Do you hide your bulge?

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Well, I'm not so big that I get people staring at my bulge, but I'm big enough that show more than a lot of guys. I tend to agree with the guy who pointed out that we don't expect women with large breasts to try to hide them, why should we have to hide? So I don't do anything to enhance my bulge by wearing a cock ring otherwise, but. I don't wear tight underwear to try to hide it either. I wear what's comfortable. If you happen to notice that I have a penis, so be it. That should not be a surprise.

Regarding whether older guys and younger guys think differently, the older I get, the less I care about what anyone else thinks.

I mean really, if totally fat men feel ok walking around without feeling embarrassed, a guy with a big dick should have nothing to be embarrassed about.
 

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As a very young guy, I always had a faded spot on my left jean's pant leg. I told my dad that I needed new ones. Of course he asked why and I pointed to the faded spot. He said 'be proud of that spot'.
So, it has never bothered me if my stuff shows or not. Like you said, women show their boobs, they even are vocal about wanting bigger ones. The same as guys who show off their big muscles.
I like comfort, boxars are my choice of comfortable underwear and so be it. It is what it is.





I've thought about this subject before. Women go to great lengths and sometimes great expense to show off a big set of boobs. Gym rats will wear anything to display great pecs and arms, so if your best asset is hanging between your legs why do some people think it distasteful to show it off in a pair of pants?
 

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I most definitely do not hide my bulge. But, by the same token, I do not try to enhance/show it, either.

Adjustment was a constant problem when I wore briefs. Boxerbriefs with a fly were a significant improvement. But, since discovering pouch boxerbriefs, I rarely have to adjust myself at all. And, while they make my bulge appear slightly larger, it is somehow less obvious...the spandex creates a smoother line, I think.

My suspicion is that you are more keenly aware of your own bulge, than others. It's probably a non-issue. Women have curves. Men have bulges. Unless you are drawing attention to it, it is unlikely that anyone is taking notice.
 

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Just yesterday I was waiting in my car while my Dad was in seeing the doctor and I saw a young clean cut black kid, between 16-20, walking down the street in one of those throwback sweatsuits from the 70's. And let me tell you he was "wearing" that suit. Arse was hugged nice n tight. On his return trip I caught the front a little better and he had at least a good 6 inches going to the left. It was a lovely sight to behold indeed.
 

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Hey guys,

So I've noticed that I often bulge a little bit to the right when I wear pants especially when I wear boxers. I rarely notice one of my buddies bulging/ having to adjust. What are they all doing? Wearing briefs that make you bulge less? It seems like older guys are a little more comfortable bulging.
Hey Chunkymunky: I agree with your observations. Your buddies are probably wearing standard briefs or boxerbriefs that hold their penis closer to their bodies and make the bulge less noticeable. When I wore briefs, I had to adjust often to keep my bits from getting pinched. I put up with it for many years because I would have been embarrassed if my dick showed in my pants or shorts. When I was in college in the '90s, there were so many guys who freeballed or wore boxers that you saw flopping dick all over campus. None of these guys ever seemed concerned that you could see their dick. I wore boxers to school now and then and found it very liberating to hang freely with my dick pointing down to the right. I walked around campus with a semi all the time and enjoyed the looks I got. Finally, I said "fuck it" and quit caring about my dick showing. I switched to boxers and love the freedom. I never have to adjust anymore because junior has plenty of room. I also have a bulge to the right and like how it looks. You can see the outline of my penis in my gym shorts and track pants, yet as long as I'm not sporting a boner, I think it's fine. I wear roomy jeans at work to avoid any problems, but outside of work, I could care less if people notice my goods.
 

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I've thought about this subject before. Women go to great lengths and sometimes great expense to show off a big set of boobs. Gym rats will wear anything to display great pecs and arms, so if your best asset is hanging between your legs why do some people think it distasteful to show it off in a pair of pants?

There is a time and place for everything. Women get to show off their boobs,,,but hey...they have to shave their underarms. I'd rather be able to keep the underarm hair and hide the Johnson. But maybe that's just me.
 

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I wear boxers, and don't try to show or hide. It is what it is.

My Dad says I'm big enough as to be careful not to show too much bulge. Sometimes need to reposition, but I don't think about it much.
 

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No, its hurt when hiding the stuf.
In busness suites it is not verry visabel when walking. When sitting there is a bulge on the right site.
In jeans it is verry visabel. In cyclingshorts and speedo's also. But that is the way it is.
 

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I neither hide it nor show it, but there are certain pairs of pants where it's more noticeable. If it's too noticeable when I try them on in the store my wife doesn't let me buy them.

Exactly the same with me. Went to buy a suit once and the pants REALLY showed my package. It went back on the rack.


Some pants show more than others. I wear boxers and boxer briefs. Of course the boxers show more. Look, I've got a penis. It's gonna show sometimes. Sorry if that offends anyone.


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Nope. I enjoy having the bulge...and it turns me on a bit, to be honest. I try to be cognizant of when I'm overdoing it, but that usually means I'm trying on uncomfortably tight pants.

Most people never look. The few that do just steal a glance and never say anything.
 

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I'm huge and I go without any underwear. It hangs on the right and when the weather gets hot my balls hang down 4 inches and it looks like I have a huge orange down there. if the women can show tits then I will show what I have and I don't try to hide it, neither do I flaunt it. I'm a man and I have a penis and balls and I'm proud of it.
 

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nope..don't try to hide it. it is what it is. I'm a boxers or nothing guy unless wearing a jock..and a jock tends to gather it and show it down my leg anyway