Do you have a floaty place?

Do you have a floaty place?

  • Female: I have a floaty place

    Votes: 8 25.8%
  • Male: I have a floaty place

    Votes: 18 58.1%
  • Female: I don't have a floaty place

    Votes: 2 6.5%
  • Male: I don't have a floaty place

    Votes: 3 9.7%

  • Total voters
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MickeyLee

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hmm i was just gonna suggest having sex with floaty sex having people before you made up your mind. :wink:

but, yeah.. there are soooo the not "right kinda" drugs. bad weed is bad weed. is a sad, sad truth.

and, apparently in the 70s there was heaps of bad acid. people just jumping out of windows everywhere. special body deflecting umbrellas. special insurance for ya automobile.

crazy, fucking crazy
 

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Floaty sex may require a waterbed, space shuttle, or both.


But not monkeys!

Never Monkeys!

That shit ain't gunna end well!

*planet of the apes flashbacks*

*curls up into fetal position and starts to rock*

Not the monkeys...not the monkeys.
 

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I wanted to try and clairify my thoughts a bit better. I was talking to subgirrl this morn and as she was telling me her description of her floaty place. She was saying that it was the opposite of RD'd and mine (as she stated here). I would say that here description of losing who she is, the " I no longer have any connection to the person I think of as me", is not inherently opposed ot what I feel (I will let RD speak for himself). When I say it feels like I am arriving at the real me, the one who is unencumbered by everything, I see it as not so much the opposite of what she is expereincing, but maybe the other side of the same coin.

I'm beginning to think we are maybe experiencing the same thing but from different angles.


It has taken the better part of a year to really concentrate enough to be able to describe it. And that was only through RD's prodding me to In doing so I find that I can't enter it as easily, or stay as long. For me (very unlike Mr. RD) I can't analyze it and stay there at the same time, lol!

RawDog has been good for both of us in that way :biggrin1:.

I also have trouble with the memory/concentration thing. I don't even have your photographic recollection to help me out. To remember the specifics of a session, I have to come out of the floaty place at the time it's happening, encoded the event, then go back to floating. And the encoded memory isn't overly clear anyway, because I'm still somewhat effected by the floatiness when I do the encoding. See what I'm giving up for you guys when you ask me to remember specifics for later storytelling? :tongue:


I can reverse chain the events later. I can key into my (thankfully!) wonderful memory and look at it from that vantage. I can almost get there through thinking of it, but haven't tried:redace:

Despite my lack of memory of specifics, I CAN get there again by thinking of it. The physical sensation of floating and the associated sexual feelings come back as clear as they were at the time, and can easily trigger an orgasm. But ask me to tell you exactly what was going on at the time and I'm fucked.


If the two aren't linked can you be in the floaty place and never experience an orgasm? For MrsR it seems to be linked. She gets into this trance, keeps moving has an orgasm, keeps moving has another orgasm, keeps moving, etc. It's like instead of peaks and valleys it's peaks and almost peak, then peak, then almost peak. her orga-orga-orgasms.

Clarification: Orgasm is not required for me to float - I can, and do, reach the floaty place without orgasm. Would I stay there for long without orgasms? I really don't know. The floaty place comes from sexual stimulation (although that doesn't need to be touch), and sexual stimulation leads to orgasm. So even if I get to the floaty place BEFORE orgasm, orgasm won't be long behind it.

And I've had many, many orgasms over the years without an accompanying floaty place. The floaty place is special.


I know your deep spot is the spot for you as well, but is it the only spot? In other words were your FB and this past partner rubbing your backstop as ferociously?

Oh, it definitely not the only spot!!! For orgasm or floating. I don't need physical touch or sex itself to access the floaty place. When I get to my FBs house, he speaks and I float, before he has even touched me. Easy as that. Or if he calls, as soon as his voice gets that deeper tone that signifies sex, I float.

With the past partner I mentioned, he wasn't even big enough to reach my deep spot. And I still floated. Lots. The mindfuck is by far the most important factor for me (although physical ability and the ability to hit my deep spot really, really helps).

On the other hand, I've had much sex, including sex where my deep spot was stimulated, and many orgasms, without floating at all. The mindfuck was absent, and the technique wasn't good enough to make up for it.


Totally agree with this. In fact it's gotten much worse/much better/more intense for us. Since we're both feeling it simultaneously, we feed off of each other's high. Not sure what this would be like if only one of us was floating and the other wasn't.

Well, duh, it would still be a good time, I guess.

Good, even brilliant, but probably nowhere near as special.


When MrsR and I first got together I literally freaked out (and got soft almost immediately) the first few times she came. They were full body/all out crying orgasms. She later explained that it was indescribable and intense. I need to send her a copy of this whole thread.

:biggrin1::biggrin1: This sounds familiar. My FB has told me that he was a little freaked out by me at first.

I'd love to hear what MrsR has to say on the topic of the floaty place.


This may explain why we clutch each other so tightly when we float. We are each other's safety net. I almost can't stand masturbating anymore because of how empty it makes me feel. I mean masturbating relieves the congested feeling I have behind my balls, but it doesn't give me the fix that sex in the floaty place does.

My FB is my safety net!!! But then that's sort of what scares me :redface::redface:. The fact that I even need one. The fact that my entire being relies on him and needs him at that moment.

I agree about masturbating. I have never once had floaty place access through masturbation. I guess a toy just doesn't have the ability to mindfuck me :tongue:.


I feel I know you a little better now. :smile:

I think my explanations of the floaty place are getting more clear the more we talk about it.


I'm not sure how to say this without sounding full of myself, but I've had FB's who've fallen in love with me after the sex when we already agreed to keeping it as FB's. How do you maintain an FB relationship *after* realizing this floaty place?

Can't speak for Nico and I've told you this before, but for the benefit of anyone else who's interested - I keep firmly in my mind the fact that floating and warm fuzzies following sex are not love. They are a physiological result of hormones and neurotransmitters.


Mine is similar in that there is a definite boundary to when it starts. But I feel it more like two ships joining in space when the docking clamps engage, and there's like a vacuum seal between the two. <-- That was my piss poor attempt at a description, but plugging into the Matrix is something I've already over-used.

I love your plugging into the matrix analogy! I also have a definite boundary. It's rather like going from being dead sober to completely drunk in one sip.


Orgasms feel good, end of story.

No offense to those who feel this way... but making them into some sort of pseudo-mystical out of body experience is a bit over the top.

How do you explain those of us who float without orgasm?


Possibly; it may be my brain just isn't wired that way. I never got much out of recreational drugs either - apparently I wasn't using the "right kinda" drugs.

It's possible that your brain is resistant to other state experiences *resists the urge to email certain lecturers to ask if this is actually physiologically possible*. Did the drugs not have an effect, or did you just not like the effect?
 

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A run longer than 4 miles but shorter than 7 miles usually means I will still be high on endorphins and running a fever when I get home. Masturbation at this point gives me a release that is very unique. Smoking marijuana makes backstop orgasms that are indescribable. Simultaneously melting butter and chocolate has an uncanny soothing and euphoric effect on me. Very little can disrupt this state as long as I can smell the chocolate and butter. The exceptions are touching me roughly, heating garlic or white sugar, or messing up a complex candy/cake project.
 

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A run longer than 4 miles but shorter than 7 miles usually means I will still be high on endorphins and running a fever when I get home. Masturbation at this point gives me a release that is very unique. Smoking marijuana makes backstop orgasms that are indescribable. Simultaneously melting butter and chocolate has an uncanny soothing and euphoric effect on me. Very little can disrupt this state as long as I can smell the chocolate and butter. The exceptions are touching me roughly, heating garlic or white sugar, or messing up a complex candy/cake project.

You have non-sexual floaty places?!? I so wanna share!

I don't smoke often, but I do love drunk sex. Heightens the floaty place if there is one, and in the absence of a floaty place, alcohol can fake the effect.
 

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Try it. Find the highest fat-content butter you can, and put it into a double boiler with some chocolate. It makes me feel stoned, but without that stony, off-balanced feeling. Garlic is the harshest and most abrupt end to this effect for me, even though it smells nice too. My husband knows the best time to deliver hard news to me is when I am making candy.

As for the other, if working out ever makes you kind of horny, push yourself to work out until your second wind. You should feel really tired and physically stressed, and then suddenly reinvigorated, like you could keep going indefinitely. A minute or two into that, stop working out and masturbate. Boom. Fireworks. Works for me, anyway. I have tried to have sex for the same result and failed. Firstly, it needs to be an entirely self-focused activity. If you have to be concerned with the pleasure and comfort of someone else, too much head-space is being used. Secondly, my sweat is very salty. As it evaporates, I begin to feel gritty to the touch. I find the friction when pressed against someone else distracting. Not good. Lastly, this is definitely one of those times I want to roll over and sleep after, even if just for ten minutes. So my habit is to go home, rub one out on the floor or sofa, and nap until the pets start trying to get all the salt off my face. Since my noisy orgasms frighten them, this is usually about 5-10 minutes of the deepest, most quality sleep. Waking up from that is almost as good as getting to that point in the first place, ignoring the fact that there is pet drool on my face.
 

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From what I've gathered from the responses from two threads, my:

How often do you want to have sex?

All the time, no joke, only time I don't want it is when I am sleeping, but wake me up and see what happens....

How often do you want to have sex REALISTICALLY?

Mornings when I am at my horniest....then in the evenings, but on some days its all day long, I am on hormone replacements, basically I have higher urges since my doctor started me on Aldosterone Gel once a day. I am 50 yo, but have a sex drive of a teenager.

Floaty place....Hmmmmm that would be right as I orgasm, and then afterwards, just feel light headed and fuzzy all over....
 

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Try it. Find the highest fat-content butter you can, and put it into a double boiler with some chocolate. It makes me feel stoned, but without that stony, off-balanced feeling. Garlic is the harshest and most abrupt end to this effect for me, even though it smells nice too. My husband knows the best time to deliver hard news to me is when I am making candy.

Next time I melt chocolate and butter I am NOT doing it in the microwave like I usually do! I wanna experience a chocolate floaty feeling.


As for the other, if working out ever makes you kind of horny, push yourself to work out until your second wind. You should feel really tired and physically stressed, and then suddenly reinvigorated, like you could keep going indefinitely. A minute or two into that, stop working out and masturbate. Boom. Fireworks. Works for me, anyway. I have tried to have sex for the same result and failed. Firstly, it needs to be an entirely self-focused activity. If you have to be concerned with the pleasure and comfort of someone else, too much head-space is being used. Secondly, my sweat is very salty. As it evaporates, I begin to feel gritty to the touch. I find the friction when pressed against someone else distracting. Not good. Lastly, this is definitely one of those times I want to roll over and sleep after, even if just for ten minutes. So my habit is to go home, rub one out on the floor or sofa, and nap until the pets start trying to get all the salt off my face. Since my noisy orgasms frighten them, this is usually about 5-10 minutes of the deepest, most quality sleep. Waking up from that is almost as good as getting to that point in the first place, ignoring the fact that there is pet drool on my face.

I don't have a hope in hell of obtaining this one. I've never ever had an endorphin rush from exercise. Still, when I eventually get back into exercise, I'll give it a go.

Love the pets licking the salt off :biggrin1:. My cat has a thing for deodorant. Go near her with a deodorant-sprayed armpit and that armpit will get a thorough licking.
 

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my "floaty place" is when my partner and i make an evening (or morning or whenever) for ourselves. it is when we make plans like going out to dinner, go to a movie or theatre and come home and be with each other. ok, a date. when we get home, we make our way to the bedroom and kiss for an eternally blissful amount. slowly undress each other, caress each other and then he enters me. it gets kicked up when i'm on my back, he's slowly going in and out and he caresses, massages my torso, just strokinh his hands acroos my body, i go into another state of mind, arching my back and feeling him inside me. yeah, i get "floaty" and i love it!