Do you have this "tell"?

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  1. Imported

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    wvalady1968: I never noticed this before it was pointed out to me. At the time, I denied it, but now I know it's true.

    When I'm becoming aroused, I have this really strong desire to stretch really big. It can happen when I'm reading erotic literature or watching porn, as well as in real life.

    So, think about it and let me know if it happens to you. Or do you have another "tell"?
     
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    ;) makes me glad I have girth...
     
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    inquiringmind: I was just talking with someone about this a few minutes ago... It must be instinctual...

    Inquiring mind
     
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    wvalady1968: [quote author=geo8x6 link=board=women;num=1065816505;start=0#1 date=10/12/03 at 15:30:50] ;)  makes me glad I have girth...[/quote]

    I meant stretch like you do when you're sleepy.
    Let me reword that.
    :D
     
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    I stand corrected, but I am still glad I have girth. ;D
     
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    Tender: ah ha
    i get it now.
    sorry, i thought like geo...
    ah no i dont feel sleepy or stretch like im sleepy...
    but ditto with geo on the girth thing....
    ;)
    Tender
     
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    inquiringmind: I think we all were mistaken... I believe your body is telling you that you need more Oxygen, dear.

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    ORCABOMBER: Wvlady, that is soo cute!
    Can't say I've got anything like that, mine is like the flight/fight response! ;D
     
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    Tender: [quote author=ORCABOMBER link=board=women;num=1065816505;start=0#7 date=10/13/03 at 10:48:12]Wvlady, that is soo cute!
    Can't say I've got anything like that, mine is like the flight/fight response!  ;D[/quote]

    LOL
    i know what you mean here,
    but i have to say
    i got a chuckle.
    reminded me of the time i realized that SB and i have a bi-polar marriage... :D
    fight like mad, throw stuff and scream,
    an hour later,
    in the sack....
    ya know?
     
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    ORCABOMBER: Makes me wonder if I really want to be in a relationship, Tender! :D

    I am not a person to start a fight with! But then again, I'd bet neither are you.

    I think though, flight/fight is pretty handy when you're turned on to someone and they're not though! ;D
     
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    Tender: well now youre *glad* i dont have a sister ha ha
    naw im fairly easy to get along with.
    im not the thrower btw.
    but i do have a hot mouth sometimes.
    its a flaw of mine ya know.
    but it is getting better.
    basically when we fight, the fight has nothing to do with what the fight is about. make sense? we just fight because our marriage is bad in other areas and it causes friction all over the place.... ( :D)
    Tender
     
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    ORCABOMBER: No problems Tender. ;D I tend to swear a lot, I just create all sorts of weird curses, like "What sort of terrorist are you?" among other things.

    I suppose a "Lil' Tender" wouldn't be too bad. Apart from we'd end up with some of the stupidest curses!
     
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    sammygirly: When I am aroused and want to orgasm, my entire body becomes super-sensitized...like, my skin is suddenly alive.

    Even the brush of my hair on the nape of my neck will send my teeth chattering. I start shivering suddenly and flinching when I'm brushed.

    That's my sure sign...never fails.

    And I AM talking BEFORE any actual foreplay begins.
     
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    awellhungboi: Oh, I know exactly what you're talking about, Allie! I think this is common with a lot of people even if they're not aware of it. Body language is fascinating! People can speak volumes to you without saying a word.

    For instance, guys, if you're talking to a woman and she stretches, or raises her arms above her head, or starts playing with her hair (refixing her ponytail etc)--odds are that she's attracted to you. (Of course this isn't 100%).

    Men have just as many 'tells' I'm sure, but I haven't paid as much attention to them.
     
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    Tender: eyes are a huge factor for me.
    i think body language is big,
    but eyes can tell alot.
    i like eyes that sparkle, ya know, smile at me.
    or a guy that can look through me with his eyes.
    or look like he wants me bad lol

    Tender
     
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    ORCABOMBER: [quote author=Monstro link=board=women;num=1065816505;start=0#13 date=10/13/03 at 14:14:53]
    Men have just as many 'tells' I'm sure, but I haven't paid as much attention to them. [/quote]
    I think a "tell" I have is to be really uncomfortable looking someone in the eye. Of course that's if I'm emotionally interested, physically and I tend to gawp, but not blatently.

    I dunno if anyone can read my tells! I don't know what all mine are!
     
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    rainfletcher: No one has mentioned hardening of the nipples? Is this just too obvious to warrant relating? I've seen women go from invisible to OBVIOUS in the course of a conversation as they get excited.
     
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    Tender: i too have wondered about that.
    i seem to need a little more arousal than just talk...
    ;)
    but i think all women would be different in that regard...

    Tender
     
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    rainfletcher: Ah, yes, Tender. But in the course of a conversation, the heat of a persons 'presence' can be intoxicating, yes? There's a certain charisma, or look or glance or who knows - SOMETHING, that can cause wood in a guy or serious arousal in a woman. The pull or desire can be intense, in my experience. Haven't you had a conversation, or a moment, with a person that aroused you?

    Which is slightly off subject, I just was wondering why no one had mentioned erect nipples as a 'tell'. Maybe I misunderstood the question....
     
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    Tender: no no Rain,
    dont think you misunderstood anything,
    you are right.
    i guess i was just commenting on the idea that it was too obvious to mention. its not obvious really for every woman, i dont really do that when i start to get arroused, takes a little more....
    some women im sure do.
    and erect nipples of course does not mean necesarily that she is aroused.

    and yes i very much understand the 'presence' thing.
    what sammy described about the skin feeling tingly all over and just... well, AGH! Oh YEAH, i do that easily.
    but just not the nipple thing as much.

    Tender
     
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