I've got a friend that I've known for a couple years who recently let me know that he had a boyfriend at random when I was talking to him online. In some ways, I had considered he might be gay, but I just didn't really think about it since the topic had never come up. Anyway, he told me that he mainly assumes that everyone just knows he's into guys. Since then, I've only talked to one other person about it, and this person also wouldn't have considered him to be gay. While my friend dresses well and all, he just seems a bit metrosexual and not much beyond it. While I know that everyone is different and it's impossible to flat out tell whether a person is gay, I thought I'd try to get a view from the other side of things.