Do you find an unattractive person talking about sex to be repulsive?

[sangheili90]

What you are experiencing is totally normal, though the posters on here are totally oblivious to that. I can think of countless times where I've overheard females say how gross an unattractive guy is, so I'd imagine the thought of having sex with said individual would be a repulsive on to them. This is why it's important for guys to have proper hygiene, take care of themselves and dress decent.

As for me, I don't think about having sex with women I'm not attracted to, but if I did I'm not sure I would describe it as repulsive.....unless the woman was legitimately very unattractive, had poor hygiene, was super trashy etc.

 

[1065860]

To be honest, yea.

 

[1046021]

I don't really understand. Perhaps my plastic surgery WAS a success after all.

 

[Lee_M]

I think it is more about who the person is rather than how attractive they are. For example my grandmother was a beautiful woman, but i would never want to hear her talking about sex.

 

[JackDoff]

Not repulsed, I just don't have the capacity to see what their partner sees in them. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I consider myself to be attractive and have been lucky enough to be told this (not just by my mom or nan lol) but I'm aware that other people don't see me like that. Whether they appeal to me or not they're more than welcome to have as much sex as they can get.

When I see an obese person with a petite partner or two obese people I wonder the mechanics, but that's more a morbid curiosity than a repulsion. I find overtly sexual talk from older people repulsive if it sounds perverse in a pedo kind of way.

 

[rtg]

Not repulsed, I just don't have the capacity to see what their partner sees in them. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I consider myself to be attractive and have been lucky enough to be told this (not just by my mom or nan lol) but I'm aware that other people don't see me like that. Whether they appeal to me or not they're more than welcome to have as much sex as they can get.

When I see an obese person with a petite partner or two obese people I wonder the mechanics, but that's more a morbid curiosity than a repulsion. I find overtly sexual talk from older people repulsive if it sounds perverse in a pedo kind of way.

I agree with this.

I'd only feel repulsed if someone I was deeply unattracted to was expressing how they wanted to do certain sexual acts with me...

 

[JackDoff]

I agree with this.

I'd only feel repulsed if someone I was deeply unattracted to was expressing how they wanted to do certain sexual acts with me...

True, but even attractive people can make sex sounds repulsive depending on how they talk about it.

 

[rtg]

True, but even attractive people can make sex sounds repulsive depending on how they talk about it.

Correct. I was just referring to run of the mill comments.

 

[Black_Frost]

No, I'm glad for them that they're getting their share.

Then again, when other people talk about having sex, I don't generally visualize them doing it. Nor myself having sex with them. I just deal with it conceptually.

Now, if they're getting really graphic about describing having sex with me, that's another matter. I find few people sexually repulsive, unless they smell badly, or their hygiene is really poor, but there are a lot of people I'm just not attracted to. Pretty much sexually neutral toward. And being pushily hit upon, especially with lurid, graphic description of what they'd like to do to / with me, by someone I'm sexually neutral toward is something that -- unless they're really good at going about it -- turns them from neutral to repulsive in about two seconds flat.

 

[rainyday213]

I'm only repulsed when it's creepy. If it's too people I really don't enjoy the look of, as long as I don't see it I can hear and talk all about it!

 

[328982]

True, but even attractive people can make sex sounds repulsive depending on how they talk about it.

I read that as 'sex sounds' as in the noise they make when having sex Actually eating noises bother me more. If someone eats with their mouth open or clacks on a sweet I want to slap their fucking face.

 

[JackDoff]

I read that as 'sex sounds' as in the noise they make when having sex Actually eating noises bother me more. If someone eats with their mouth open or clacks on a sweet I want to slap their fucking face.

lol it does read like that, unneeded 's' in there. Noisy eaters are annoying too.