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A member wrote that I was making a huge generalization and misrepresentation of Straight Men without evidence that Straight Men "judge" Gay men who do anal sex?
The member said that I am pigeon holing & stereo typing Straight Men for what purpose?

So I'll put the question to straight men. Do you, in total honesty, harbor judgment about gay guys that are into anal sex?
 

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No! Stop with the Straight bashing rhetoric, you have created 3 separate threads on this forum where you seem to have an agenda to prove that Straight members here are homophobic by "judging" them & giving no evidence for this whatsoever, when other members ( Straight members) disagree with you, you call them "pathetic, illogical" and insult them. You set a poll for Straight members only where you could not see which members voted ie Gay/Bi members, then was "surprised" when Gay & Bi members ruined the poll.
 

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I wasn't trying to prove anything. I'm simply asking. Most straight guys might say they don't judge. Consider that maybe we have homophobia ourselves which we want to dispel. You really make a lot of assumptions about an 'agenda'. This is the 'ask a straight man' section, not the 'get attacked by sanctimonious straight guys' section so think before you become a keyboard warrior.
 

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No! Stop with the Straight bashing rhetoric, you have created 3 separate threads on this forum where you seem to have an agenda to prove that Straight members here are homophobic by "judging" them & giving no evidence for this whatsoever, when other members ( Straight members) disagree with you, you call them "pathetic, illogical" and insult them. You set a poll for Straight members only where you could not see which members voted ie Gay/Bi members, then was "surprised" when Gay & Bi members ruined the poll.
Where did I say gay/bi members ruined the poll? You said that!! I said that the majority of people that answered appeared straight based on selecting option A. Where did I call you pathetic?? You said I was stereotyping so I put the question to straight guys.
 

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A member wrote that I was making a huge generalization and misrepresentation of Straight Men without evidence that Straight Men "judge" Gay men who do anal sex?
The member said that I am pigeon holing & stereo typing Straight Men for what purpose?

So I'll put the question to straight men. Do you, in total honesty, harbor judgment about gay guys that are into anal sex?
Your name is familiar to me for some time but you never strike me as bitter negative or trollish but making a thread of what you understood of a comment to underline a fight and try to torch someone seams like a terrible idea not what I would expect from a long time member.
If your questions goes where you didn't anticipate welcome it and learn from it.
As for your question I couldn't care less what other human being does in private unless is a crime.
For me orientation is with which gender someone has sex with and not the type of sex they have.
Before being here I assumed gay people would do anal but here I learned you divided yourself as tops and bottoms once again not a useful information to me.
I don't even know what kind of sex have my best friends has, I don't want to know and if I knew I couldn't judge them.
 

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Your name is familiar to me for some time but you never strike me as bitter negative or trollish but making a thread of what you understood of a comment to underline a fight and try to torch someone seams like a terrible idea not what I would expect from a long time member.
If your questions goes where you didn't anticipate welcome it and learn from it.
As for your question I couldn't care less what other human being does in private unless is a crime.
For me orientation is with which gender someone has sex with and not the type of sex they have.
Before being here I assumed gay people would do anal but here I learned you divided yourself as tops and bottoms once again not a useful information to me.
I don't even know what kind of sex have my best friends has, I don't want to know and if I knew I couldn't judge them.
Thank you. I was asking a question and that user went for the jugular saying that I had an agenda to smear straight guys as homophobic. The idea to me was ludicrous. I didn't intend to torch the guy. Your answer was exactly the type of answer that I was seeking - thanks for your perspective.
 

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Where did I say gay/bi members ruined the poll? You said that!! I said that the majority of people that answered appeared straight based on selecting option A. Where did I call you pathetic?? You said I was stereotyping so I put the question to straight guys.
You did not call me pathetic, you aimed that at another user, the post has now been deleted by the Moderators & rightly so.
You also told Gay/Bi members to stop answering the poll, even though you could have stopped it at source.
I did say that would happen in a post that you liked.
Then you act surprised when it did happen. Yes you did say that the majority of people that answered appeared straight but the poll was only for straight people anyway, if you had set the poll correctly , Gay/Bi people wouldn't have been able to answer.
You couldn't get the answer you wanted in the poll so you posted two more posts judging Straight men as being "judgemental" towards anal by Gay guys without any evidence whatsoever so yeah you were/ still are being judgemental yourself & being derisive of any Straight man that disagrees with you.
 

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I wasn't trying to prove anything. I'm simply asking. Most straight guys might say they don't judge. Consider that maybe we have homophobia ourselves which we want to dispel. You really make a lot of assumptions about an 'agenda'. This is the 'ask a straight man' section, not the 'get attacked by sanctimonious straight guys' section so think before you become a keyboard warrior.
Ah so 3 separate threads started on the same subject is not an agenda? Oh ok. So when you didn't get the answer you wanted in the poll you just star a new thread until you do.

The answer you are desperately searching for is "Yes Straight men do judge Gay men who have anal sex"
However the answers given by straight men in your poll has disproved this but the answer given by Gay/Bi men is the answer you wanted. Other wise you would have set the poll correctly.
You say "Most straight guys MIGHT say they don't judge". Consider this..Most straight guys DONT judge!
 

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Where did I say gay/bi members ruined the poll? You said that!! I said that the majority of people that answered appeared straight based on selecting option A. Where did I call you pathetic?? You said I was stereotyping so I put the question to straight guys.
"Gay and bi people stop voting and messing up the results". There are your words Post #8 about your poll in your thread.
 
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Yes anal should not be done unless you are homosexual or bisexual. I dont understand why any male would want to fuck their gf or wife in their ass if they have a vagina thats meant for it
 

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Yes anal should not be done unless you are homosexual or bisexual. I dont understand why any male would want to fuck their gf or wife in their ass if they have a vagina thats meant for it
Please fill in your percentages.
What if the wife use a strap on a straight men the activity would be double gay activity but by Morgan law double gay becomes straight?
You should investing on strap-ons exclusively designed for anal sex for lesbians how can they be gay without a penis and anal sex.
 

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@cofrader i dont know any lesbians using strap ons for anal sex. If it was common i would have heard of that. I dont even see that in porn. I assume if a man wants his wife to use a strap on for him then their might be bisexuality tendencies that are being explored. Penis inside vagina should give most pleasure for a heterosexual couple.
 

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@cofrader i dont know any lesbians using strap ons for anal sex. If it was common i would have heard of that. I dont even see that in porn. I assume if a man wants his wife to use a strap on for him then their might be bisexuality tendencies that are being explored. Penis inside vagina should give most pleasure for a heterosexual couple.
I know a few women (who are not Lesbians but Bi) who have used strap on's both vaginally & anally on each other..not on me mind..but I guess I have been lucky. :cool:
 
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A member wrote that I was making a huge generalization and misrepresentation of Straight Men without evidence that Straight Men "judge" Gay men who do anal sex?
The member said that I am pigeon holing & stereo typing Straight Men for what purpose?
Not getting into that argument that has unfolded before my response!
So I'll put the question to straight men. Do you, in total honesty, harbor judgment about gay guys that are into anal sex?
Why would I? How two people express their sexuallity is between themselves. Why would I judge that in any way?
 

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A member wrote that I was making a huge generalization and misrepresentation of Straight Men without evidence that Straight Men "judge" Gay men who do anal sex?
The member said that I am pigeon holing & stereo typing Straight Men for what purpose?

So I'll put the question to straight men. Do you, in total honesty, harbor judgment about gay guys that are into anal sex?
Probably...and to be honest, as straight men we probably lowkey respect or feel more camaraderie with those topping as opposed to those bottoming. Taking a dick in one's ass(even with the existence of the "power bottom") is, in almost all cases for a straight man a position of submission; to the point where most of us will have an aversion to women being the penetrators.
I'm not saying it's "right" or anything, but in this day and age, I guess I don't understand why non straight men can't understand why straight men(given our sexual strategy and position in the sexual marketplace) are so averse to sexual acts and situations that don't serve, or worse, negatively affect our sexual strategies
 
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