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I used to. Sort of. I would post personal ads looking for friends with benefits, and spend a while vetting them via email and talking on the phone. Meet up would be in a public place. Safe sex practices only and at that phase of my life, anything anal where I was receiving was a hard limit, no negotiating. I wasn't super concerned about any STDs because safe sex practices and getting tested periodically.
 

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Back in the 80s, yes. What a world back then. But the world changed and the rules for sex changed. Everyone’s is vetted. Safe sex only.
Back in the 80s, yes. What a world back then. But the world changed and the rules for sex changed. Everyone’s is vetted. Safe sex only.

So then would you use a condom for a blow job?
 
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That’s kind of the whole point of Grindr. Between safe sex practices, testing every 90 days, and taking PrEP, I’m not particularly worried about an STI. I have very clear boundaries and expectations, and if something seems ‘off’ in person, I don’t hesitate to leave or ask them to leave.
 
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During spring fever, i picked up the behind me at the bank and we fucked in my car 5 minutes later.

Same thing getting coffee a few days later..
 
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Rarely in a 1-on-1 hookup. But, I do it all the time at big sex parties, often many in one night. Regarding STDs, over the years I have found that it is quite rare for me to catch anything at such sex parties, but one needs to be very careful about casual hookups with individuals, as well as sex clubs (places where anyone can go, as opposed to parties/events having a in invite process). I think the difference is that the heavy party players are much more attentive to their sexual health, while people seeking random hookups are often not.
 
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Yes. What happens depends on what the stranger wants to do. Unprotected fellatio is given and received but usually received, unprotected cunnilingus given, and vaginal or anal sex happens with a condom.

I've had hundreds of female partners in but can count the number I fucked bare on the fingers of one hand. I have never fucked or been fucked by a man without a condom. With fluid exchange kept to a minimum I'm not that concerned about picking up an STI.

Visual inspection goes a long way. If I see anything suspicious it's off.

I get tested every three months, more frequently if I suspect I've been exposed to something.
 
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That ummm depends on how horny I am. ;)

But I'm not gonna say I haven't! My ass would attest. :imp: