Do You Know How Attractive You Are?

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Thanks guys. I'm working on it. Now, on to...


SLB's new hair! It looks GREAT! Are you sure Joy isn't a gay man in drag? That haircut looks too good for a straight woman though I must say, the best haircutter in my area is a Welsh woman trained in the UK. Apparently the training over there is more rigorous than here. Looks fantastic. Fits you perfectly.
 

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I dont have pots of cash to spend on clothes either - it's charity/thrift shops & Ebay for me.

Exactly! I love cruising through thrift shops/outlet stores looking for brand names at cheap prices. There is always something about new (to you) clothes that seem to lift the spirit.
 

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I love cruising through thrift shops/outlet stores looking for brand names at cheap prices.

I dont look for 'brand names', I just look for good quality, stylish stuff that fits & suits, if that happens to be a 'brand name' or 'designer label' it makes no odds to me.
Yesterdays 'haul' included a lovely dark olive green raincoat & some smart black trousers (can never have enough of those!) suitable for work. Both appear to be brand new ~ RESULT!
 

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On a good day, I think I'm a little above average, on a bad day I can look awful. A lot of it is to do with confidence, and remembering that physical appearances aren't everything. How you move, talk and flirt is just as important.

Trouble with me is I am quite shallow and go for girls based mostly on looks (as long as they're reasonably intelligent and nice). But if girls went for men on the same criteria I wouldn't stand a chance.
 

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I have been known to look at myself in the mirror while getting ready and saying, "I'm a hot mother fucker!"

I'm serious.

It's not coming from a place of arrogance. I would rather stay positive and enjoy my looks and my personality than to beat myself up for the appearance I don't have. Sure, like everyone else, there are things that I would like to change about my appearance. I would like some more muscle and a little taming in my hair, but I know that nobody's perfect. And even if they thought they were, there is something else out there better looking, stronger, richer, has more friendships, or whatever.

There is no best. There is no perfection. There's just you, being who you are, loving what you do, at the end of the day. And I would rather accept what I got and have thankfulness for my health, my friendships, and more because that just makes me feel warm inside.
 

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On a good day, I think I'm a little above average, on a bad day I can look awful. A lot of it is to do with confidence, and remembering that physical appearances aren't everything. How you move, talk and flirt is just as important.

Trouble with me is I am quite shallow and go for girls based mostly on looks (as long as they're reasonably intelligent and nice). But if girls went for men on the same criteria I wouldn't stand a chance.


judging from your pictures, dont know how attractive you really are,, but I must say you have a smokin hot body :wink:
 

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I don't have a clue . Girls in some way tell a guy that he is attractive ?
So far none has tell me anything. So I asume that I'm average looking.
 

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having also suffered confidence issues as a teen (thanks stepmom & dad), it's taken me years to realize my looks, kinda like my dick, are a little bit above average.

as i get older i bemoan the very grey color my hair's becoming, but otherwise am reasonably happy with how my body's holding up.