I think it's silly that people consider male-to-male camming "gay" if you're solely getting off on comparing in a "big dick" competition (no different that multiple-dicks-in-one-female mouth scenes, DP's, DV's, close jerk-offs in gangbangs, etc). Besides, do people think straight men are gay for watching all that big dick porn? Sorry, but the mere presence of a pussy and a set of big titties don't do anything to shut up the big dicks screaming in your face. Do they? Someone's liking it big time, or else all porn for straight men would be mostly lesbo-a-go-go. I'm afraid that the boys won't ever be taking big dick out of the "cumming" equation.
Now if you want to be sexual with another man while camming (oral, kissing, etc), you might be stepping on the gay side a little.:biggrin1: