Do you flirt with guys even when your already in a relationship?

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  1. modestlyhung

    modestlyhung New Member

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    Just wondering if you do? When I say flirt I don't mean obviously showing interest but more being extra nice, talkative and smiley when you meet a nice, attractive guy. I do the same with girls even though I have a girlfriend. I suppose its just fun and even more an ego booster. My gf is cool with it, in fact, she does it herself too.

    DO you?
     
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    flirting is natural, it's a great ego booster. I Do, to a extent. And I LOVE bringing that feel'n home to my husband.(married 10 years). and yes, the sex DOES get better!
     
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    i am guilty of this. but i let the other person know i'm involved with someone else. in my opinion it's totally harmless. plus it's good reassurance that you're still wanted by other men when you're with someone else :wink:
     
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    No, never.. Whats the point of flirting when i could go home and get the full service
     
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    I'm on here aren't I? lol. I flirt much less in person! It's always nice to feel attractive, even if you're married or committed. As long as you don't bad it up with anything, no harm, no foul.
     
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    Yes I do. Every day of the year. ;)
     
  7. Maia

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    I used to flirt when I was more insecure, but then I realized if my husband was behaving like I was I would have a fit. So, I stopped.
     
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    I don't go overboard flirting, I make it known that I'm happily married, but I smile and talk to guys when I'm out with the girls, and I'll dance with anyone who asks.
     
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    a post like this really turns me on. it's like life after fidelity.
     
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    wow!
     
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    Flirting is harmless fun - everyone enjoys a little bit of it from time to time. You just have to know when to quit. I flirt with other people on a daily basis, it's a past time of mine I havent been able to put to bed!
     
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    Yes, yes, yes, and yes.
     
  13. Principessa

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    No, I guess I'm old fashioned. I am a one man, woman.
    I don't shun other men, I may have a polite conversation; but no I do not flirt when I am in a relationship.:cool:
     
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    Of course! I flirt with every man I know, even the married ones. But they all know it is flirtation and not invitation. Flirting makes life fun, makes me feel attractive and strokes egos. Nothing wrong with that! :)
     
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    I'm a major flirt. I also can follow through if it suits me and my s/o.
     
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    Yes, I do flirt, and my fiance does too. It's a natural part of life, it happens. You can window shop, you just can't purchase anything!
     
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    Of course...all women do whether they admit it or not. It is simply natural to flirt. Besides, men always think that women are flirting even when we're not. :tongue:
     
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    I am the biggest flirt of a fuck ever.
    People love it.

    I'll flirt your pants off baby.:cool:

    I enjoy it.
    My boyfriend usually know this by the time we get together and become quite comfortable with the fact they can trust me.
     
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    I don't think I'm the biggest flirt but I mean you still don't talk to a guy the exact same way you talk to a girl :smile:. So I mean yeah I think its normal to flirt a little, its just flirting :biggrin1:.
     
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    Yes, I know it's a little naughty but I love it!
     
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