Do You Ever Find Decent Guys On Here You Like Chatting With?

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It takes a long time to get to know and trust men here. Generally, speaking for myself, I see how he behaves in the forums long before I ever talk with him one-on-one. And it’s never sexual. I have two men I talk with regularly - besties one and two. Both are married and completely faithful to their wives. I’m not seeking any relationships. We talk about various things, site happenings, etc.

I talk to a few other guys as well, but not regularly. But they are men I’ve known for a long time. Again, these are men who post a lot in the forums. I have a sense of who they are as people. We belong to the same social group.

It might take awhile to get to know people here, but there is a good community.
 
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It takes a long time to get to know and trust men here. Generally, speaking for myself, I see how he behaves in the forums long before I ever talk with him one-on-one. And it’s never sexual. I have two men I talk with regularly - besties one and two. Both are married and completely faithful to their wives. I’m not seeking any relationships. We talk about various things, site happenings, etc.

I talk to a few other guys as well, but not regularly. But they are men I’ve known for a long time. Again, these are men who post a lot in the forums. I have a sense of who they are as people. We belong to the same social group.

It might take awhile to get to know people here, but there is a good community.
That is good though I just wondered I haven't posted very much but it would be nice to get to know more people here I am single but i don't expect to meet the girl of my dreams here, but would still like to get to know some more
 
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That is good though I just wondered I haven't posted very much but it would be nice to get to know more people here I am single but i don't expect to meet the girl of my dreams here, but would still like to get to know some more
Read and post. You’ll find your group.
 
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I have done in the past but not so much these days
 
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I only chat privately (via DM, not in chat) with those I have gotten to know through the forums and vibe well with, I don't have a short cut and if someone reaches out, you bet your ass I'm peeking their post history.

It's also only ever friendly banter. I'm good at spotting guys feigning friendliness who really only want me to get them off/pic swap. I say I'm good at spotting them - it's usually pretty obvious from their post history when that's the case.
 
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I have done in the past but not so much these days
Oh so it used to be better here? I'm still quite new but so far it just seems like a lot of naked horny guys lol. I'm trying to find the other side of the site where hopefully there are people who aren't quite so sexually aggressive lol.
 
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The majority of men I chat with on here are mostly (or exclusively) interested in men and/or in a monogamous relationship. There is a very short list of men who like women and are not in a relationship that I talk to. They're all individuals who have shown they have a sense of honor/integrity, can agree to disagree on topics, and respect people's boundaries. Pretty much all of them are very quick witted and funny too.
 
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I only chat privately (via DM, not in chat) with those I have gotten to know through the forums and vibe well with, I don't have a short cut and if someone reaches out, you bet your ass I'm peeking their post history.

It's also only ever friendly banter. I'm good at spotting guys feigning friendliness who really only want me to get them off/pic swap. I say I'm good at spotting them - it's usually pretty obvious from their post history when that's the case.

Yeah that seems fair enough I hope I haven't come across in that way some how. I just find myself wondering why I'm still here so thought I'd reach out to the ladies to see if there is more to the site than just a bunch of horny naked men lol
 
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The majority of men I chat with on here are mostly (or exclusively) interested in men and/or in a monogamous relationship. There is a very short list of men who like women and are not in a relationship that I talk to. They're all individuals who have shown they have a sense of honor/integrity, can agree to disagree on topics, and respect people's boundaries. Pretty much all of them are very quick witted and funny too.
Yeah I'll talk to anyone really but as a straight male some of the guys on here can be just as weird/creepy to me as some can be to women. I understand that by specifically asking women it might look like I'm after one thing but there are some guys here I don't mind chatting with it would just be nice to get to know some of the ladies here too lol x
 
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Oh so it used to be better here? I'm still quite new but so far it just seems like a lot of naked horny guys lol. I'm trying to find the other side of the site where hopefully there are people who aren't quite so sexually aggressive lol.
Well if u manage not to make urself look a jerk and get to know some of the ladies I'm sure ull get some conversations
 
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You've been polite so far. So long as that's sincere, I imagine some of the women on here might find stuff to talk about with you.
I can be nice until I'm pissed off and then it's best to hide behind the sofa lol
Haha I don't often piss people off in real life so fingers crossed I do alright on here lol I do appreciate everything u all have said though so thanks again!
 

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There’s a number of men on here that I’ve been speaking to for years. It’s all platonic and never sexual. A number of the men I speak to are married and I love hearing about their family life.

Even though I’m single I’ll only engage with men on here through PM if they don’t send me a dick pic or any kind if sexual message (even just “you’re beautiful” which is BS anyway because they don’t know me or what I actually look like).
 

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There are only two guys I chat regularly with. Decent, straight forward and non-pretentious men. Neither is Dr. Jekyll turned to Mr. Hyde as most others are.

If anybody gets my attention, with their posts, I do interact in threads and check their profile to see what kind of a person they are. I know this is the internet but have been pretty much on the spot with my evaluations. It really tells me something about the man. And the woman. Funny thing is, once I visit their profile, which usually ends with me ignoring, they see it as an advance and come back hitting.

My biggest filter is the information bit on my profile page. What I do/don't or respond to/not or like/hate is right there. Anybody who doesn't bother to check it out and then even pretend to be a nice guy is too dumb to waste time anyway.

Chatroom is one place I find funny. I usually don't chat but read to make the time pass if I have little time to kill before a schedule.

Some say that I invite all the negative attention. I am flirty by nature and have "provocative" pictures of myself. So what? There are people here who can be of both worlds. Get the graphics and the mind to enjoy both aspects. Why should I change my ways just because some idiot can't be himself and treat someone with respect as they get to do in real life?

What I find hilarious is they are free to hit on me but I don't have the same freedom to ignore. I'm not complaining of the creeps. Why should they complain if I do not respond? They can simply walk away and try their luck with one of the "wow so big" fans.
But, no. Taya is a teasing bitch. If so, then right. And looking at where that is coming from, darn proud of it

OP - I don't know if you are genuine or a silver tongued recruiter, but try being nice and respectful. Less competition and more chances here.