Do you like the guy to be in charge in bed?

Do you like the guy to be in control most of the time if you trust him?

  • Completely agree!

    Votes: 5 29.4%
  • Agree

    Votes: 7 41.2%
  • Disagree

    Votes: 2 11.8%
  • Completely disagree!

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Neither - other

    Votes: 4 23.5%

  • Total voters
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ronnymexico

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I love to be in control (on top being the one to start out and being the one to read the girl and determine what she likes and how to go)

When you know the guy and feel safe with him. How often do you want him to be in control in the sack? I've always wondered if girls almost always want the guy to start and take control.
 

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I like a dominate lover. Sure every now and then I'll take control but for the most part I enjoy teasing and working a guy up till he's crazy with lust and then letting him loose to do his horny wickedness upon my body. I like men to be men in bed (if that makes sense to anyone?). Guys who embrace their masculine side, take control, and, well, fuck me silly. Tease, tease, tease, and then a good old fashioned ravaging is the best. =P
 
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How often for the guy to be in control? Depends on the guy.
50% of the time sounds about right. I like to be equally participant in whatever erotic activity where engaging in and can't imagine how boring it would be to always have one person initiating and in control. Or expect my trust in his taking control then seem hesitant to offer the same to me - ugh.

I prefer we both experience the feeling of control, the unknown/going with it, and trusting in our partner to understand what's pleasurable/exciting (or failing that, ask) and work those areas and desires.
 

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I love for my man to be in control most of the time. But sometimes I just want to take over and make him crazy.
 

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Before I met my boyfriend, I ALWAYS wanted the guy to be in control. Always. He established dominance very quickly and at no point have I ever felt anything less than completely feminine with him. Because of that and the level to which I trust him... I'm feeling more free to explore being the dominant one. I never had a problem being the aggressor but it was only to get someone fired up so they'd completely overpower me. Anyway, for the first time in my life I'm turned on at the thought of tying him up, teasing him mercilessly, using him as I please, denying orgasm, forcing orgasm... Even during all that, it will be in the back of my head that I'll "pay" for it, later :)