Do you have it in you to be a swinger

Have, you, or can you, participate in more than 1 on 1 sex?

  • yes

    Votes: 34 40.5%
  • no

    Votes: 15 17.9%
  • already have

    Votes: 35 41.7%

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In my fantasies, orgies seem so hot, but I know from personal experience, and knowing myself, I could never have sex with more than one person.

Could you (do you) do it, or is it something always left to your fantasies?

I also get this feeling, that I can make a choice, I can have love, family, stability... or I can go crazy sex orgy, and I keep thinking I want the former more than the latter.
 

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I also get this feeling, that I can make a choice, I can have love, family, stability... or I can go crazy sex orgy, and I keep thinking I want the former more than the latter.

It doesn't necessarily have to be either/or. I have been very lucky. I have been able to have both -- marriage to a wonderful woman, great children, plus lots of MMF action with my wife and a number of hot guys.
 

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Is a "swinger" the same as a "player"? People who know of my past experiences have called me a player but I'm not familiar with the other term. Enlighten me.

Gramps
 

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I'm not married anymore, but I'm fortunate to have a hot gf who loves sex. We've attended a couple of swingers parties together and one was a fantastic orgy experience with a lot of cool horny couples, but the other wasn't that great due to the people attending.

We had a wonderful party with some close friends on New Years Eve, and for those that stayed late enough it was fantatic with everyone starting to have sex with their partners, but after a while we were sharing, etc. I don't think I've ever fucked so many different women at one time (total of 5).

It's cool as long as you both enjoy it and are open to the idea (and if the other couples are cool, hot, and horny).

-Ranger
 

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In my fantasies, orgies seem so hot, but I know from personal experience, and knowing myself, I could never have sex with more than one person.
Could you (do you) do it, or is it something always left to your fantasies?

I also get this feeling, that I can make a choice, I can have love, family, stability... or I can go crazy sex orgy, and I keep thinking I want the former more than the latter.
I don't think most of the people here consider that to be an either or question, but I could be wrong. :cool:

I did a MFM and MMF when I was much younger. It wasn't bad. :biggrin1: However, I wasn't in a relationship at the time and I can't imagine that I would ever want to share the guy I was with now.

 

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I had gone to about 3 swinger parties and once I was with 4 men in one day. :smile:

However, I stopped going to them. Not because I have objections to swinging or orgies, but because they wouldn't use condoms, and I believe in SAFE swinging... (Plus I think they're INSANE not to use condoms when they have parties like that!)

Plus I'm single and it's kind of odd being with all these couples. Not to mention that I didn't have an attraction for every guy there, and I'd feel bad turning them down. (At the party I went to where I was with 4 guys, I was VERY attracted to two of them, sort of attracted to one, and not at all attracted to one...)

I'd often wondered if I'd have the nerve to do anything like this! I surprise myself though - and if people get to know me they're shocked, because on the surface I'm extremely shy.

Actually, I voted "Yes" on the poll, when I should have voted "Already have".
 

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I think I would be too shy to go to a party, but maybe a little soft swinging would be good. Something like same room sex with some friends, then maybe swapping.
 

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I had gone to about 3 swinger parties and once I was with 4 men in one day. :smile:

However, I stopped going to them. Not because I have objections to swinging or orgies, but because they wouldn't use condoms, and I believe in SAFE swinging... (Plus I think they're INSANE not to use condoms when they have parties like that!)

Plus I'm single and it's kind of odd being with all these couples. Not to mention that I didn't have an attraction for every guy there, and I'd feel bad turning them down. (At the party I went to where I was with 4 guys, I was VERY attracted to two of them, sort of attracted to one, and not at all attracted to one...)

I'd often wondered if I'd have the nerve to do anything like this! I surprise myself though - and if people get to know me they're shocked, because on the surface I'm extremely shy.

Actually, I voted "Yes" on the poll, when I should have voted "Already have".

I completely agree about the use of condoms when having sex with anyone other than your normal partner. I wouldn't even consider going to a sex party, or having sex with someone new without using one. It's a lot easier to just grab a handful of Magnum XL's before leaving the house. At one of the swingers parties I attended they had an assortment of condoms available for everyone to use (but I still bring my own).
 

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no, but i did have a mother/daughter at opposite ends of a hallway years ago when I was single. . when we were younger my wife and I were approached by other couples, wasn't really swinging, it was swapping. that was late 70's, early 80's and again in '91 when we moved.

we were both receptive to the idea, but the wife said she was gonna come up short, because she felt no other man's cock would do and make her feel like mine does. plus, she didn't like some of the other gals husbands. one rich gal was very,very persistent. her husband was good looking suave guy. he could be a regular guy at times, and then other times he was stuck on himself and his money. she took the wife to lunch, drinking, shopping. finally after about 6 months of this, in a drunken stupor one night, she told my wife she needed a big cock, and that our mutual friend, Jane, told her I had nice, fat cock. (Jane once saw me naked). she wanted to make it a 3 some that night. she and her hubby were squabbling. that kind of pissed my wife off. I was disappointed cuz I really wanted to pound my big dick into that rich pussy. well, it never happened and the rich bitch found another guy, he was single. so why swing??, she just cheated on her husband, every Thursday afternoon. in retrospect, I'm glad it didn't happen.
 

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I like group sex, but have to be attracted to the people- yesterday a couple at the beach wanted me to join them, although I was happy to watch them fuck -I just wasn't into her enough to her to join the fun.
 

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I did things a few times with my ex-wife and a lesbian friend of hers--because of that it was a little weird because it wasn't like I actually had sex with both women. All I did with the friend was a mutual manual manipulation, but otherwise all of the action was centered on my ex. It was interesting and fun in a different way, but maybe it worked only because my ex and I had already mentally moved on from each other.