Do you ever find yourself wet when you're not horny?

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I've been wet but not aroused from two different things. 1. it was my period. 2. I had an infection or other non-erotic source for physical irritation.

Women who need those panty-liner things month-round really need to look into it imo. Unless they are constantly thinking sexy thoughts and can't get out of working...

When I started thinking of sex That often I stopped wearing underwear as a solution instead :tongue:
 
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I've been wet but not aroused from two different things. 1. it was my period. 2. I had an infection or other non-erotic source for physical irritation.

Women who need those panty-liner things month-round really need to look into it imo. Unless they are constantly thinking sexy thoughts and can't get out of working...
utter bollox :rolleyes:

some people are naturally more wet than others.
they aren't automatically faulty just because they're not like you.
 

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Honestly, I don't think it's all that different from a man getting an erection when he's not aroused or horny.

Things like the "Morning Wood" phenomenon, or other times, it seems to get hard for no apparent reason. Just one of the mysteries of life.

I see no reason why a woman wouldn't be wet similarly. A bit of a generalization, I know, but....
 

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Also, some people really mind getting discharge on their knickers. I don't - it is what knickers are for and why I wear them, and change them daily. I had a friend who also changed her underwear daily but felt that vaginal juices were as bad as skidmarks and therefore always wore pantyliners. I don't get that - my vaginal wetness is nowhere near as unhygienic as a poo stain. But anyway - that was her thing and why she opted for a constant pantyliner.
 

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I'd have to say that's "bollox" too, Helgaleena.

I always have to wear pantyliners and even change them 2 or 3 times a day.
There's just always juices, doesn't have to have anything to do with being aroused or thinking sexy thoughts.
 

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If you get really really wet, sometimes it can be more comfortable to use one. I've put one in my wet panties before to make them more comfortable, when I've been away from home and not able to change panties.
 

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I've been wet but not aroused from two different things. 1. it was my period. 2. I had an infection or other non-erotic source for physical irritation.

Women who need those panty-liner things month-round really need to look into it imo. Unless they are constantly thinking sexy thoughts and can't get out of working...

When I started thinking of sex That often I stopped wearing underwear as a solution instead :tongue:

It's entirely normal to have clear, milky, watery, thick, thin, eggwhitish, creamy an otherwise non-offensive smelling discharge (aka cervical fluid) all month long between periods or every day if you don't have periods at all. Hormones are responsible for the vaginal wall and cervix producing this. Women who are trying to get pregnant read into this discharge daily to know which part of their cycle they are in. Others never notice it.

I rarely have it now that I don't have ovaries since estrogen is a huge factor in producing it during your fertile years. But before my hysterectomy from childhood (peri-pubescent years) until the hysterectomy I had it damn near every day to the point of needing a pad. It was annoying to me and my friends who dealt with it also.

I am glad to not be swimming in my non-aroused wetness all the time. That shit is able to come up for air now.
 

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Just to be clear, the tests measure the light liquid produced through the lower walls of the vagina (rather than any other discharge) that are produced apparently to aid and prepare for penetrative sex. This appears to happen frequenty (?) and when the woman has no idea that she is horning up.

I was also interested whether this is related to what you often hear women say that their heads have be into the sex to really enjoy it rather than just their bodies.
 

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I was also interested whether this is related to what you often hear women say that their heads have be into the sex to really enjoy it rather than just their bodies.

IMO the most important erogenous zone is between my ears. My body could be all set to cushion a mating onslaught without any enjoyment whatever. And that would be when I'd start thinking of calling it rape, if not just lousy sex.

What makes BDSM torture into pleasure? How it's construed, that's what. Brain has to decide whether the stimulus is sexy or not. Emotion has to color it in. The female equivalent of 'morning wood' can mean nothing, or everything, if I decide one way or another.
 
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