I whipped it out. So, I took them back stage and proved my size. Nothing else happed. They are both lesbians, but we're intrigued to see my big soft dick in real life.

 

[Hungbrowntwunk]

In my case. my reputation precedes me nowadays, so I don't have to share that information. But when I was younger, I would openly talk about it, sometimes a bit too exuberantly. Looking back, maybe I should have done it with a bit more finesse, but given the richness of my sexual experiences, which in some cases were as a result of my exuberance, I can't say that I have any regrets.

Having said that, I may have pissed off a few people in the process, but my journey through life has taught me that staying true to myself will usually lead to more doors opening than closing, both sexually and in life.