Do you like dirty talk?

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when having sex? i find it hot sometimes the dirtier the better. how do some women feel about talking dirty? :biggrin1: like if a guy calls you a cunt during sex or says "yea lemme fuck that cunt" are you cool with that? i know not everyone likes that word but i love it.
 

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Never call me that, ok? We like naughty talk, but there are limits and that borders on trashy talk, which will result in the complete opposite reaction as probably intended. I do not like feeling like a whore, and that's what it sounds like.

Now, I may tell him what I will do in very colloquial terms that his libido quickly understands, but calling each other names meant to demean is not in the vocabulary.
 

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I am completely receptive to dirty talk so long as it is said without both animosity and motivation to humiliate. The vocabulary chosen is not a sticking point with me, but it has to be executed with the correct tone under the right contexts.

During some BDSM play, the dirtier the better. In fact, I would be amenable to more trashy and slightly derogatory phrasing. If we are having a more romantic encounter, that same vulgar dialogue would be a big turn off.
 
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calling me a cunt during sex?

i am thinking a bruised larynx is the best outcome from ya scenario.

dirty talk ain't synonymous with degradation/disrespect/misogyny.

ya can maintain a on-going fuck dialog without giving into to bad-porn script dialog.
for true... i'd rather talk about how much i want someone, how attractive i find them, how good something feels.. what i'd like to do next.

eta: what Ms. Paige said.. kink is a horse of a different colour.
 
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Someone should compile a list of the most shameless porn utterances that should never be spoken under any circumstances. It would be both informative and humorous in an embarrassing way.

Next time I watch some vids I am going to have to be keen with my ears and keep my sticky-notes handy. :tongue:
 

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I don't think I've ever really had or experienced "dirty talk", if it just happened and seemed natural I wouldn't mind I guess but it's really not something I think I'd feel comfortable with.
I have to agree with EllieP, paigexox, and MickeyLee though about not calling anyone the "c" word and I'm not even sure what you described is actually "dirty talk", it just sounds demeaning and degrading.
 

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The word "bitch" will have you masturbating alone for a month or more, too.
 

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My man can call me a cunt, a bitch, filthy whore, whatever HE wants while we're fucking. I'm a filthy Cunt Bitch and I LOVE when he tell me things like "I'm gonna fuck that wet cunt, come here bitch". He's the only person I've EVER been comfortable enough with to do that. I like to tell him "Fuck my asshole like it's a filthy whore too, spit on it!!" and his dick THROBS!! Sometimes we just have really good sex and dirty talk just doesn't come up but when it does he can say anything he wants to me. I'm his Fuck Toy and I love it. I've had other partners in the past that would try to say things like that but I didn't have that Kinky connection with them and I couldn't enjoy it. I'm actually more perverted than most of the men I know and believe it or not many men can be turned off when they realize their girl is more sexual and open than they are. I found a man who's on MY level of filth, who can appreciate it without getting intimidated.
 

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I also have to point out though that he's someone I've known most of my life and we're good friends as it is without the sexual aspect. He's always respectful of me and my family, but when it comes to 'dirty talk' I allow him and ONLY him to degrade/humiliate me if he wants to, which isn't very often we usually just have great, normal sex when we do it. I get more aggressive during sex when he says degrading things as if to take out my aggression on him, and it makes for excellent orgasms!! He let's me say what I want as well, it's not one sided. He doesn't actually think I'm s filthy whore that's only worth a cunt pounding, he just gets excited in the role-playing aspect of dominating me. I like that I finally found a man who can do that.
 

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My man can call me a cunt, a bitch, filthy whore, whatever HE wants while we're fucking. I'm a filthy Cunt Bitch and I LOVE when he tell me things like "I'm gonna fuck that wet cunt, come here bitch". He's the only person I've EVER been comfortable enough with to do that. I like to tell him "Fuck my asshole like it's a filthy whore too, spit on it!!" and his dick THROBS!! Sometimes we just have really good sex and dirty talk just doesn't come up but when it does he can say anything he wants to me. I'm his Fuck Toy and I love it. I've had other partners in the past that would try to say things like that but I didn't have that Kinky connection with them and I couldn't enjoy it. I'm actually more perverted than most of the men I know and believe it or not many men can be turned off when they realize their girl is more sexual and open than they are. I found a man who's on MY level of filth, who can appreciate it without getting intimidated.

This right here, is fucking hot. Standing ovation for you. Now thats what im talking about you know how to please a man on my level. Its not demeaning its just fun. If i was a girl, id do the same thing. its just a role that adds to fucking. Its not meant to demote anyone, its used to feel naughty. A+ *gold sticker on your paper. And on another note i applaud you for understanding the nature of it and that it is only between two people that love each other not just a one night stand.
Also i think having a big dick compliments the dirty talk, like yea take the whole thing you @#$%& its just hot. adds to the excitement.
 
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This right here, is fucking hot. Standing ovation for you. Now thats what im talking about you know how to please a man on my level. Its not demeaning its just fun. If i was a girl, id do the same thing. its just a role that adds to fucking. Its not meant to demote anyone, its used to feel naughty. A+ *gold sticker on your paper.
Also i think having a big dick compliments the dirty talk, like yea take the whole thing you @#$%& its just hot. adds to the excitement.

Thank you, I'm flattered :)

Oh fuckin A; I love to add 'big cock talk' in the conversation.. If he's getting me doggy and I happen to be bent over something I can actually feel his dick pounding into the chair/couch/whatever I'm being bent over so I describe it by screaming out "I can feel your cock hitting the fuckin chair!! It's so fuckin BIG!!" It's not just dirty talk at that point, I'm telling him a fact lol!
 

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Thank you, I'm flattered :)

Oh fuckin A; I love to add 'big cock talk' in the conversation.. If he's getting me doggy and I happen to be bent over something I can actually feel his dick pounding into the chair/couch/whatever I'm being bent over so I describe it by screaming out "I can feel your cock hitting the fuckin chair!! It's so fuckin BIG!!" It's not just dirty talk at that point, I'm telling him a fact lol!


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I've never really had anybody be -good- at talking dirty, so it hasn't ever been appealing. I legitimately had one fellow who said something to the effect of "Can you feel how deep I am, all the way in your womb". Granted, this poor bastard's prior sexual experience was jacking off to Japanese hentai, but... instant lady-boner kill. Just. No.

On the flip side, a woman who was Lady to me, and I was her pet/submissive, she used the phrase "my little whore" as a term of endearment. In hindsight, slut would've been better, because I wasn't getting paid. I don't like being called names, I'm not into humiliation, but the words bitch and cunt in and of themselves don't bother me. And I know some females have a really negative, visceral reaction to them. I'm not one of them.
 

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Inside the bedroom, treat me like a whore, outside the bedroom treat me like a princess.

I love dirty talk but most men are "awkward", not because they don't want to, but they will offend us. I love well mannered men, don't get me wrong but this "sensitive new-age guy" stuff is taking some of that raw masculinity away that us women crave.
 

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I love dirty talk but most men are "awkward", not because they don't want to, but they will offend us. I love well mannered men, don't get me wrong but this "sensitive new-age guy" stuff is taking some of that raw masculinity away that us women crave.

exactly. Look at some of the responses to this question. thats why in most situations men stop and go hmm should i be a man right now? no cause i will offend her. *being a man halted* But if i loved a girl i dont care what kind of sex we have cause i love her. so its not a necessity to dirty talk by any means, but it would be nice :rolleyes:
 

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I do almost all of the dirty talk during sex. My man isn't very vocal not even during sex, he's a soft spoken and shy guy. On the other hand he loves when I do dirty talk. I don't do it every time, but I use it for special occasions. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if he tired to dirty talk OuO.
 

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exactly. Look at some of the responses to this question. thats why in most situations men stop and go hmm should i be a man right now? no cause i will offend her. *being a man halted* But if i loved a girl i dont care what kind of sex we have cause i love her. so its not a necessity to dirty talk by any means, but it would be nice :rolleyes:

I think if anything this thread has shown that some women will punch you in the face if you ever called them a cunt, others would find it part of play or adding some sexual grrr to things.

I've met a couple of men who the dirty talk was good and the sex was also grrrr and I liked it. I think of other men where I probably would have laughed if they had tried it. It didn't fit the guy.
 

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It completely depends on the guy and the situation. My FWB is pretty much my Dom, he can talk as nasty and he wants and I love it. But I've been with other people that I think I would punch if they said something nasty.