Do you have a "type" or are your sexual attractions eclectic?

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Do most of your sex partners and love interests fall into the same looking category e.g. bears, hairy men, smooth guys, twinks, black guys...etc and your sexual attractions, for the most part, are narrow in scope and what turns you on in a partner in terms of looks, race, physical characteristics...etc.

I'm not at all attracted to " bears, hairy men, smooth guys, twinks, black guys...etc " :biggrin1:

The 'type' of woman I 'generally' find myself attracted to is a naturally busty brunette, that is curvy, but not fat.

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Do your sexual partners look, for the most part, very different from each other, and you have eclectic sexual attractions, and find a wide variety of people sexually attractive.

I certainly have found women of all kinds attractive, for various reasons.
Sometimes it is the eyes or face, sometimes the body, or specific characteristic like wonderful breasts or an amazing ass.
If she has all of the above ... Bingo! (and boiiing)
 

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I'm attracted to a wide variety of men for a wide variety of reasons; the common denominator for most of them is self confidence and their personality. I've slept with a few stereotypical archetypes of gay porn fantasy and most of them were pretty lousy in bed because they were too busy trying to be fabulous.
 

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I hate to sound silly when I say this but I can't really choose who I'm attracted to. I think I have a type (short, brunette, slightly muscular like a dancers build) but then I'll meet a girl the complete opposite, like last week, tall (I mean 6ft, little bigger blonde) and she just had such a sexy personality. I don't what it was, whether it was the way she flirted or just looked at me but I couldn't help but just drool over her. It's probably because I get more turned on mentally then physically, except when I'm drunk, then all bets are off.
 

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I'll admit it, this "good boy" has a weakness for the "bad boys".

Naughty once used the term feral to describe the sort of men she found attractive.

I simply have the best chemistry most consistently with bad-boy, feral-type Latinos: they are my Kryptonite :rolleyes:
 

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i'm attracted to people who lisp or have tourette syndrome.
Actually being in the company of touretters with coprolalia can give me a sustained 4 hour erection.
 

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No matter how good looking any person is, I am immediately turned off by certain personality traits, be it for a one-night stand or long term relationship. Ignorance, prejudice, narrow-mindedness, and arrogance are instant turn-offs, as are emotionally shallow morons and chest-beating idiots that love their own scent.

This.

I've noticed as the years pass my taste in physical traits become more diverse and expansive but basic characteristics have not: Kindness, intelligence, empathy and the like. I can't abide the Tucker Max types nor any man who is in a perpetual state of emotional arrested development.
 

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*sigh* I keep forgetting things.....bald, full head of hair.....

And finally, after all my posts.....

Everything in between!
 
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None of my partners or SO's have been similar to each other, so I guess I'd fall under the eclectic category. Whatever they have going on physically it just has to work for them, that's my only criteria physically. However, if the personality is akin to a wet mop or frat boy I'm gone.

No matter how good looking any person is, I am immediately turned off by certain personality traits, be it for a one-night stand or long term relationship. Ignorance, prejudice, narrow-mindedness, and arrogance are instant turn-offs, as are emotionally shallow morons and chest-beating idiots that love their own scent. I suppose I've always been this way because my downstairs is hard-wired to my upstairs and there's no bypassing it. I am attracted to self-assurance, kindness, passion, intelligence, humor, honesty and patience. I'm married to a man that has all of these traits at varying levels. We have our problems but as long as we can work things out I will stay with him for the rest of my life. A good man is hard to find, and vice versa... :wink:

Eclectic.
I've dated from 5'3" to 6'4", emaciated to musclebound to 375lbs, hairless to hirsute, bald to Michael Bolton locks, dark to light skin, hair and eyes.

I do have an "ideal" type but I'm not rigid about it. Sexy is as sexy does.

The person has to give me a mental woodie or it won't work. An average looking person who makes me laugh, and connects with my mind is more attractive to me than a stunning looking person who just doesn't connect with me.

These. And I've had sex with a wide variety of types. I think of men like I think of candy--there are lots of different forms, but they all taste good.

:wink:

NCbear (who's with a serious piece of man candy now :biggrin1:)
 

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The person has to give me a mental woodie or it won't work. An average looking person who makes me laugh, and connects with my mind is more attractive to me than a stunning looking person who just doesn't connect with me.

Yup...thats it in a nutshell. Age, race, bodytype...i am all over the place...but if they don't hit me where i live, then it aint gonna happen.