Do you have a fuck buddy?
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Beg to differ. It is known that brushing and flossing of the teeth might draw some blood so it DOES matter what condition the recipients mouth is in and contact with blood should be avoided. So boys, no brushing and flossing before sex. If you want to freshen your breath just rinse with some mouthwash. I'm poz and my partner is neg and I never give him a BJ after I have just brushed and flossed.
Always best to play it safe.
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Well bro...if you are ever in the market for one, give me a call :smile:
I'm curious, Rico27. :smile: Your profile shows 50% gay, 50% straight. Do your FB's include women, as in different needs, and if so are they part of the get togethers, or do those only consist of men? I have more questions, but they are nil if women aren't involved.
For me, I have an ex-boyfriend/Dom who I am still very close to that fulfills different needs for me. There is a definite bond, physically, intellectually, and emotionally between us. He is the closest to what I consider to be a "casual sex" partner that I have every had or would be interested in.
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Well, you anticipated some of my questions! :tongue: I was going to ask if the women knew about the men, and if so, how involved were they. I've had a relationship with a man who enjoyed MFM and I found it very sexy, but I rarely meet other women who do as well.
So, next question...:biggrin1: Do you have male FB's who won't be involved if a female is there? Is there an emotional difference between female and male FB's? Are females higher maintenance? For instance, emotionally, seduction wise, etc.? Are you able to be more aggressive and freer, so to speak, with male FB's?
As you can see, I have questions.....
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Wow, my initial reaction was stupid question; don't we all have fuck buddies?
I can understand married people who wish to be monogamous, but seriously most married girls I know even have fuck buddies. Am I missing something?
I can understand married people who wish to be monogamous, but seriously most married girls I know even have fuck buddies. Am I missing something?
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You don't know how many men get emotionally attached easily, too. It's either that they start to claim territory and get jealous when they see me with another man, or they ask for more when you have been together for some time. That's usually the point where I terminated it, you should nip things in the bud. A few of those might have been good partners also outside the bedroom, but getting emotionally involved with guys who are already involved is a stupid, useless thing. It's all good when he gets the message, maybe says it's been a good time, and then leaves, but a small number of guys has not gotten that message, but instead been insulted and hurt. I can understand that, but I certainly don't appreciate it.
Interesting... A question: would you equate jealousy with emotional attachment, then?
I'd only add that while you can ASK if he's poz or not, you should still PLAY as though he IS poz. That is, protect yourself. While he may be telling you the truth that he's NEG, it could also be that he hasn't tested in a while, and doesn't know that he's in fact poz now, or has tested VERY recently, and hasn't yet seroconverted. There are actually some staggering statistics on how many people don't know. That said...
HIV is actually a pretty delicate virus, and not as easy to get as some hype would lead you to believe. But you CAN get it. People DO get it, and so you should protect yourself accordingly. You could be like me, totally paranoid, and consequently not having much sex, but that's my choice, because while the risks may be low, especially considering how careful I am, I personally don't handle the stress of the "what if?" very well, so I'm pretty picky about who I'll have sex with, and even though I'm pretty comfortable that they're negative, I still take that precautions that they may be positive.
My Dr. is actually a leading specialist in the field, and told me, "If you're just talking about something more casual, and not a defined, strictly monogamous relationship, then you shouldn't even bother asking. You should just play like he's positive. It's too intimate a question for something casual." I DO see his point, but for my own comfort level, I can only follow 1/2 of it. I DO want to know, and I still only play safe.
Again, if you're in a long-term committed monogamous relationship, it's a totally different discussion. I'm only referring to more casual arrangements.
Fully agree. My health is much more important to me than getting my next load out.
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One has an ass to die for
Another is as cute as hell
and they all have really humpy sexy bodies
Can I be in your harem!?????
Oh, that's right. We're not here for me. Sorry.
To the guy who started this thread:
1) Yup...have had fuck buddies and it's fantastic!!!! Bit of a drought right now, but all things in time...
2) HIV infection is extremely rare if not impossible to get FROM a blowjob, unless your dick is cut/abraded and he is positive. And even then, very very very very very very rare. In fact, there are almost no reported cases.
However, do a bit more research so YOU are confident that you are getting good advice. Then, if you get the advice I think you will, then go for it!!! Could be a blast.
Of course, he could also be a dud, which means you'll be extremely pissed that you put yourself out for a bad root. But that's the beauty of live performance. Better luck next time!
Anyone else?
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For two reasons: Yes.
Reason number one is obvious: Jealousy is an emotion. One can't feel jealous without being emotionally attached to someone in one way or the other.
Reason number two: Jealousy is a factor that shows that someone is attaching more importance to his role in my life than he should, given that all he has with me is the sex. In the fuck-buddyships I have had with involved guys, I have never shown obvious jealousy towards the wives, nor have I felt it, though I probably could have.
Probably equating is too strong to describe this, but there is a correlation between jealousy and the level of emotional involvement.
I know several women that would probably make good fuck buddies if they lived closer, sadly most of them live in different countries, and the ones that don't live in different states or at the very least 4 hours away in this state. That's the closest one. I'd love to have one or a dozen that were local. No such luck...
[edit] I have a nasty habit of responding to topics assuming that they have something to do with the subject heading. Other people have a nasty habit of posting threads with subject headings in the form of a question almost completely unrelated to to the questions or subject matter in their initial post. Anyway... yeah it's possible to get HIV through the glans of your penis if there is blood in a persons saliva giving you a blowjob or if you ejaculate or bleed into the other person's mouth it's possible they'll get HIV but it's not very likely. You could end up with chlamydia in your throat, though.
[edit] I have a nasty habit of responding to topics assuming that they have something to do with the subject heading. Other people have a nasty habit of posting threads with subject headings in the form of a question almost completely unrelated to to the questions or subject matter in their initial post. Anyway... yeah it's possible to get HIV through the glans of your penis if there is blood in a persons saliva giving you a blowjob or if you ejaculate or bleed into the other person's mouth it's possible they'll get HIV but it's not very likely. You could end up with chlamydia in your throat, though.
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Yes. Very casual relationships. One woman I have have seen for a couple of years, when she has the time. Her ex husband was big and she is a real size queen in a wonderful way. We live about 40 miles or so apart and in this metro area that can take an hour or more depending on traffic. Another woman lives about ten miles farther still away but that has evolved in to her introducing me to her ex husband and occassionally my traveling with her a few hours to get together with him (he is also very endowed and she is his first ex wife), his wife, and another former wife (his 2d ex wife). He, his wife of course, and his 2d ex all live in the same town a few minutes from each other. He routinely fucks his 2d ex several times a week with his wifes knowledge. It is interesting that all three women look like they could be related as sisters perhaps. About 10 or so years each different in ages. spanning about 20 years or so, but very similar in physical appearance. When she brings me along for a weekend visit a I usually get to fuck all three women several times over the weekend. All three of them have big pussies and love very endowed. I have no real emotional attachments to any of them beyond friendship and of course wishing them well and like a good friend interested in their well-being and happiness and safety. When we are fucking I am also intently interested in giving them strong multiple orgasms to please and thrill them.
wow... with everyone and their "several" fuckbuddies, its no wonder that hiv is still spreading. Don't get on my case, i'm sure most of you are smart enough to use protection but still...... several fuck buddies at one time.... i mean condoms don't stop 100% of STDs people.
So what's your solution? Abstinence? I'll have you know I've had plenty of fuck friends in my life and I've never had an STD, not ONCE. So there..
