biguy2738
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You have really given me a lot of food for thought, Jeff, thank you.
I think that I didn't quite express myself the way I had intended to...it's really difficult to speak about something "out there in the sky" without having something tangible to work with.
Though, my post was interpreted as "making" soulmates as opposed to "finding" soulmates, I really think that it is a bit of both. After I realised that I had realised that I had fallen in love with my wife (we started out as friends), I also came to the conclusion that she was "the one". What I was trying to say is that sometimes we mistake the concept of finding a soulmate to be a "fireworks" experience and it really isn't...and we are so caught up looking for that fireworks moment that we a blind to what is in fact staring us in the face. Sometimes we find the "one" in the most ordinary of circumstances and it's up to us to turn it into a fireworks event.
At the same time, I believe that there really is more than one person made for us - we constantly evolve within ourselves and that needs to be taken into account. I think that we encounter more than one person that is "the one" in their own unique way, and it's up to us to develop that encounter with that particular person so that the relationship turns into one where the other is "the one" in all aspects of the relationship.
njqt, this comment is very intriguing. I'd really like for you to elaborate a little more.
I think that I didn't quite express myself the way I had intended to...it's really difficult to speak about something "out there in the sky" without having something tangible to work with.
Though, my post was interpreted as "making" soulmates as opposed to "finding" soulmates, I really think that it is a bit of both. After I realised that I had realised that I had fallen in love with my wife (we started out as friends), I also came to the conclusion that she was "the one". What I was trying to say is that sometimes we mistake the concept of finding a soulmate to be a "fireworks" experience and it really isn't...and we are so caught up looking for that fireworks moment that we a blind to what is in fact staring us in the face. Sometimes we find the "one" in the most ordinary of circumstances and it's up to us to turn it into a fireworks event.
At the same time, I believe that there really is more than one person made for us - we constantly evolve within ourselves and that needs to be taken into account. I think that we encounter more than one person that is "the one" in their own unique way, and it's up to us to develop that encounter with that particular person so that the relationship turns into one where the other is "the one" in all aspects of the relationship.
Hmmm, I've been out of Sunday School awhile but this sounds a lot like the biblical definition of a "helpmate." Which is fine because after a spiritual ski retreat a few years ago I stopped looking for "The One" . I threw out my extensive list of meaningless, vapid, criteria and opened my heart and mind to the universe. I'm still waiting anxiously, but at least I am casting my net far and wide now.
njqt, this comment is very intriguing. I'd really like for you to elaborate a little more.