micro: First of all I am gay. A few years ago I went to bed with a guy who was extermely large. I honestly didn't know that he would be so large, never suspected a thing. Actually, even during sex I didn't think twice, just took things as they came. I just thought he was cute over all. THEN... he wanted to have sex again, and so Did I. But, he wanted me to leave my current boyfriend. He told me that I loved him more than my boyfriend. He also distinctly stated that he had a big penis. He said it so proud and arrogantly, as if he expected special treatment and privilages. I actually didn't know what he wanted, but that tone of voice he used really, really turned me off. To compound things, I have issues about how I am NOT hung, and how gay culture tends to place such high value on a big tool. I told him that he better leave. I didn't see him for several weeks, and when I finally did he seemed extremely hurt, but at the same time he didn't seem to understand what he said or did. I didn't see him after that until just two months ago. (Over Ten years later) I said hello to him on the bus. But as soon as he recognized me, he immediately put up a defensive wall. He was on his way to a concert with his current boyfriend. His body language and tone of voice indicated to me that he had something against me. I honestly forgot about the original event until I saw his reaction. I still think he is totally clueless as to how I saw things. And truthfully, I am not sure how he sees things. Has anyone experienced this sort of thing from either side?