Do You Have To Be Bisexual To Be With A Trans Person? Or To Be Trans In General

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Yeah... but still you surely must have a physical basis for that attraction?
Myself, I am attracted to a typical female form. Even if that person has a penis. In fact a penis looks awesome, I am quite attracted to one. But not if it is attached to a typical male form who also acts masculine.
Guess I would say a person's personality really and heart ......
 
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Guess I would say a person's personality really and heart ......
The kids have been calling that demisexual I think? I believe that's a real thing. I know some people who identify as demisexual, and they're being genuine I feel.

I, on the other hand, do not necessarily have to like a person one bit in order to be sexually attracted to them. Hell, I've had sex with enemies. My life would probably be less of a mess if I were demisexual.
 

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I am sexually attracted to trans women because of their cock and balls. How ever if the relationship were to go further than sex it would be because of their personality,morals,attitude etc.etc. Thats what makes a person whole. It the total package.
 

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I am sexually attracted to trans women because of their cock and balls. How ever if the relationship were to go further than sex it would be because of their personality,morals,attitude etc.etc. Thats what makes a person whole. It the total package.
I only want the sex from them
 

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Thank you, at first I felt guilty or something. But now I know i am bi. Sucking a dick led me to taking anal too. I love being fucked like a female
Thats my favorite thing also but just haven't found anyone to be with lately since I'm on hormones and this virus is making it hard to meet anyone
 
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For decades I naively believed only bisexual or closeted gay men were the only men who would be with a Trans Woman sexually. Now my eyes have been opened to a world I never knew existed. Thanks to Trans Women of Onlyfans I now see that it’s almost exclusively heterosexual men who are sexually turned on by Trans women. They like to be dominated be these Trans women. I don’t know why I find that so intriguing? Perhaps it’s the years only believing one thing and now seeing the truth for the first time.


Btw, these same men would never let another guy touch them.
 

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I don't entirely understand the various sexual orientations of trans people, or their partners. All my trans friends themselves are bisexual, and their partners whether trans or not, are all ways bisexual.

It was an assumption of mine that hetero or exclusively homosexual people wouldn't be aroused by a trans person since you have to find qualities of both sexes arousing.

your insights are appreciated. I don't want to be ignorant :)
'I don't understand the various sexual orientations of Transpeople...my trans friends themselves are all bisexual.'

Well, I will say this to that, "Depending on where YOU are residing, these Transfolk may be bisexual, homosexual or heterosexual - all depending on the region they are based in."

Let me let you know that in MY region of the U.S, Dallas/FtWorth, TEXAS - The Transwomen here are mainly sexually attracted to men. This would go halfway between str8 and gay sex. Not 'neccesarily' bisexual because these men are all having an attraction to penis. And engaging in lots of sex surrounding the sexual pleasure and satisfaction of the penis of The Other person they (the guy) is engaged with.

When The Guy is so *intently focused* on the other persons penis (in whichever sexual act, be it sucking the other persons cock or riding the other persons Cock) this is considered Cock Worship. Now, if The Guy is mainly focused on DAT ASS of The Transwoman and doesn't mind giving oral every now and again to her, this would be considered more on the Bisexual side. If The Guy is EXCLUSIVELY fixated on giving Anal to The Transwoman, eating her ass out all the time and having her pleasure HIS COCK in every which way, shape and form while 'not bothering' with her penis - he is more to be considered on The Heterosexual side because while she has a penis, he is only interested in DAT ASS and having HER be the one who is Worshipping His Cock (and cum).

It all is here in the D/FW area where I am at: Transwomen here are all mainly sexually attracted to the men and ever so rarely open to the females on a sexual level.

This is in direct contrast to your experience.

Now let me address your saying, "...hetero or exclusively homosexual people wouldn't be aroused by a trans person..." Yes. In THIS region where I am living, that seems to fit almost entirely the mindset. Heterosexual men do not seek out Transwomen because they want vagina and seek to impregnate the females therefore seeking procreation and to produce offspring - which is totally understandable. Homosexual men are not interested in Transwomen either. These men seek out exclusively masculine men who are mainly either heterosexual (yes, dumb there) or bi-curious. The Gay men are mush less attracted to other homosexual men, UNLESS the guy of interest is pretty much Hetero looking and acting who 'just so happens' to be 'open or curious or bisexual' (yes, also dumb if you look at it).

The GAY MEN here in this region and Nation Wide At Large are seriously stuck in a very contrived mindset that is perpetually self hating, totally unrealistic, insanely and superficially 'idealistic' while THEY PERSONALLY mainly may look unattractive and are physically NOT what they would themselves seek out. They are either completely delusional in this fact or sometimes, they themselves in a rareity, ARE exactly looking and being what they themselves are looking for in a guy - which is not very common at all.

Transwomen by large have an uphill battle in all directions no matter which direction they may go.

In closing, if you (as a person or to the person reading this now) seek variation, it is a great idea to take it upon yourself and TRAVEL outside of your region a bit if at all possible. Perhaps a vacation to a completely different area where there is a plethora of selection and an array of peoples.

Cheers and Bonvoyage my Dear(s) !
 
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For decades I naively believed only bisexual or closeted gay men were the only men who would be with a Trans Woman sexually. Now my eyes have been opened to a world I never knew existed. Thanks to Trans Women of Onlyfans I now see that it’s almost exclusively heterosexual men who are sexually turned on by Trans women. They like to be dominated be these Trans women. I don’t know why I find that so intriguing? Perhaps it’s the years only believing one thing and now seeing the truth for the first time.


Btw, these same men would never let another guy touch them.
I have very much seen the type of men you speak about.

There are 2 types of THAT man: A Top Man and a Bottom Man. You are speaking of the Bottom Straight man who seeks out a Top Transwoman - one such as myself.

Every now and again, there are those VERS men who are Exclusively attracted to Transwomen and prefer their ladies to also be vers. But those are few (the vers man with the vers Transwoman). The vers man is more on the Str8 side of things because as it turns out, he *mainly* wants to Top but he is 'open' to receiving anal. These guys I classify as truly bisexual sexually THOUGH they seem not to be attracted and do not want MEN in any sexual manner.
 

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'I don't understand the various sexual orientations of Transpeople...my trans friends themselves are all bisexual.'

Well, I will say this to that, "Depending on where YOU are residing, these Transfolk may be bisexual, homosexual or heterosexual - all depending on the region they are based in."

Let me let you know that in MY region of the U.S, Dallas/FtWorth, TEXAS - The Transwomen here are mainly sexually attracted to men. This would go halfway between str8 and gay sex. Not 'neccesarily' bisexual because these men are all having an attraction to penis. And engaging in lots of sex surrounding the sexual pleasure and satisfaction of the penis of The Other person they (the guy) is engaged with.

When The Guy is so *intently focused* on the other persons penis (in whichever sexual act, be it sucking the other persons cock or riding the other persons Cock) this is considered Cock Worship. Now, if The Guy is mainly focused on DAT ASS of The Transwoman and doesn't mind giving oral every now and again to her, this would be considered more on the Bisexual side. If The Guy is EXCLUSIVELY fixated on giving Anal to The Transwoman, eating her ass out all the time and having her pleasure HIS COCK in every which way, shape and form while 'not bothering' with her penis - he is more to be considered on The Heterosexual side because while she has a penis, he is only interested in DAT ASS and having HER be the one who is Worshipping His Cock (and cum).

It all is here in the D/FW area where I am at: Transwomen here are all mainly sexually attracted to the men and ever so rarely open to the females on a sexual level.

This is in direct contrast to your experience.

Now let me address your saying, "...hetero or exclusively homosexual people wouldn't be aroused by a trans person..." Yes. In THIS region where I am living, that seems to fit almost entirely the mindset. Heterosexual men do not seek out Transwomen because they want vagina and seek to impregnate the females therefore seeking procreation and to produce offspring - which is totally understandable. Homosexual men are not interested in Transwomen either. These men seek out exclusively masculine men who are mainly either heterosexual (yes, dumb there) or bi-curious. The Gay men are mush less attracted to other homosexual men, UNLESS the guy of interest is pretty much Hetero looking and acting who 'just so happens' to be 'open or curious or bisexual' (yes, also dumb if you look at it).

The GAY MEN here in this region and Nation Wide At Large are seriously stuck in a very contrived mindset that is perpetually self hating, totally unrealistic, insanely and superficially 'idealistic' while THEY PERSONALLY mainly may look unattractive and are physically NOT what they would themselves seek out. They are either completely delusional in this fact or sometimes, they themselves in a rareity, ARE exactly looking and being what they themselves are looking for in a guy - which is not very common at all.

Transwomen by large have an uphill battle in all directions no matter which direction they may go.

In closing, if you (as a person or to the person reading this now) seek variation, it is a great idea to take it upon yourself and TRAVEL outside of your region a bit if at all possible. Perhaps a vacation to a completely different area where there is a plethora of selection and an array of peoples.

Cheers and Bonvoyage my Dear(s) !
You are so wrong.
The Gay men are not mush less attracted to each other .... Just too feminine gay men less attracted to each other, and most gay men are not too feminine.
Most married gay men are married from each other,most gay men who rent men , rent another gay men,most gay men who have a boyfriend ,have a gay boyfriend .
And yes most gay men attracted to masculinity and most gay men have alot of masculine traits, and some gay men also attraction to flamboyant gay men.

After all this you think that Gay men are mush less attracted to each other.
 
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You are so wrong.
The Gay men are not mush less attracted to each other .... Just too feminine gay men less attracted to each other, and most gay men are not too feminine.
Most married gay men are married from each other,most gay men who rent men , rent another gay men,most gay men who have a boyfriend ,have a gay boyfriend .
And yes most gay men attracted to masculinity and most gay men have alot of masculine traits, and some gay men also attraction to flamboyant gay men.

After all this you think that Gay men are mush less attracted to each other.
thanks for pointing this out. there seemed to be some homophobia and resentment in her post but I didn't know where to begin in unpacking it.
 

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From my POV , this topic will have it's pros and cons until the human race is gone .
My Girl friend was a trans woman , A WOMAN not a male with breast. I'm 100% straight.
I fell in love with HER , not the WHAT , but that's just me .She was a real person . She didn't flaunt her self in any way . She wasn't into the porn side of the sex trade side .The attraction was so strong to me it almost hurt . And it wasn't all about SEX. Sure it was there , I not going to BS. Any one about that , but on her end , she was on the HRT for a long while and T blockers , so for her to get hard was almost impossible.
6 short wonderful years together , I paid for her larger breast and her Dr visits and it was so satisfying to take her shopping . It was wonderful .. She was raped by 4 ass holes and the police did nothing . She was beaten so bad she lost the sight in one eye from a shattered eye socket , 4 broken ribs and the anal tearing was severe.

She slipped into deep depression and became very paranoid about phone calls,or knock on the door . When I was,away she took a full bottle of her Rx Xanax and died . My world died at that point . I'm still straight, but haven't looked for any one new , Am I still attracted to a trans woman , yes
She changed my mind and life forever.. I posted this about 2 years ago ,.I don't have any one to share with
 

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From my POV , this topic will have it's pros and cons until the human race is gone .
My Girl friend was a trans woman , A WOMAN not a male with breast. I'm 100% straight.
I fell in love with HER , not the WHAT , but that's just me .She was a real person . She didn't flaunt her self in any way . She wasn't into the porn side of the sex trade side .The attraction was so strong to me it almost hurt . And it wasn't all about SEX. Sure it was there , I not going to BS. Any one about that , but on her end , she was on the HRT for a long while and T blockers , so for her to get hard was almost impossible.
6 short wonderful years together , I paid for her larger breast and her Dr visits and it was so satisfying to take her shopping . It was wonderful .. She was raped by 4 ass holes and the police did nothing . She was beaten so bad she lost the sight in one eye from a shattered eye socket , 4 broken ribs and the anal tearing was severe.

She slipped into deep depression and became very paranoid about phone calls,or knock on the door . When I was,away she took a full bottle of her Rx Xanax and died . My world died at that point . I'm still straight, but haven't looked for any one new , Am I still attracted to a trans woman , yes
She changed my mind and life forever.. I posted this about 2 years ago ,.I don't have any one to share with
I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. thank you for sharing.
 

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I have very much seen the type of men you speak about.

There are 2 types of THAT man: A Top Man and a Bottom Man. You are speaking of the Bottom Straight man who seeks out a Top Transwoman - one such as myself.

Every now and again, there are those VERS men who are Exclusively attracted to Transwomen and prefer their ladies to also be vers. But those are few (the vers man with the vers Transwoman). The vers man is more on the Str8 side of things because as it turns out, he *mainly* wants to Top but he is 'open' to receiving anal. These guys I classify as truly bisexual sexually THOUGH they seem not to be attracted and do not want MEN in any sexual manner.
I know a few Trans women that only want to be with straight men . Then some want to be with only straight women or trans Gurls . I am a straight man who prefers Trans women , not show offs , not in the porn industry , just a Gurl that is out to find out who she really is
 

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From my POV , this topic will have it's pros and cons until the human race is gone .
My Girl friend was a trans woman , A WOMAN not a male with breast. I'm 100% straight.
I fell in love with HER , not the WHAT , but that's just me .She was a real person . She didn't flaunt her self in any way . She wasn't into the porn side of the sex trade side .The attraction was so strong to me it almost hurt . And it wasn't all about SEX. Sure it was there , I not going to BS. Any one about that , but on her end , she was on the HRT for a long while and T blockers , so for her to get hard was almost impossible.
6 short wonderful years together , I paid for her larger breast and her Dr visits and it was so satisfying to take her shopping . It was wonderful .. She was raped by 4 ass holes and the police did nothing . She was beaten so bad she lost the sight in one eye from a shattered eye socket , 4 broken ribs and the anal tearing was severe.

She slipped into deep depression and became very paranoid about phone calls,or knock on the door . When I was,away she took a full bottle of her Rx Xanax and died . My world died at that point . I'm still straight, but haven't looked for any one new , Am I still attracted to a trans woman , yes
She changed my mind and life forever.. I posted this about 2 years ago ,.I don't have any one to share with
My heart aches for this tragedy. It is a wonder why there isnt a Trans Serial Killer out there who targets men because of all this.
 
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thanks for pointing this out. there seemed to be some homophobia and resentment in her post but I didn't know where to begin in unpacking it.
Go ahead and pick it apart: Unpack. It isn't like you don't have any time.

To Quote myself here from what I said above where it may be what you were referring to:

"The GAY MEN here in this region (D/FW Texas) and Nation Wide At Large are seriously stuck in a very contrived mindset that is perpetually self hating, totally unrealistic, insanely and superficially 'idealistic' while THEY PERSONALLY mainly may look unattractive and are physically NOT what they would themselves seek out."

I said what I said. I am under no obligation to tip-toe if I see that certain folks of the GAY Community treat others a certain way and be HYPOCRITES. It isn't Homophobia. Not in the least. Resentment? Sure. I can agree to that part of it, yes. I am highly resentful of those who are/act the way I just so described.

Get your head out and see what I was talking about. You, sitting there trying to call me a HOMOPHOBE. I have A DISLIKE for those particular Assholes who CHOSE and CHOOSE to be that way (as in my quote from myself) That doesn't MAKE me Phobic. Go look up that word in the dictionary again and Refamiliarize yourself with the meaning of that before you go tossing it around.

So, no. I will make no excuses for it (not liking Hypocritical Gays) or look the other way when I see it. I'm not changing your mind and you aren't changing mine. You are either part of those Gays in THEIR mindset or you aren't.

Either way, take the time to speak your piece. Don't hold back. I wouldn't.