Do You Ever Get So Horny That Masturbating Doesn't Sound Good?

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So occasionally, like right now, I get so hard and horny that masturbating myself doesn't actually sound good to me. It's not that I couldn't masturbate. I could. And I know I would shoot a big load. But I also know that, when over, I won't have really enjoyed it. And I'll still be horny as hell.

Does anyone else understand what I'm talking about? Or am I a weirdo?
 

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No I don't identify with that at all. There are times when I am hornier than other times but for me the decision of whether to have sex or masturbate has never been driven by how horny I am and always by how available sex is.

So I have never been alone at home, horny, and with the privacy to masturbate if I choose to and decided that no, I would go out and seek a one night stand instead. In that situation I have always masturbated. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, as they say.

Likewise when I have had a g/f, or latterly my wife, on hand and up for sex, I have never declined and masturbated instead.

Yes, there are days when I am really horny and the refractory period is much shorter than normal. I first discovered that masturbating when I was so horny I did it five times in the one day. I don't think having sex instead would have made any difference, though, as it subsequently happened with my wife (before we were married) when we at a music festival and had sex five times in a day.
 
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Yeah...it took a woman to get it.
Self pleasure is just a get it out of the way thing for me. id rather live in the headspace and do things like tease my sweetie...from our separate homes.
 
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I think I misread your post initially, but you are still on the right track.

A better way to say it might be that the release from masturbating wouldn't measure up to the arousal I was feeling at the time.
 

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Sometimes when you're really horny masturbation, no matter how the 'release', it only makes the 'need' worse because you haven't got the 'relief' you need in the way that you really want it.
Masturbation, no matter how done, in IMO comes (cums) a very poor second to a fuck.
 

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Masturbation is often scapegoated as a remedy for sexual frustration, when it definitively is not. Makes it all that more frustrating when it is offered as a stopgap measure for when sexual intimacy is lacking. And that's not even getting into the societal stigma and shame of masturbation.
 

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Masturbation is often scapegoated as a remedy for sexual frustration, when it definitively is not. Makes it all that more frustrating when it is offered as a stopgap measure for when sexual intimacy is lacking. And that's not even getting into the societal stigma and shame of masturbation.

But that shame, among those who experience it, is a learned thing due to societal pressure much more prevalent in the past than it is now and and finding masturbating a second rate stop-gap may have something to do with being told by others that that's what it is. You then approach masturbation with the expectation that it will be unsatisfactory and it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

I do accept that we have a need for intimacy that is not provided by masturbation and sex provides that at the same time as an orgasm and causing horniness to abate for while. But, I would not call the need for intimacy either a more intense, or slightly different form of horniness. For one thing, the time frame is different. Intimacy improves your general mood over the weeks and months and lack of it affects your mood over a similar time. Horniness is a much more immediate thing.
 

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It’s a physical release, sleep aid, relaxation thing for me. It isn’t always mentally satisfying but it takes care of the physical need at least temporarily.
yes me too..i feel so much better after cumming...i can rest way better or at least be more alert..its like my mind is foggy unti i cum and the more intense cum the better i feel...
 
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Yes, it happens to me often...

I get such a horny ache that goes deep inside. The idea of just jacking off would not satisfy it. It is a need my prostate has... a need to be probed and massaged. Jacking off will not satisfy the urge. I need to be anally probed by a big, thick, bulbous dildo. Long sessions... multiple ooozing orgasms... sometimes I go at it on and off all day.

Basic penile masturbation pales to the pleasure that can achieved by getting to know and mastering your prostate!
 
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Yes, it happens to me often...

I get such a horny ache that goes deep inside. The idea of just jacking off would not satisfy it. It is a need my prostate has... a need to be probed and massaged. Jacking off will not satisfy the urge. I need to be anally probed by a big, thick, bulbous dildo. Long sessions... multiple ooozing orgasms... sometimes I go at it on and off all day.

Basic penile masturbation pales to the pleasure that can achieved by getting to know and mastering your prostate![/QUOTE
 

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It’s a physical release, sleep aid, relaxation thing for me. It isn’t always mentally satisfying but it takes care of the physical need at least temporarily.
yes what happens if u don't play with yourself? is your mind a fog until you do? thats how i am
 
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Sometimes when you're really horny masturbation, no matter how the 'release', it only makes the 'need' worse because you haven't got the 'relief' you need in the way that you really want it.
Masturbation, no matter how done, in IMO comes (cums) a very poor second to a fuck.
Bingo
 

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yes what happens if u don't play with yourself? is your mind a fog until you do? thats how i am

Not a fog, but my dick starts to nag me for attention. Raging erections that appear at random, and usually when I'm deeply involved with something else. For example, I manage a corporate email system that's spread across several countries. Last week a few of the mail servers decided to disconnect themselves from everyone else and only talk to each other. I'm chatting with someone in Europe to try to figure out what the problem was and my dick is hard in my pants and demanding my immediate attention. I ignored it long enough that it went down, but later that night he popped up again and demanded I give him some relief.

I slept very well that night.