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I can definitely relate on the fetish side of things. Personally, I get annoyed by the whole BBC thing. It's an immediate turn off for me. Nothing worse than hooking up with someone and all you hear is "fuck me with that big black cock" a 100 times. My ideology is if I think you're hot, then you're hot. I couldn't care less about race, height, dick size, etc. My sex life would be so boring if I limited it to one deciding factor lol.
What I find most offensive isn't fetishization... that exists n folks on all sides like it or loathe it. It's the utter lack of respect (and it's mostly although not exclusively white dudes) have in assuming that's the scenario and pursuing it without permission or discussion. It happens when I wear leather. Someone always assumes that means they can call me boy and tell me to do something... not hi. Not my name is. Not are you into this with me? It's as you say total turn off.