Do you like seeing other men cum?

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I think it's interesting that even in straight porn, the cumshot in the end is considered "the money shot". Why is that? If are straight, I know you are not interested in watching other male performers, but what is it about them cumming that is so appealing in the scene? Is this when you usually cum? Just curious here...
 
No I don't like seeing it. I cum at the end of the scene because I want to see the entire scene but I don't care for seeing the guy cum.

I usually cum with my eyes closed (like a sneeze) so I don't really see the guy in the scene cum. The best part is cumming when the girl in the scene does but that isn't usually at the end so unless she has a particularly really good orgasm I wait till the end.
 
em·pa·thy
ˈempəTHē/

noun
  1. the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.
For myself (and I'm sure a lot of other guys), watching porn isn't purely about spying on a naked woman in some distanced fashion. There's an element of living vicariously and imagining yourself in someone else's shoes, which can & often does include imagining being the guy in a straight scene.

Watching a solo scene of a guy cumming isn't typically very interesting (because I'm intimately familiar with what it feels like to masturbate), but in a straight scene, yes, it's very sexy to me when the guy cums, especially if he's cumming hard and/or intensely or if the woman is really enjoying it and rubbing it everywhere. Facials suck though :p

I would say that almost all of the time, I cum when one of them cums (either the guy or the woman, depending on the scene).

This one's a good example. The guy cums early, before the scene is supposed to be over, at 3:45. You can tell he's like "Oh fuck" and everything felt too good and he couldn't hold it and finally just has to run with it. It's sexy (sexier than the second cumshot that finishes off the scene).

http://xhamster.com/movies/704176/cute_blondie.html
 
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Sometimes I cheat and fast forward so I can cum at the same time, but then again I am probably a fucking perv.

Seriously I think it is sort of like if you watched a football play and then they cut the camera away just as the guy crossed into the end zone. The fucking crowd is going crazy but your looking at the bench because the camera man fucked up. Next thing you know the commentators are talking about how great it was, the crowd is still going nuts and you feel fucked and left out.

Money shots give you porno closure and puts most of us in our happy places as we whack off
 
I'd usually cum when the guy in the vid cums as well.

I would imagine myself being in the shoes (or skin) of the guy and as such, I'd try to imagine what he'd feel like--what I'd feel like. Once he's nearing his climax, I would too. And money shots for both the guy in the vid and me.
 
If you've ever spent time with a bunch of horses on a trail ride, you know that when one stops to pee, they all stop and pee. It's the power of suggestion. The reason straight porn is so cock-centric is because seeing a hard cock makes me want to be hard; seeing a cock get sucked makes me want to have my cock sucked; seeing a cock cum makes me want to cum.
 
I think it's interesting that even in straight porn, the cumshot in the end is considered "the money shot". Why is that? If are straight, I know you are not interested in watching other male performers, but what is it about them cumming that is so appealing in the scene? Is this when you usually cum? Just curious here...

I agree with some of the guys on here, too. It pretty much does signal the end of the scene and so you want to cum when they finish, as if you are part of it. I usually think of myself as the man cumming onto the girl or whatever. It's not about the male performer but more of what he represents.
 
never really thought about it. personally, 95% of my loads are delivered balls deep. wife will sometimes jack me, and at 60+ I still shoot, not dribble. it's not like it was 40 yrs ago tho. she always said I shot big loads. more than any of her previous lovers. one day, she was jacking me while I was laying on the bed. I shot 4 "ropes" 6 feet to the wall and 5 feet off the floor.
 
I've never figured out why this is almost obligatory in porn. Especially when the guy pulls out and then jerks on his cock until he shoots on her face. I've never done that nor ever wanted to. I have, however, pulled my dick out of my partner's pussy or mouth to have her jerk me off, and I've pulled out just as I was starting to come (sans hands), but that's something different. Besides, it's always way more enjoyable to come inside someone, as opposed to on them--at least for me.
As per the empathy thing? I don't need to see spoo shooting out of a guy's dick to realize he's coming. Maybe it's to show that he really came, and wasn't just faking it, but I really don't need to know one way or the other--like porn was somehow reality.