Do you HAVE to be the biggest ur life partner has ever had?

[iian1972]

My wife once had a fmf threesome with a couple where the guys was in her words massive!!.

Does it bother me no, im glad she had the experience. We have a great sex life and marriage, that's what counts to me.

 

[basincreek]

Talk about insecure!

Most of that was tongue in cheek. :biggrin1:

 

[chefgreg]

No I don't have to be the biggest, but I would not mind being the best!

 

[Argonaut 1975]

Well, I am, but her sole previous boyfriend was a jerk.

 

[cutedorkwho]

Not only did my girl tell me she was with bigger, she also said the "full feeling" was quite a bit better for her.

Things were never quite the same with her after that. She wasn't even trying to be mean, she just doesn't know when to quit talking...


I'm not terribly thick, so I'm pretty used to my partners being with larger guys but that still hasn't stopped me from being at least two girls first orgasm from intercourse alone. (much better ego boost, imo!)

 

[blutrane]

Yeah, being her best is WAY better than being her biggest. You can't control her experiences, but you CAN work on pleasuring her like no other man before you.

That said, I get a little miffed when I'm not the biggest a girl has been with. It comes from a selfish and egotistical place that I try not to pay any mind. But it's there all the same. I guess I just wanna rock her world and blow her mind. Maybe I feel as though if I were undoubtedly her biggest, that would be more the case. No way for me or anyone to prove that, though.

 

[D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead]

Yeah, being her best is WAY better than being her biggest. You can't control her experiences, but you CAN work on pleasuring her like no other man before you.

Great reminder that size is no replacement for the valuable skill of using your cock to satisfy your partner.

 

[RawDog]

The downside of my relationship with my wife is that we were best friends for 16 years prior to getting married. As such, I know pretty much everything about her past that she'd ever tell another living soul. I know I'm not the biggest, but I've given her orgasms like no one else in her past.

That's all that matters.

Dimensionally, I don't see getting any longer than her backstop is as deep. We can rub it good and plenty, and that's what matters.

Thickness, I've been called "ample" and "substantial" by others and as far as my wife is concerned after the 45 minute mark my thickness gets toi be a problem. So, thicker would be a problem for her, thinner would be a problem for me. It's all good.

 

[jojo7]

I'm the biggest my current gf of 6 years (and someday wife) has had, because I'm the only one she's had, so I guess I defaulted into being the biggest! I would say that I wouldn't have to be, but it could be different had she previously had bigger.

For the girls in college I slept with, I was each of their biggest. My 1st gf in college, I was her first and she is married now, so odds are I am larger than him, not that I care. I was also my best friend's 1st, so biggest there by default. One girl I slept with when she was a freshman in college previously had a bf in high school and I was bigger than him.

I guess it's nice to know, but it's not something I thought about much.

 

[big_tits4big_dicks]

I dated a girl for over two years and she was well aware from my friends and our sex life (she hadn't been with any other guy before) that I was hung like a horse. However, after we broke up she went on a sleeping with other people binge. She went to Europe and slept around as well as in college. We met at a bar one night a few years ago to have some drinks and after she told me about her escapades I asked her who the biggest guy she'd been with was. She said, "I hate to admit it because you are such an asshole, but you are." I secretly hope that she never finds anybody as close to the same size and that her future husband will be completely inept to fill what I stretched out.

Wow, she is right. You do sound like an asshole. Don't worry, you didn't stretch nothin out. And she said biggest....not best.

 

[D_Irving D Injector]

oh snap.

 

[D_Tallie_Wacker]

No.

I'm not the biggest my wife has ever had, but I knew that within the first year we were dating.

I suppose it makes you a little insecure in a way to know you aren't, especially if the size difference was considerable, but at the same time, its sort of strangely arousing to picture her having been stuffed by a bigger guy, and imagine her getting hit in places I can't even reach.

 

[marriedasian]

wow, how egotistical can you be to think that? in short, no i don't have to be biggest.

 

[chefgreg]

Not only did my girl tell me she was with bigger, she also said the "full feeling" was quite a bit better for her.

Things were never quite the same with her after that. She wasn't even trying to be mean, she just doesn't know when to quit talking...


This has happened to me with a few black women.