Do any other smaller gay guys find something really hot about actually being humiliated by a guy who thinks you're going to be bigger and then rejected by him. Any stories about this? The last guy I was with didn't reject me, but I sucked him for a bit and then he said "you have a really small dick" and just humiliated me - his cock was huge, prob 8 inches and he was like an LA model. He made me cum and then made me eat it. I texted him after and he said I couldn't pay him to play with my cock again and blocked me. For some reason I find that so hot. Anyone else have this fetish?
Do you get turned on by being rejected bc you have a tiny dick?
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So what is it? Do you dislike being small and humiliated and rejected or do you like the humiliation? This is what I mean by your being dishonest and disingenuous whenever it comes to the topics of you crying woe is me about your size...
I don't mean to be harsh but the contrasting things you say is frustrating because on one hand we are trying to assure you things aren't as bad as you are saying to reassure you and then the other hand is you are actively relishing in shame and humiliation meaning the first post complaining was just more of the same humiliation just you actively doing it to yourself.
I don't mean to be harsh but the contrasting things you say is frustrating because on one hand we are trying to assure you things aren't as bad as you are saying to reassure you and then the other hand is you are actively relishing in shame and humiliation meaning the first post complaining was just more of the same humiliation just you actively doing it to yourself.
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He gets off on the humiliation, he isn't actually upset and his looking for sympathy is more of the sph thing. It makes his accounts of encounters suspect.
He gets off on the humiliation, he isn't actually upset and his looking for sympathy is more of the sph thing. It makes his accounts of encounters suspect.
I definitely have the SPH fetish. My particular kick generally has to have some female participation either directly or indirectly.
I love it when a gf confesses an ex has a bigger cock or when I am outmanned while participating in MFM threesomes or Foursomes with another couple.
I have been rejected by more than a few women because they were aware I have a tiny penis. Of course I don't want to be spurned but i am compensated by the SPH thing.
Some of my relationships have been ended because of sexual disatisfaction (not size queens per se but never been with a guy as small and a high sex drive meant they sought satisfaction elsewhere) Yet again usually gutted about the break up but still get aroused by rejection because of my tiny cock.
I love it when a gf confesses an ex has a bigger cock or when I am outmanned while participating in MFM threesomes or Foursomes with another couple.
I have been rejected by more than a few women because they were aware I have a tiny penis. Of course I don't want to be spurned but i am compensated by the SPH thing.
Some of my relationships have been ended because of sexual disatisfaction (not size queens per se but never been with a guy as small and a high sex drive meant they sought satisfaction elsewhere) Yet again usually gutted about the break up but still get aroused by rejection because of my tiny cock.
I have exactly the same sph fetish and I have been laughed at and turned down by women because of my penis size and I loved it. It was actually better than getting to have sex with them in some ways
I actually dont have a small penis, guess above average, but I do kind of get off on straight guys mocking or laughing at me naked, not sure if that is similar, guess it all falls into a similar humiliation fetish.
It angers me that people can be so shallow that they will reject a man due to having a lack of size. I guess we're on an even asshole playing field - us for getting mad about it and terminally feeling there's nobody out there who WANTS a child of their own with a potential teeny peenie too, and them for not embracing it.
I've grown up to see that the "small is bad" mentality is ingrained with people. How often do you overhear people bragging about the sheer size of their relatives or friends? It isn't very often that you see exceptionally hung people with anger management or complex issues compared to "the little people".
I've grown up to see that the "small is bad" mentality is ingrained with people. How often do you overhear people bragging about the sheer size of their relatives or friends? It isn't very often that you see exceptionally hung people with anger management or complex issues compared to "the little people".
Definitely like to have the sex but I know exactly what you mean. The vicarious thrill of a humiliating rejection is hugely arousing.
It is not a bad compensation for what would otherwise be simple dejection and disappointment.
I actually put myself in a situation knowing full well a woman I flirted with was a definite size queen (don't recall her name but I will refer to her as Maria who was the first girl who ever rejected me )
I knew one of her one night stands (Dave) as he was a member of a band I was a regular soundman/roadie for.
He had hooked up with Maria at an after gig party. She shared her disappointment with a couple of her mates by complaining he had a tiny cock. He found out about her malicious gossip because he tried to chat up one of those girls at a gig a week or so later.
The girl just laughed at him and said her Maria had told her he had a tiny penis while making the thumb and forefinger gesture.
I witnessed this as I was well within earshot and eyesight.
As it goes I crossed paths with Maria at another post gig party and she recognised me as the soundman and chatted me up. I was well aware that I would most likely get the same treatment as Dave but decided to go for it. It was kind of a win win situation as I might just get off with her and/or chastisement about my tiny dick.
I didn't get to fuck her as she pretty much laughed me out of the room when I got my pants off. (Actually she left in a huff because it was my hotel room)
It had got as far as her in her bra and panties and me just in a t shirt. She got one look at my babysized softie and decide she didn't need to participate any further. She uttered something like 'You've got to be kidding ! ' Put her clothes back on and barked at me about wasting her time while rushing out the door.
I only wished she could have stormed back in and saw me pulling on my pathetic 4" erection and gave me some more demeaning verbal.
I've been rejected many times for my small dick (4.5 inches erect). It used to hurt, a lot, but I turned lemons into lemonade and now I enjoy the rejection. One of the first guys to reject me was super hung, but he was a bottom. We were young, maybe 19, and we started making out. We both grabbed each other's dicks through our pants and I remember him saying something like "oh," sounding very disappointed. "What?" I asked. "You have a small cock." I tried to laugh it off, but he was being honest. A few seconds later he told me he had go home, and that was that. At the time I was super hurt, but now that I think about it I get hard. Years later we ended up hooking up again but I only eat his ass. He told me getting topped by small dicks is a waste of time.
you've fetishized abuse...congrats...the guy is a jackass and its tough to feel bad about that
What other choice do we have?
well thats a good question...I guess its one thing where the SPH is (a mutually agreed) part of the turn on...I just don't like it when people are actually cruel.
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I always adhere to the gay porn rule-the bigger cocked man ALWAYS gets serviced or ALWAYS is the top.
I have had a few sad situations where I was all set to suck a guy off and his dick was smaller than mine and I just couldn’t bring myself to do it. So I made up and excuse and passed.
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I would serve that bro :^P
But I would humiliate you if u wanted. Nice hair
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I’ve gotten into sph. It’s definitely “taking lemons and making lemonade”. Rejection sucks and it’s uncomfortable; but then as time passed it somehow spun into a feeling that I could actually get off on. At least now I’m getting something I can use out of those failed interactions. As they say “you can only change what you have control over”. I can’t change my dick-size, I can’t change what people say about my dick, I can’t change their decision to not have sex with me because of it. But I can change what I do with those comments and how they make me feel. I suppose it’s a way of being resourceful and somewhat empowering. I think when the majority of your real-life sexual encounters tank and fizzle out, Eventually you regroup and come up with a new game plan if you want to continue playing this game we call “sex”, and remain somewhat sexually active. Sph was an option for me, and a better alternative than just giving up sexually and “throwing in the towel”. Well, that’s my take anyways.
theres nothing wrong with your 4 inch dick
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