D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah
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No i dont fuck on the first date. Nothing won with it but its not for me. It takes me a while longer before im comfortable with someone to strip off naked
For my part, I see nothing wrong with having sex after the first date. In fact if I like the girl, I am all for it. Why wait?
Um, cos men are pigs who use women for sex and then never call them again??? Maybe that's whay a woman should wait if she really likes a guy?
Besides, most men suck in bed so bad that women shouldn't even want to give them a second chance.
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Honey, you want hot incredible sex and respect... you usually don't get both when you jump right into the sack on the first date. However, with that being said, it all depends on what built up to the "first" date. Some people can connect for days, weeks or months on the phone or at work, etc, without ever having an official date. Then, by the time the first official date arrives, they know each other much better than some people who are on their third to fifth (now it's ok to do it) date. My two cents worth-- don't use a set time... use your instincts... which by the way are much better than most men's instincts. Good luck!
Yes if I am lucky...
Wow -- that's a dilemma for sure.
If I were you, I'd take the sex (making sure it's safe and all that)... and don't have "expectations" that every person you sleep with could be "the One". Eventually -- hopefully sooner than later -- one of them will be a winner.
I see no reason to "wait" for sex. :wink:
And besides, that way, you'll know what someone is like in bed BEFORE you fall in love.
That could be useful!
With a cock like that I'm sure you get lucky all the time!
That's how I am! I also have these long dry spells, probably due more to my shyness than anything else, but it's still frustrating...so when I do get the opportunity, I take it!
No, not since 1984. Technically, it wasn't a date. We met at the Valentine's Dance and I had seen him around campus before. I had already decided I would have a one night stand before I left the dorm. :redface: Turns out he was my first 'BIG' guy. We ended up dating for 18 months and almost got engaged. :smile:Do you have sex on the first date?
Last night I had a date and he was nice, really nice. I liked him and think I could go long term with him. We had dinner and saw a movie and talked by the car afterward. We kissed a bit and he invited me back to his place. I said I'd better not do that tonight and was feeling a bit bad for kissing on the first date. He teased me about being bad then kissed me some more.
I kept thinking.... I don't know what the norm is anymore for sex and dating. It used to be that a girl didn't even kiss a guy until the 3rd date.
From what I hear about the exploits of my 23 year old godson and what I read on this site I'd say it is like that.Now Hollywood makes it look like if they kiss they wake up together in bed the next morning. Real life isn't like that, but how is it?
It varies, I have no set time period. It's more a matter of how I feel about him and vice-versa. In my brain I think it's better to wait and get to know a guy. However, once my juices start to flow all bets are off. :wink: :redface:How long do you date someone before you sleep with them?
Two weeks ago, I met a guy, we went out, and had some of the best sex of my life that night (and the following morning)