Last night I had a date and he was nice, really nice. I liked him and think I could go long term with him. We had dinner and saw a movie and talked by the car afterward. We kissed a bit and he invited me back to his place. I said I'd better not do that tonight and was feeling a bit bad for kissing on the first date. He teased me about being bad then kissed me some more. I kept thinking.... I don't know what the norm is anymore for sex and dating. It used to be that a girl didn't even kiss a guy until the 3rd date. Now Hollywood makes it look like if they kiss they wake up together in bed the next morning. Real life isn't like that, but how is it? How long do you date someone before you sleep with them?