Do you feel that you attract the "type" that you find most attractive?

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It just kills me that many of these younguns are so hot, smart, and hung. I have to admit I get hung up on the age thing. If I ever met one of these guys in person, I'm not sure if I'd know whether to burp him, nurse him, or fuck him. :tongue:

I thought it was just me... shame I'm not in to the MILF thing. [/quote
] I'm somewhat flexible on that. I don't think I would say to no based solely on a guys age IRL.

Oh, and I prefer younger men but often attract older... my longest term relationship was with someone 11.5 years older than me (although he did look and act younger than his age...) I'm pretty flexible on the age thing too as long as they aren't underage! :biggrin1: That said, I'd have a problem with the idea of being with someone who is close to my parents' age! (I guess if they aged REALLY gracefully... but I don't know.)
 

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I have to admit I get hung up on the age thing. If I ever met one of these guys in person, I'm not sure if I'd know whether to burp him, nurse him, or fuck him. :tongue:
Why not do all three? :tongue:
 
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I do and I don't. I've four people I've fallen for and they had remarkable similarities in the effect they've had on me. While I was attracted to them, the feeling wasn't mutual but two (one passed away and the other blew me off) have stayed friends with me and, in that, I am remarkably fortunate. It seems once my sparks have subsided that I find I can be most free and open with these two people. So while they aren't lovers, they're something just as wonderful.

Someday I might attract the right person, I don't know. What I do know now, that I didn't before, is that they're out there. Maybe I'll find one that wants me, maybe I won't, but I won't give-up looking again.
 

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I like ridiculously tall, hot, nerdy guys. I like it when they are the "nice" guys other women don't seem to find dangerous enough. They like me too. So that works out.

I am really repulsed by gold teeth, but gold teeth follow me around all day. I really am not attracted to short dudes, but short dudes are very responsive to me.

You know, I don't have a penis size preference, but I have had an unusual percentage of my partners have way above average lengths and/or girths. That's weird.

But yeah. I seem to have no trouble attracting the kind of guys I like, and definitely no problem attracting guys who are just like me. (7-8 range if we're using numbers)
 

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Sexual attractiveness and positive sexual chemistry aren't always exactly the same thing.

Very true.

A life lesson that i learned long ago is that if you aim for the heart the rest falls into place.

Also true, as ever darling :smile: - but the thread is not about who you pursue, but who you attract.

I can't say there is a predominance of one type in the men I notice being attracted to me. I'm attracted to all sorts too, but I do favour intelligent guys with a sense of humour similar to my own (phyiscally, though it is a cliche, 'tall and dark' really works for me too) and I do get good responses from those kind of guys - but maybe they just enjoy being flirted with by short, curvey brunettes :dunno:
 

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I seem to attract either much younger guys or guys who only want a chance because I have large breast. It's annoying that when your trying to get to know someone all they want to talk about is physical stuff. I don't want to attract the type of man that is expecting me to be just a body with no brains.

I don't tend to go out ever and the bar scene isn't my thing. I'd be happy to find someone intellectually stimulating, financially responsible, respectful, and if he has a big cock that is a nice addition.

Typically, I will not go out on dates with anyone more than 10 years younger or 10 years older than me. Guys my own age don't seem interested.
 

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I seem to attract either much younger guys or guys who only want a chance because I have large breast. It's annoying that when your trying to get to know someone all they want to talk about is physical stuff. I don't want to attract the type of man that is expecting me to be just a body with no brains.

I don't tend to go out ever and the bar scene isn't my thing. I'd be happy to find someone intellectually stimulating, financially responsible, respectful, and if he has a big cock that is a nice addition.

Typically, I will not go out on dates with anyone more than 10 years younger or 10 years older than me. Guys my own age don't seem interested.

You are a rare and special specimen around my parts dear... a mentally stimulating woman with "two large breasts" and a heart of gold is almost impossible to find in the South.
 

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LOL...guys like me i think you mean, i have a habit of being attracted to guys who are 'out' of my league!:smile:

dang you have some hot pics at your homepage!

actually, no, you seem to fit one of my "types"

my first attention is going to be drawn to to tall, leanly muscular, dark-haired types (esp. with green eyes)

another of my types is the stockier type in the shower scenes of your homepage


 

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I work at a place where I get lots of different people. I am not really limited when it comes to what kind of girl I find attractive, so I can find many of the older women attractive as well as the ones my age, girls of different ethnicities, etc. Something I realized is that the ones that don't seem to be my "type" in accordance to social standards (milf vs. 20 year old guy) rarely ever flirt with me, yet the type that seems most unattainable to me (a hot girl my age) often do. Even when I try flirting with girls my age who aren't as good looking as the aforementioned, they seem to be ignorant to my advances. It's kind of weird, you'd think that if you can get one type of girl, you might be able to get the other. I guess it doesn't work that way?


I see what you're saying. I took a class a year ago about nonverbal communication and i remember learning that more times than not, people are more willing to converse with people who are as attractive, or unattractive, as themselves. Plus, most MILFs aren't exactly lookin to hook up with someone that is as old as their kid...whereas a pretty 20 year old girl is lookin to either have some fun, or find "mr. right"
 

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I'm not certain that I attract them, but straight women frequently presume that I am somehow interested in them. Don't know why. I really never look at them except upon those occasions I see one or two dressed like drag queens on a budget. These type of straight women appear to believe they are so attractive the whole world is constantly staring at them. Therefore, when I receive the "I wouldn't give you the time of day, old man!" look, imagine the pleasure I enjoy informing them "No te preocupes, hueca, pero no tienes una pija."

Otherwise, I tend to attract the men I am attracted to.
 

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Why not do all three? :tongue:
That's a little kinky. :tongue:

I like ridiculously tall, hot, nerdy guys. I like it when they are the "nice" guys other women don't seem to find dangerous enough. They like me too. So that works out.
That's the type to whom I am most consistently attracted. My gf's call these men BDWG's - Big Dopey White Guys. :tongue: Though I'm not sure 6' to 6'5" qualifies as ridicuously tall.

I am really repulsed by gold teeth, but gold teeth follow me around all day. I really am not attracted to short dudes, but short dudes are very responsive to me.
Gold teeth, grillz, all of that, I abhor. Can't stand it don't, know why it exists. etc.


As for preferred penis size, unfortunately the last two men I was with were woefully small. :frown1::mad: I don't mean average, I mean under 5" in length and girth. I need a man with a penis that is well above average in length and girth but not necessarily a porn star cock.

IRL prepstudinsc is an undertaker.

I seem to attract either much younger guys or guys who only want a chance because I have large breast. It's annoying that when your trying to get to know someone all they want to talk about is physical stuff. I don't want to attract the type of man that is expecting me to be just a body with no brains.
It's equally annoying to only attract guys who have never done a black girl before. :mad:

I don't tend to go out ever and the bar scene isn't my thing. I'd be happy to find someone intellectually stimulating, financially responsible, respectful, and if he has a big cock that is a nice addition.
When you find one make sure he has a twin for me. :cool:


Typically, I will not go out on dates with anyone more than 10 years younger or 10 years older than me. Guys my own age don't seem interested.
I can't restrict myself to plus or minus 10 years of my age , thats just seems silly to me.:confused::tongue: Besides which, I am finding that many of the men I find attractive and who find me attractice are 10-20 years younger than me. :cool:
 

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dang you have some hot pics at your homepage!

actually, no, you seem to fit one of my "types"

my first attention is going to be drawn to to tall, leanly muscular, dark-haired types (esp. with green eyes)

another of my types is the stockier type in the shower scenes of your homepage
I'm pleased you found the guys on my photo-blog hot....i try to post only the hottest looking blokes i can find...i want my blog to have a mainstream appeal...tell me...do you think i should start adding video posts on my site? (that question to everybody also)
 

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No, I rarely attract the type that I'm into.

I usually go for the normal gay, masculine, book-smart, indie type of guy with a little pudge on him; but I get either queeny bear cub guys or older non-professional men who have absolutely nothing going on with themselves.

As a matter of fact, the type that I'm least attracted to seeks me out and then proceeds to block the ones I am interested in from getting at me.

I don't want to sound obnoxious, but I've actually had to look a guy in the face and say, "Look, man...I'm not into you. Please leave me alone," because he kept hovering around me like a fly around a piece of meat.

This one guy even started a fight with my friend because he reiderated what I'd already told him twenty times. He was like "What's your man got to do with me!?!" and it kept going back and forth for at least twenty minutes.