last year I was in Key West when I met a couple from Canada. They had been together for 18 years. I had so much fun talking to them. The older one (3years older, they were both around 40) said that he got sick when they first had to spend a night apart. The younger guy was the cuter one and he laughed at all my jokes. The older one wasn't as cute but he was a sweetheart and I can see why he got such a cutie. It was nice to see that they found each other early on, it seems like a rarity in the gay community.