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Do most of your sex partners and love interests fall into the same looking category e.g. bears, hairy men, smooth guys, twinks, black guys...etc and your sexual attractions, for the most part, are narrow in scope and what turns you on in a partner in terms of looks, race, physical characteristics...etc.
Do your sexual partners look, for the most part, very different from each other, and you have eclectic sexual attractions, and find a wide variety of people sexually attractive.
Pretty varied - or at least, several different types.
Pretty varied - or at least, several different types.
Black sheep, white sheep and mottled sheep? :biggrin1:
I'll admit it, this "good boy" has a weakness for the "bad boys".
No matter how good looking any person is, I am immediately turned off by certain personality traits, be it for a one-night stand or long term relationship. Ignorance, prejudice, narrow-mindedness, and arrogance are instant turn-offs, as are emotionally shallow morons and chest-beating idiots that love their own scent.
And shorn or even Sean.Black sheep, white sheep and mottled sheep? :biggrin1:
None of my partners or SO's have been similar to each other, so I guess I'd fall under the eclectic category. Whatever they have going on physically it just has to work for them, that's my only criteria physically. However, if the personality is akin to a wet mop or frat boy I'm gone.
No matter how good looking any person is, I am immediately turned off by certain personality traits, be it for a one-night stand or long term relationship. Ignorance, prejudice, narrow-mindedness, and arrogance are instant turn-offs, as are emotionally shallow morons and chest-beating idiots that love their own scent. I suppose I've always been this way because my downstairs is hard-wired to my upstairs and there's no bypassing it. I am attracted to self-assurance, kindness, passion, intelligence, humor, honesty and patience. I'm married to a man that has all of these traits at varying levels. We have our problems but as long as we can work things out I will stay with him for the rest of my life. A good man is hard to find, and vice versa... :wink:
Eclectic.
I've dated from 5'3" to 6'4", emaciated to musclebound to 375lbs, hairless to hirsute, bald to Michael Bolton locks, dark to light skin, hair and eyes.
I do have an "ideal" type but I'm not rigid about it. Sexy is as sexy does.
The person has to give me a mental woodie or it won't work. An average looking person who makes me laugh, and connects with my mind is more attractive to me than a stunning looking person who just doesn't connect with me.
The person has to give me a mental woodie or it won't work. An average looking person who makes me laugh, and connects with my mind is more attractive to me than a stunning looking person who just doesn't connect with me.
Yup...thats it in a nutshell. Age, race, bodytype...i am all over the place...but if they don't hit me where i live, then it aint gonna happen.