Do you like it when your man makes noise?

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  1. Ramsey

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    Do you enjoy hearing your man in pleasure? Grunting, groaning, moaning, yelling hot stuff out etc.

    Or would you prefer him to just shut the %^$& up, not make any sounds, and get to work?
     
  2. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Whatever he feels like doing at the moment is good. Sometimes he's quiet and only makes noise when he cums. Sometimes he makes a little noise and talks a little depending on his mood. But he's not theatrical or anything. I find that to sound a little goofy- male or female.
     
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    Oh yes, it's such a turn on to know how much he's enjoying it.
    He shouldn't be yelling or moaning toooooo much though.
    But a little grunting, heavy breahthing and moaning when he's close to cumming/cumming is really hot.
    I also find dirty talk pretty hot......:biggrin1:
     
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    I love the manly grunt, reminds me of a horse or something. It's all animalistic and primitive. Totally offsets the female higher pitched sounds.
     
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    Love it! I quite like a few expletives to be used as well...as long as it is the 'C' word
     
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    A distinct and definite yes to hearing sounds of pleasure, as long as it's natural and not forced. Not only is it a great turn on, it's also an indication that you're doing a good job.
    Thanks to your avatar though, I'm now picturing a guy letting loose a massive Godzilla screech-roar and lasering the ceiling. Not quite sure if that's hot but it'd sure as hell be funny.
     
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    As I am a bit noisy myself, it would be most unfair to deny a man the same outlet!
     
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    Sounds and talk are expected. I don't have sex in libraries, you know. :rolleyes:
     
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    I love it...and dirty talk is always fun too. Like others have said, sounds of pleasure as long as they are natural, really turn me on, lets me know I'm probably doing a good job...and I love hearing when a man cums...nothing is sexier.
     
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    Sssshhh! Someone might hear you! :eek::biggrin1:
     
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    Agreed. I'm not quiet during sex and I'm not a fan of silence. Faking or exaggerating aren't good, but genuine noises are just SO hot. Hearing the grunts/moans/breathing is often more of a turn on for me than the visual, to be honest. Never have been a big fan of "dirty" talk though. 99% of the time I think it just sounds corny and it typically makes me giggle. People tend not to appreciate that :p
     
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    I enjoy hearing heavy breathing and small moans from guys when we're going at it. Especially when I'm dominating.. Recently had a slightly younger friend whom I have known for a while. He was a virgin and I was really enjoying making him squirm and make noises.

    Now, when the guy is in control, I do like to hear some sort of noise.. not grunting, but not loud moaning either.
     
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    Soundtrack, please
     
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    Pretty much what you ladies have mentioned is what I was talking about. I can definitely see if a guy is like "HHHHEEEEEEE! RRRRRRGGGG! YEEEHHAAAAWWWW!! BABY I'M UNCORKED TONIGHT, WHOOOOO!!!!" That it would drive you to the point of an accidental homicide via pillow suffocation.

    Natural, unforced, sometimes uncontrollable audio displays of pleasure are truly wonderful to hear, from my perspective.

    And sadly Keleios, I don't roar like Godzilla :p I'd have to think of some off-the wall explanation to some neighbors for that one.
     
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    I didn't even realise there were guys who remained silent during sex until this thread. Seems kind of odd not to make noise, unless the sex is really that boring.
     
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    Believe me...I've been with a guy who never made a peep...after awhile (he was my first) and I started watching more porn and talking to others after thinking it was odd, I realized it was.

    He would literally cum and I wouldn't know it (we were using condoms). I remember tons of times where I actually asked if he did...I never knew if he liked what I was doing, I'd have to ask (which is fine otherwise) and still would barely get an enthusiastic yes, never any feedback on what he wanted...

    This guy would also never go down on me, and actually said "hurry up" a few times in response to wanting me to cum so he could get it over with...yeah, so the silence was the least of his problems...he was pretty fucked up.
     
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    Silence during sex just seems so boring that it borders on pointless...
     
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    Yet another reason why I think you're awesome. :)
     
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    I have had partners who told me to be quiet... former partners that is. Perhaps the OP was afflicted with a woman like that.
     
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