I don't flaunt my dick but I really don't hug the urinal either and don't care if people look. I also don't go looking for others' dicks but if they flaunt it and I see it, I really don't care about that either. People are curious about other people regardless of sexual orientation, just like dogs are curious about other dogs or horses about other horses, and it doesn't seem like a big deal to me. But I usually go in the stalls if at all possible.
For one thing, I tend to get "shy" at the urinals, unless I've been drinking. I have no issue if I'm in the stall and other people are around, no issues if I'm outside and someone walks by. I have zero hang ups in a locker room or when I've gone to the nude beach. So I finally realized that it's not the dick part that makes me shy. It's the physical part of it. The closer the other men are to me the more I get piss shy. It doesn't make any difference whether there are dividers or not. If there's a guy 10 urinals down in a long row I'm much less likely to "shy up" than if someone's right next to me.
Not sure why this subject keeps coming up here and why so many feel like there's a plethora of dudes out there who are just dying to catch a glimpse of ween when they're taking a piss.
Unfortunately in my own experience, this has / does happen a lot if the urinals have no dividers or the dividers are too small to block the view, and even more if the urinals are the small, wide open type or a trough. I have had everything from looking up after finishing my piss to find guys staring at me from down the urinal row and wanking to a guy walking up to me as I'm in mid-piss trying to take a picture of my dick to guys staring at me and flashing and then following me out of the bathroom and toward my car. The last scenario has happened to me multiple times, but the other day was one of the worst instances.
Very small public restroom with two stalls (busy) and 3 tightly packed urinals with small, flimsy dividers, and a couple guys waiting in line. Not wide open but if guys want to see they pretty much can. I had to go pretty bad so I reluctantly took the open middle urinal, with some effort got a flow going as I heard the guy to my left leave. Few seconds later I hear another guy take the spot but no sound. I hear him shuffling as I try to finish and do a couple quick milk/shake swipes. Start to pack my dick back in and pull back and the guy on my left is opened up to his right to full on flash me, dick out to the world and at better than half mast. I hurry and leave without washing up, the guy follows me out (he was parked near me – bad luck). I looked twice out of the corner of my eye and he's staring at me the whole time, then he follows me as I pull off, follows me onto the highway, and follows me until I get off a couple exits up while looming up next to my car in a last gasp try I guess.
I understand that for some guys this might be a dream scenario, but for me it was just creepy and annoying. I don't know or need to know how these things are consummated, but surely if you're starting this and the other guy isn't obviously giving you some return confirmation signal, you gotta leave it alone. Like I said at the start, I totally get people being curious. I am hardly some Adonis but I get "checked out" in public by girls and guys pretty often and guys just stealing glances at your cock in the bathroom is to me no different. This was very different, and its just inappropriate. Definitely encourages me to use the stalls over the urinals if at all possible.