I'm a man, and I very much have the urge to have sex at least once per day, if not more. My partner is also a man, but it just doesn't turn out as such with him. To be honest I am perplexed. What is it like for the rest of you?
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I absolutely have the urge daily, and could happily have sex once or twice if not more … my partner (male) has a lower sex drive than I do so it doesn’t happen
I want it every day and not just once. Not just fucking with my gf or fuck buddies, or getting a nice slow blow job. It can be edging or a session with my Fleshlight. I don't mind quickie fucks, but prefer a session where I cum more than once.. Last week, when I had several hours with a bottom buddy, I shot three loads into him and also shot a fourth time when we 69ed.
But some of us are happy with less. Listen to what your own body tells you. But if you want a marathon, go for it.
Once a day would be great, but married (female) and it is often by hand .
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I don't know for sure, but I believe most couples are miss matched sexually. Opposites attract. I certainly would enjoy having sex everyday. Just coherent seem to be in the cards for a lot of us. It sucks.
how are you defining sex??
for me 'sex' is anything that is intimate from a cuddle to penetration and many other things besides.
As a man yes i love to cum/climax and bring my partner off too but i love all those other forms of intimacy too.
if you're talking about just penetration then yes as a top guy in a gay relationship i'm up for that with my bf every day at least once a day and mostly thats how it goes/ends up and my bf has a high libido too. We rarely go more than a couple of days without penetrative sex.
But if either of us is tired, its late, need to be up early or a million other things, then a kiss, cuddle, hug, spoon and falling asleep together can be equally satisfying, albeit in a different way, and is just as bonding, reaffirming etc of our love.
for me 'sex' is anything that is intimate from a cuddle to penetration and many other things besides.
As a man yes i love to cum/climax and bring my partner off too but i love all those other forms of intimacy too.
if you're talking about just penetration then yes as a top guy in a gay relationship i'm up for that with my bf every day at least once a day and mostly thats how it goes/ends up and my bf has a high libido too. We rarely go more than a couple of days without penetrative sex.
But if either of us is tired, its late, need to be up early or a million other things, then a kiss, cuddle, hug, spoon and falling asleep together can be equally satisfying, albeit in a different way, and is just as bonding, reaffirming etc of our love.
As a man married to a woman with no sex drive… not a chance, or even once a week!
Last time I was having sex every day was in a gay relationship in my early 20’s
Last time I was having sex every day was in a gay relationship in my early 20’s
If you asked me this question maybe 20 years or so ago the answer would be different than today. Back then both my wife and I needed it almost every day and sometimes several times a day. Now we average about twice a week, with maybe a third day every now and then.
Some of this is due to aging. Some to the fact that after being together more than three decades, other forms of expression, like cuddling, talking, spending time together or even non-sexual flirting are more important than constant orgasms. Some are also due to where I am in life and I've found other forms of pleasure and life goals more desirable than frequent sex.
This is not to say I don't for the most part still think about sex several times a day, as I think that's a constant for us men at any stage in life and both a blessing and curse of having more testosterone than women; but having thoughts is not the same thing as needing to act upon them.
So, at this point, the frequency of sex is satisfactory to both myself and my wife and I really don't desire more and at any rate doubt I would have the energy for daily activity like in days past.
Some of this is due to aging. Some to the fact that after being together more than three decades, other forms of expression, like cuddling, talking, spending time together or even non-sexual flirting are more important than constant orgasms. Some are also due to where I am in life and I've found other forms of pleasure and life goals more desirable than frequent sex.
This is not to say I don't for the most part still think about sex several times a day, as I think that's a constant for us men at any stage in life and both a blessing and curse of having more testosterone than women; but having thoughts is not the same thing as needing to act upon them.
So, at this point, the frequency of sex is satisfactory to both myself and my wife and I really don't desire more and at any rate doubt I would have the energy for daily activity like in days past.
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Great answer!!!
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Daily sex as a married man? I'm lucky if I can get monthly sex after 18 years of marriage!
I have. It takes two though and my kids are the ultimate cock blockers.
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I could easily have at least once a day, but for husband it’s a no go
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He had a low sex drive and sometimes has issues with hemorrhoids so it’s not as often as I would like
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If I could, I would. My husband and I are definitely mismatched when it comes to our sex drive though. I could easily go several times a day whereas he can go for weeks without it.
People change over time also--illness, etc. What starts out hot and heavy can change for one person and not the other. So many things go into a relationship and sex is just one aspect. I'd love to have it daily, or would like to think I would.. But sometimes taking care of things by hand is better timing wise---and sometimes (often) far less work!
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