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Do You Have A Problem With Gay Guys In The Locker Room?

Discussion in 'Ask a Straight Man' started by blonded, May 23, 2019.

  1. blonded

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    Do you as a straight guy have a problem with a gay guy in the locker room?
     
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    Not really. The gay guys are usually pretty good about wearing their special "I'm Gay" necklaces and keep to themselves.
    How on Earth would I know if a guy is gay? I'm pretty sure the gays looks like the straights. Unless he's leering, touching, stroking, or whatever, I don't see it as a problem. And since I've never encountered any of that, I've never had a problem.
     
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    No problem. Most people (gay or otherwise) are decent and discrete. But even if somebody stares, if a guy admiring my body is the worst thing that happens in a day, that's a damn good day.
     
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    Unless I go into a locker room with someone or I know the people in there, it is unlikely I will know who they are or where they are from much less if they are straight, gay or bi.

    Assuming that demographics are what they are if 10% of the male population in a particular area is assumed gay, then in a locker room with 30 guys, you can assume that maybe 2-3 are gay. Unless the gentlemen in question say something I don't know the difference.

    It's a non-issue for most adult men.
     
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    sorry maybe i should’ve added that you know that the other person in the locker room is gay, for example you have a gay friend/class mate/ etc. and you go to the locker room together, i wanted to know if you had a problem with that, i hope i this clears things up
     
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    No worries

    I will say that I am selective about who I hang around with or where I go with anyone. So I am less concerned about whether or not the guy is gay vice whether he will act like an ass, is loud, pompous, etc.

    There are people I associate with on a regular basis, whom I will pass on lunch, having drinks with, or other social situations because they fall into the loud attention whore bracket, much less go to a locker room or gym with.

    I have been in a locker room and showered around a guy I suspected and then later learned he was gay. He was and still is a friend after many years.

    If we were still in the same line of work and he asked me if I wanted to go the gym I still would.

    Again a non-issue
     
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    Same answer. No problem. If he was making unwanted advances, that would be a different issue. But just normal gym stuff? Sure.
     
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    okay that’s good to hear!
     
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    No, probably not. If he's a friend and starts to overstep my comfort zone, I'd probably tell him to respect my boundaries. The other option is to make myself as unattractive and unappealing as possible in hopes of avoiding anything uncomfortable from happening.
     
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    I don’t have a problem with any male in men’s locker room.
     
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    I used to belong to a gym where almost certainly 30% or more of the members were gay men. Never once had even a remote issue.
     
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    No. I think its normal to be naked around other people, and the locker room is one of the only places where it is allowed. If gay men want to look, and I've had plenty of experience with gay men looking and going further, then that's fine. I wouldn't want anyone restricting what I can do in that scenario, so I don't think I should restrict anyone else. It's flattering in a way, obnoxious when it goes too far.
     
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    Not at all.
     
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    Nope, none at all.
     
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    I haven't got the slightest idea who is straight and who is gay in my gym.
     
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    If I'm in a locker room, I'm interested in changing, showering, and/or peeing. Not in whoever others are sexually interested in. As mentioned above, unless you're leering, masturbating, or being agressive, I probably don't even notice unless you walk into my sight line.
     
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    No, idk who is straight and who ia gay, and I don't care what their sexual preferences are. Men look at each other from time to time. It's just normal curiosity. Locker rooms are for changing, showering, etc. You've got to expect to see naked men in there. I'd be shocked if I didn't.

    Now if they're trying to grab my dick that's another issue altogether.
     
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    One of my best friends at university was gay, we frequently changed together and showered in communal showers when at the gym or after playing 5 aside soccer. No problems with him being gay .
     
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    Nope. Zero fucks given.
     
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