Do you ever jack off while friends are around? Mine don't mind but don't do it

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  1. shymichael

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    So, I travel a lot and many times my friends go with me. I jack off in the hotel room when I am horny and we have all been friends for so long that they don't care. I know a couple of them do it too when I am asleep but won't be as free as me. They all say that I don't make them uncomfortable but they just don't feel comfortable doing it. I just feel like when we are traveling for like 2 weeks I don't want to be all hidden about it when I do it at least once a day.

    Basically this started with my best friend catching me like 20 times about 10 years ago. Pretty soon I just said "What the hell" and asked if I could do it whenever I was horny. He was cool about it and said "Don't mind me." and would just watch TV or whatever and most the time it was only when we shared a hotel room. Then he told two of our mutual friends who we were always traveling with and they thought it was hysterical. They had both caught me once each at our house when we were roommates.

    Then on another trip with just me and one of the guys, he could tell I was horny by our conversation and said "Hey if you need to jack it go for it. I totally did and then one by one it just became normal for the big dick Michael to jack off on trips and sometimes at home in front of my roommates if I was horny.

    The weird thing is that none of them jack off in front of me. I am not wanting to do anything else sexually with them but I would think that one out of five of them would want to become a jack of buddy. Does anyone else have any of their buddies that they feel they can jack off in front of? Do they jack off in the same room? I am not talking about gay guys (no offense but thats obvious that you guys jack off and do more together).

    I guess I am a bit of an exhibitionist but its not like I am lusting over them while I get off, I just like to masturbate and when you are with someone 24/7 in a hotel you have to decide if you are going to to get caught a lot or if you are just going to openly do it.
     
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    hell, just grab the remote, turn on some porn, drop trow, start wanking, and ask if anybody wants to join in. If ya'll are comfortable enough with each other to wank while the others are in the room, then it shouldn't be a problem to suggest a circle jerk or whatever
     
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    Sounds kinda.. awkward..

    but then again I'm not an exhibitionist at all.
     
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    You don't seem 'that' shy Michael lol!
     
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    I do sometime when they're over but away from my room. Or when I'm secluded. It sucks when you're in the middle of a jack-off session and then you hear the doorbell. Buzzkill and I still need to get off. -_-
     
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    To be honest, I would find it weird if they did.


    I'd never even heard of JO buddies until I came to this site. I've had some very open male friends in my time and not one of them has mentioned it to me. Yet if I only had this site to go by, I would think it was pretty common.
     
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    For a few months, after I broke up with fiance, I moved in with my best friend while she found a place to live. That's a whole other story in itself. Anyway, he had a technician friend that wold help him with his business who was also a "partying" buddy.

    This kid had no reservations of just whipping it out. Wait, no JUST whipping it out, getting COMPLETELY naked and jerking it. Funny thing is, it made the rest of us comfortable enough to just beat off whenever we felt the need to as well.

    But this guy, forgetaboutit...everytime he was over...naked...and jerkin it.

    Where is he today????

    That's right, he's a Born Again Christian now.
     
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    also dont understand what the big deal is, i've jacked with buds before, we all have gf's, but there's nothing wrong with rubbing one out to some pussy porn. men have their needs and understand each, plus it's a great bonding experience. dudes should have less hang ups IMO.
     
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    People (at least my friends do) feel it's guy to even do that.
     
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    It shouldn't really be a big deal, but for most guys, it is. In high school and college, most of my friends would beat off in front of each other watching porn. Not a big deal at all. Now that most are married with kids, they don't want to beat off together at all. They feel like that they are cheating on their wives/girlfriends, or they feel that it is "kind of gay".
     
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    Yup, have an open relationship with my best friend, which I wrote about in a thread last week. Also had a roomate during a summer abroad at college, where we were pretty open about jerking without trying to hide. Also jerked with an older cousin a couple times. It really is a bonding thing, that should not be a taboo...
     
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    I have jacked off a few times around my roommate, he doesn't mind. We've been good friends for a while and has walked in on me getting head numerous times... Nothing is really awkward anymore lol
     
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    Oh, lordy.


    *remembers everything she saw while she was in the army; proceeds to have heart attack*
     
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    how the .... did you share a room or something?
     
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    Maybe you have a bigger dick and they don't want to seem small. Maybe you want them to whip them out to boost your ego.

    I have jerked off with one friend a few times, but most times when I need relief I do it in the shower, in those cases where there is no privacy.
     
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    Would have no problem jerking off with a friend in the situation you describe....traveling together for weeks at a time (where do you guys have the time to do that? Damn! Kind of envious about that) In any case, sure...Not sure I would just whip it out but yeah being together for that kind of time in a confined space...bound to happen and yeah, shymichael, would do it with you anytime if you were a friend. Sounds good.
     
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    haha, its true I do have a much bigger dick then most my friends but I have seen the guys I am talking about hard at some time or another, but they don't jack off. Just me. I guess I am the horny one.
     
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    no, the most we ever did was kind of stand in a circle with our cocks hanging out. and this was when we were real, real drunk. it got started because we all had to pee at once, and we were stumbling drunk. so some guys didn't even try to "get private". so after peeing, we just kind of stood there. one guy would make a horse cry. he is one hung SOB. there wasn't much said. a couple guys said 'good grief" or "geez". one guy said I didn't get short changed. the whole thing didn't last 5 mintes, including all the peeing.
     
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    wish my friends didn't mind!!
     
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    I'd love for this to happen. But at 41 I doubt it ever will.
     
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