Do you ever find yourself wet when you're not horny?

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  1. Drifterwood

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    Do you ever find yourself lubricating etc when you didn't think or knew that you weren't horny at all?

    If so, have you ever wondered why?
     
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    frequently.
    varying degrees throughout the month.
    it's part of my vagina's self cleaning process, which is why douching is unnecessary.
    though sometimes a person can be subconsciously slightly aroused without being consciously aware of it. i'm sure that makes a difference.

    hence booming sales in panty liners.
     
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    Yes and no - in that order.

    Some things just beez that way. Never known it to be any different since puberty so it's not really something I've ever questioned. And, as dolf points out, it is part of the cleaning process. I would have thought it a standard feature of the vag, is it not?
     
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    Watch where you're raising that hand, ma'am - your fingers are cold! :eek:
     
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    Yeah this happens to me sometimes too but i don't know why. But I do know that in a woman's monthly 'cycle' a discharge comes out sometimes...but this is prob different than what you're talking about.

    Maybe it's our body telling us we need a nice cock in us? haha
     
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    This happens to guys also
     
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    Many women experience "wet spin" when ovulating. There are some great photos of the variance in cervical mucus through the month here: Beautiful Cervix Project -Age 25 – Entire Cycle

    But I suspect the OP is talking more about spontaneous vaginal lubrication after a fantasy, an unexpected arousal experience, or the like. Yes?
     
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    Where would you suggest that I put a question that is wholly about women's conscious and/or subconscious sexual responses, Einstein?
     
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    This is the question. "Sexual" response lubrication through the vaginal walls rather the cleaning cervical secretions. Obviously, I wouldn't know if you can tell the difference when either is happening.

    I was reading some very interesting research, where they used various probes and other scientific measuring thingumybobs to measure genital responses whilst also asking the subjects to consciously record their mental responses to potentially arousing materials.

    I can't remember if there were any stats, but the two did not correlate, especially with regard to the genitals responding, but the brain not. The research is being conducted by two eminent female sexologists and they believe that this trait is very important when understanding women's sexuality and sexual fulfillment. They also have some interesting theories with regard to the evolutionary reasons for the vagina being more ready for sex than the brain.
     
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    Try maybe Etcetera. Just two days ago, another poster posted a thing about "Hard ON For NO Apparent Reason" in the Etc. forum.

    Honestly, it does seem to be one of those questions from a strictly male perspective about the female anatomy. Another illustration on why we perhaps need a sub forum about "Men's Curiosities."
     
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    oh yeah. we get wet watching chimps fuck. truth.
    nature wants to avoid injured vaginas in situations where sex is unwanted and unplanned. lubrication helps.
     
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    Are you saying that you can be ready for sex, but not ready for sexual fulfillment? :wink:

    And yes, I saw you flicking the bean with the bonobos :biggrin1:.
     
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    i like my men hairy. is that so wrong??

    now... what is this ''fulfillment'' of which you speak?
     
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    It requies a brain apparently.

    Do you think this might explain why so many women aren't? :biggrin1:

    But then men's fulfillment apparently doesn't require a brain, which is probably just as well :eek:.
     
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    i have a brain! it's just easily distracted.
    maybe i need something more stimulating to hold my attention?

    darling, i want you to trace crossword clues onto my clit with your tongue.
     
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    And all this time I was doing it like a man on speed doing join the dots. :wink:
     
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    my genitals are too high brow for join the dots.

    besides, it's just the old cliché of doing what worked on your ex. but, unlike your ex, i don't have freckles.
     
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