do you find dirty talk degrading?

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If it's contrived, definitely a turn-off. If it's something I need to think about to process, I'm too busy thinking to enjoy the sex. As in when she says, "I love your big fat dick inside me" and me thinking, "Really? It's big and fat? I always thought it was fat, but big too? Hmm, maybe it is big."

Uncontrolled grunts, whimpers and moans mixed in with, "Oh fuck, oh fuck, oh god, what the hell are you... oh fuck". I guess it's not really dirty talk in the degrading sense, but it isn't really Sunday Mass language either. In terms of degrading talk like, "You fucking slut, bite my cock like the whore you are", may sound degrading, but if it incites the reaction that my ex used to display, holy shit, I will say that until the cows come home.

I've never really heard degrading talk coming from a woman directed at me, so I can't really speak to that.
 

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I love it when she says 'fuck me harder' or 'how does my pussy feel?' or telling me she wants to see how much cum I have in my balls...

I particularly love girty talking Chinese girls, because most of them are very conservative in sex. A dirty mind is a terrible thing to waste....

On the other hand, some of the dirty talk in porn is degrading. It depends on the situation. Some performers like TT Boy I think to be rude assholes.
 
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If it's contrived, definitely a turn-off. If it's something I need to think about to process, I'm too busy thinking to enjoy the sex. As in when she says, "I love your big fat dick inside me" and me thinking, "Really? It's big and fat? I always thought it was fat, but big too? Hmm, maybe it is big."

ROFLMAO :biggrin1:. Don't give you anything you can analyse, hey?


In terms of degrading talk like, "You fucking slut, bite my cock like the whore you are", may sound degrading, but if it incites the reaction that my ex used to display, holy shit, I will say that until the cows come home.

Now you are a perfect example of someone who can do dirty talk right . . .
 

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i too hate the 'porn movie' cliches, but get very turned on when my partner says things like 'harder!' and says nice things about my cock. it's exciting to hear other couples, one of our first swinger club visits was really enhanced by a woman shouting 'faster, faster, i'm cumming!' to her lover in a crowded playroom. my wife didn't appreciate a man she was with once shouting 'whore! bitch!' as he was getting close, so try to be nice to the person you're with!
 

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Love it. The nastier the better. My wife likes it when I tell her stories while she rides me, makes her cum every time.
 

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I don't really find it degrading or anything but it can ruin a mood. I personally like to know what I'm doing feels good and try to communicate the same. It's definitely not something that comes naturally for me. I like it if it is just moaning, direction, and affirmation. I like to be praised I guess, sounds dumb but I'm not really into "dirty".
 

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ROFLMAO :biggrin1:. Don't give you anything you can analyse, hey?

Don't get me started. I have enough blood to pump to one major organ. Get me thinking and I will go flaccid on you.

Now you are a perfect example of someone who can do dirty talk right . . .

Awww... thanks, you filthy little slut whore you. :smile:
 

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Most porn dirty talk just makes me giggle. It all sounds so fake!

Oh, one of my biggest general pet peeves about porn noises is when they start moaning before any genital contact occurs, and then just keep on making the exact same moaning sounds all during sex. Even if it's a realistic sound, if I noticed it began before they should be moaning, it totally ruins my suspension of disbelief. It's incredibly common in porn.

If it's contrived, definitely a turn-off. If it's something I need to think about to process, I'm too busy thinking to enjoy the sex. As in when she says, "I love your big fat dick inside me" and me thinking, "Really? It's big and fat? I always thought it was fat, but big too? Hmm, maybe it is big."

That's hilarious!

Uncontrolled grunts, whimpers and moans mixed in with, "Oh fuck, oh fuck, oh god, what the hell are you... oh fuck". I guess it's not really dirty talk in the degrading sense, but it isn't really Sunday Mass language either.
I do a lot of this!

I just remembered that I do get a foul mouth during sex if I'm drunk. I'll say things so nasty that those are things I don't even think when I'm sober, so where does that stuff come from?
 

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Don't get me started. I have enough blood to pump to one major organ. Get me thinking and I will go flaccid on you.

:eek:


Awww... thanks, you filthy little slut whore you. :smile:

See, there you go making me feel all warm and fuzzy (and wet and horny) again :smile::tongue:


Oh, one of my biggest general pet peeves about porn noises is when they start moaning before any genital contact occurs, and then just keep on making the exact same moaning sounds all during sex. Even if it's a realistic sound, if I noticed it began before they should be moaning, it totally ruins my suspension of disbelief. It's incredibly common in porn.

ROFL :biggrin1:.


I do a lot of this!

Me too! I can't do words (apart from more and harder) but I do lots of the moaning, screaming and whimpering.


I just remembered that I do get a foul mouth during sex if I'm drunk. I'll say things so nasty that those are things I don't even think when I'm sober, so where does that stuff come from?

The petite drunken sailor? :biggrin1:
 

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I just remembered that I do get a foul mouth during sex if I'm drunk. I'll say things so nasty that those are things I don't even think when I'm sober, so where does that stuff come from?

There's bound to be some nerve somewhere in the brain's speech center that's directly attached to our genitals.

See, there you go making me feel all warm and fuzzy (and wet and horny) again :smile::tongue:

My sig so applies to you right now.
 

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talking dirty is tricky for me.

it has to be very very real,for me to do it without sounding
like a complete douche...otherwise i will wind up laughing.

i sometimes do it on purpose as a joke,but only when i am RAGING hard
and know i have room too joke around.
(having a big penis is funny sometimes.)

this got me used to talking/saying crazy shit whilst fucking,
without sounding like you are "fucking" it is almost casual convos tone.

i guess it is how i practiced dirty talk.
i would call it "bobby style"

just when you fuck talk dirty and talk about doin' it bobby style.
it has amused me to no end...if the girl has a sense of humour
and maybe even had a a few "bobbies" in her time,she will get it too.
:smile: